My identical twin brother has been dating this girl for about a year now, and they are going to be married soon. I'm happy for them, but he's asked me to do something I'm not too sure about.
Back in high school my brother had an accident on a jetski. To make a long story short, he hurt his groin area pretty bad and can no longer produce healthy sperm. His fiancee is really pushing him to have a baby, so they came up with the idea of using my sperm. If you know anything about identical twins, our DNA is also identical, so it would be just like him fathering the child.
I don't mind "donating", because I love my brother very much. But for some reason I feel that every time I would see his child, I would see him or her as my child and not my nephew or niece.
It would be normal to feel this way. right?
If you feel strongly about not donating then don't, don't let them pressure you into doing it.
ok, where the fıck do all these 12 year olds come from!? they fıckin try to be funny but are only amuzing themselves! I hoped they get raped by preditors for being at a place like this in cyberspace! I really do...
the first comment is right, wait till they are really married!! then there might be other chances, they are thinking about invitro insemination, he can get his semen and selectt he sperm, after all they only need one!! actually a few hundreds from where to choose, but he can masturbate as much as possible to get the needed sperm.
ask a dr about it...
That's not quite true. Unless you share a community sperm pool that you both draw from (which by the way is a sweet deal, i've got one set up in my neighboorhood.) then the child wouldn't be his. It would only look like him. Which is kinda like what me and Danny devito have going on.
Here's the important question, do you get to have sex with his wife, or do you have to have sex with a cup?
From an objective point of view, there's nothing wrong with it, if he was still producing the goods then theoretically you could both produce the same sperm, you'd just be donating genetic material. What it really boils down to is whether you could see it as that, so don't bone his wife whatever you do. If I had a twin I reckon I could do it...
Beware Jormungand, friend!
Or dating?