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my violent bf
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hi. i been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him to death. during the first year together he was so sweet to me and because i got so close to him i let him take my virginity , but the second year together he started acting cold against me and whatever i do or say is wrong in his eyes...the most shoking thing that i cant understand why is that he hits me on a regular basis,he hits me other really small things like , if im late meeting him or if im on the phone to my m8s. my m8s are telling me to dump him but he said if i dump him then he said he will do something..im really scared , the thing that hurts the most is that i love him to bits and all he does is beat me up? i have bruises all up my arms and back , luckily i have managed to hide them well.my ex boyfriend is really worried about me because i confinded in him , he and a few of my mates are the only ones that know. no one will do anything to help me because hes very popular and has a reputation in fighting , dont tell me to go to the police because its not just as simple as that.....i need to get out of this relationship before its too late! any ideas , and please i need sensible ideas
plz help
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Comments (18)
hotchick (3358)
2007-07-26 19:09:56
sweetie you should get out of this relationship right now before it gets alot worse.try talking to your parents about all of this because they might be able to protect you , you dont deserve this and its wrong what hes doing. i understand that you love him and yeah it proberly is hard to escape from him.i no you said dont bother telling you to go to the police but that is the safest option i can think of. violent relationships often leads to them killing you and it could happen to you if you dont do something right now. dont be scared,just get out of this relationship right now otherwise soon you will regret that you didn't.
go to anyone for help because this website will be no help for you at all
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hunter22 (9426)
2007-07-26 21:06:54
u suck cock n
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Stinky1 (9078)
2007-07-26 21:50:46
explain to him how you feel, and tell him you will have to take actions...if he is still mean to you then stop seeing him...nobody deserves this kind of relationship...very sad sometimes.
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Fyren101 (9575)
2007-07-27 09:57:27
I know this'll sound stupid but try running away when he asleep and stay with your parents and do not tell him where you are and if for some reason he finds out and is harrassing you get those guys you spoke of (your ex nd his friends or sumfin) getem to beat the crap out of him send him a message and if he continues you have to call the police it is the very safest thing for you to do I know you said not to but this situation could get real ugly real fast. He could very well be arrested for what he did and I know you say you love him but just think of all the things he does to you think about how he makes you feel and your love should fade he doesnt deserve your love leave before it is too late!
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ThruBrokenGlass (9597)
2007-07-27 11:27:41
I would hit him back. Beat the shit out of the fuckin jerk and then see if his dumbass touches- or even looks at you in the wrong way ever again. Guys can be so fuckin stupid.
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gizzie57 (9539)
2007-07-27 19:19:57
What you need to do is wait for him to go to work and get all your stuff together,load it in your car and get the fuck out of there.If you don't have a car then call one of your friends to come get you.After that you need to go directly to the police station and file a restraining order against him.If you cant stay with a friend stay in a battered women's shelter or with family.My sister was a battered woman and i know from experience that the situation will get worse before it gets better.He will probably get progressively more violent to the point where he might kill you.Teach him you are not going to tolerate this behavior or pay the consequences.
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Joho1010 (12361)
2007-12-23 03:03:05
I know that feeling, Loving a man which brings pain in more than one way. But I would say you need to walk away and walk away soon. If you don't you will be some where you don't want to be after so many years.
I just got out of a relationship that is like this, i still miss him, love him, and care for him. But for my sake of my life I walked away.
People are saying practically run get out when hes gone pack and go. ITS NOT THAT EASY!
Especially when you care for him or want to help. But what I would do is get a cop there to help you out with your stuff. Tell them he is violent and you just want to move out. You grab your things and say good bye and if anything happens he will get into trouble for it.File against him if you feel its needed and just move on with your life and dont talk to him again. His actions will catch up to him.
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Nearlly (12311)
2007-12-23 11:47:20
oh what's a little beating now and then? I like having my fat white ass spanked then drinking chinese baby-boy urine.
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victorcrown (12376)
2007-12-23 16:11:00
you said you "love him to death"

well, maybe you're right, because hes gonna kill you one day.

get out of there.
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-11 09:07:02
u shoud leave him and go to the cops if he beats u like u say he does he needs help and they can get him the help he deserves i hope u make the rite choice soon for your sake
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-11 10:44:48
you are hot u single
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maxwelhouser (13368)
2008-02-11 10:49:27
star im sorry there mean to u there all losers
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natedawg2008 (15469)
2008-08-02 06:31:33
leave him
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NeoFalcon (15397)
2008-08-02 13:24:44
FFS leave the relationship and if possible try to get in an eye witness program.
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njbreezy (15727)
2008-08-14 01:38:35
YOU NEED TO FUCKING KILL THAT DUDE I WOULD BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF HIM HE WOULD WISH HE WOULDNT EVEN TOUCHED YOU
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Mimir2 (3348)
2008-08-14 04:02:41
hide a videocamera and have him beat the shit out of you infront of it,
then sue him and use the video as evidence.

the video is also proof of former beating for probability of u being truthful regarding that increases with the existence of the video.

Ur virtually guaranteed to get him into prison for years!

Doing this would make u a real winner.

remember, the more abuse you record the longer he will be put in.
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XxXGummiXxXBearXxX (17279)
2008-11-01 16:28:05
How is it not that easy to call the cops. If you can't call the cops and he's threatening you and beating you then you're in a worse situation than you'd think.
Its kinda freaky that he beats you and you love him. How can you love someone who beats you. I've been beaten up a few times and yet I don't love the kid who beat me up. I actually hate their guts.
You need to call the cops or you need to pack up your things and run away. Go to your parents and get help. Seriously.
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XxXGummiXxXBearXxX (17279)
2008-11-01 16:31:52
@: Stinky1
Yes thats the perfect idea. Explain it reasonably to the psyco. Thats how it works of course. So all those times I've seen people get beaten up I should have just stood there and explaind that it was wrong rather than help the person. Duh. How dumb of me.
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