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My whole family hates me
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For my whole life my family has been through alot but it seems that iv always been the one thats gotten hurt the mostt, my dad threw me out at the age of 13 because i wasnt a boy and he couldnt cope with my teen years ....... so i had no other choice but to live with my mother , but shes never understood me she knows nothing about me , she never takes the time out just to ask me how my day was or any of the normal things a mother is supoost to do , i have 2 younger brothers and an older sister , my sister is on the drugs really bad and is a alchoholic not to mention shes pregnant but shes never really been around, my oldest brother is 11 and has alot of mental issues includeing add wich is really hard on me , he treats me like im nothing , hes so disrespectful , and it really hurts he dsnt actually understand how it effects me , his actions keep on getting worse and worse and all i seem to do now is sit in the corner of my room and cry until i get headaches and fall to sleep , i dont eat much, and when i do come out of my room all i do is fight with my mother and then i get really angry and cant seem to control miself .... i punch ...kick scream i get so angry i dont know what to do , i cant sleep at night bcus all i can think about is all the bad things that have happened to me in my life ................ im a nice loveing supporting person i care about everyone and i always seem to help them with there problems really well ...... im a good friend and a good person i just dont get why so many bad things have happened to me in my life or what i have done wrong to deserve all of this , i try and talk to my mother about the feelings i have but she dsnt listen to me she just walks away or yells at me ): i have no one else to talk to and this is the only website that i could find that i could talk about my problems, i dont want to be taken away from my family bcus i am currently seeing a really nice guy that cares about me alot and im afraid if i get taken away i wont be able to see him anymore , i love my friends and where i go to tafe i dont want any of that to change i just want to know if im a bad child ? or if i have done anything wrong , i dont get any of this im really confused ? my family hates me ..... why ?
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Comments (16)
Um... I don't think it's mentions cousins... Think u thought it was another post?? And why leave a comment if didn't even read?

By what u have written, unless you left alot of things out, it doesn't sound like it's your fault. If you can't talk to your mum or any other family member I suggest u talk to the guy your seeing about it or better still, a counsellor. They should have one at tafe that's free for you. Your life in the past may have been horrible but that doesn't mean u can't change your future. Make your life be better, get out of the house more so u r not in that environment for too long. Ignore your brother as much as possible and don't fight back with any of them, just stay out of their way as much as u can. Find a way to happiness and don't let anyone bring u down! Do your studies, have a great time with your man and work hard to a better life!
Talk to someone and let it all out, they arnt allowed to judge u and u get an opinion on your problems from someone that can't take sides.
Goodluck :)
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I'm really sorry for u cause I know how u feel. Just be careful with this guy u r dating. When I was young and in my house with similar things going on I met my boyfriend and he seemed like the nicest guy ever. Like he "saved me" from the problems at home, loved me, and even fed me cause my mom didn't or give me money to eat. He bought me stuff and took me out and it seemed like he really loved me. ----- now almost 6 years later he is a terribly abusive boyfriend, blames me for everything, calls me names, yells at me, he cheated on me, he lies to me all the time, he hits me, and controls every aspect of my life. I have a car but I don't drive it or go anywhere cause if i do he will cheat on me. It's miserable. I moved in with him to get out of the bad family situation.--- so even if your bf seems great now be careful!
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Wow...I feel horrible for you
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I'v read this, and yeah it seems to suck, but my mum died when i was 8 with my little brother inside her, my dad died when i was 12, my sister who was 19 when my dad died left to live with her boyfriend in New Zealand, and i was put into foster care, and couldnt even succeed suicide.. maybe that will make you feel better when you think of your life, just speak up... it ends happy with me, i have a job at a Magazine doing part time modelling with a leading agency, good luck

ZZ x
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*hug*
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BW1733
ask about the islam ,islam is the best Solution for you , go to the nearest Islamic center , or nearest Mosque and ask there .
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My entire family hated me, except for my dad. I plan to never see them again after I move out to college. I understand what you're going through. Best of luck to you.
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This Guy can be a potential escape for you my dear. If you really love him and if the feelings are mutual try and find a place together. Get out of that environment. I know that that is your family, but even families have a hard time understanding. You're mother seems like a real bitch for not taking the time out of her day to see how her own damn daughter is doing. No offense! Best of luck sweetie
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hihi911
yo my peeps dude i feel so sorry for you i mean REALLY SORRY ok ran away to a freind to stray with and steal money from your bad mom and bothers and puch him in the face thats all i have to say.
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Listen I know how it can hurt but you cant change anything,you just can try to do your best to improve your life.Go away and start new life.
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That's not normal, no, and I'm so sorry for the way your life has been going. I'm not altogether sure what question you're trying to ask, but my outright suggestion is for you to find someone who loves you and settled down.
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Well when this happend to me i just went and lived by myself. i was 16 though, and i lived with some stoner i met while i was playin guitar. he robbed me and got me hooked on alcohol. we started a band with his other matez and lived with no electricity cos we were makin bout $50 a day... second thoughts, dont move out. just get used to it. cos thats easier.
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I know just how you feel.. Everyone that is blood related to me is only nice to me when they need me...
I'm the oldest of three seven years older then my sister and ten older than my brother..
I have nobody to help me with my son. x-mas, thanksgiving, ect I'm always alone... It hurts when you are not invited or uninvited because one person doesn't want you there....
I'm 42 and the one mistake I've made is putting people before myself... Do for yourself first,,, always be kind to all regardless of who or what they are,... People are for the most part pretty weak and most take kindness for weakness...
I will always been here for you
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Sorry, GWOT.. didn't bother reading.
But, honestly just by the title.. I'd say you were a depressed teen who's been a screw up all your life. And now you're seeking redemption, but alas, no one has faith in you anymore. Your family doesn't hate you (atleast.. not your immediate family, lol. Can't really speak for those cousins and shit). Just keep doing what you want to do, grow up, be successful, and prove them all wrong. Just don't be too successful and make tons of cash, cause then you'll have beggers on your hands. Good luck.
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totally agree!!!! so positive!!! i like it!!!
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I don't even know you and i hate you, think how those poor bastards must feel.
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