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I know that I am normal, but I don't know if my wife is. She dose not like kiss. When I kiss her, she always tries to dodge. Our kiss never lasts more than 5 seconds. She never uses her tongue, and she does not like mine. Whenever I used the tongue, she kept her teeth shut. It is not because of my breath. I don't have bad breath. She loves me, but she just doesn't like the kiss. The bad thing is that I like it so much, I used to kiss my ex-girlfriend for twenty minutes or half an hour and we both enjoyed it. Now I don't even remember what that is like, I just know it is a wonderful sensation. Please tell me if she is normal this way. Is there anything I can do to change her.
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Oops. Anyway, don't worry. I do the same thing to my hubby, but I love him very much. The thing is that many times his timing is off (like he will want to start making out in the kitchen while I am trying to clean and in a bad mood. I hope I don't sound mean. Maybe you should just try setting the mood first. Tell her how beautiful she looks and compliment something small like her earrings or her hairstyle. Hold her for a moment and just tell her how much you missed her first. Then go in for the kill. Sometimes we women just need a little romance. I think most of the time my husband moves in too fast and kills the mood. Good luck! I know it will work!
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@: mstyle
Well, your comment explained something. Once she did say that everytime when we kiss, I always want more, like sex. That is one reason, but not all. Through the years, I found that she thinks that saliva is somewhat repulsive. She definitely doesn't like me to use my tongue when we kiss. I am certain that she loves me. There is no doubt about that. Maybe that's some kind of phobia, I don't know.
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flikr
making out with girls is fun
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My wife of 20 years doesn't like to kiss either, she says it's "too personal". Well that's the point of kissing. Every other girl I've ever dated kissed freely and enjoyed it. I miss it deeply. I've found that if a woman (or a man) is not willing to engage in this kind of deep intimacy, then there are deeper problems than just kissing (generally).
So for that, and other intimacy reasons, I'm planning to leave.
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@: wendigo
If you leave your wife because of intimacy issues then you never truly loved her. Love is something deep, something that you can work through together. Marriage is a bond and is scared. If you are married to her and are willing to leave her because of a issue that is going on in the bedroom then you never should of married her. No need to get married to anyone if you cant and will not accept the bad things that happens or the things that will happen.
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What a lot of bolderdust. Kissing is an human animal natural phenomenam. There can be no excuse for not enjoying kissing than abnormality in the person who can't engage in it. The really sad thing is that us kissers discover that our forever partners will never want to kiss.
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kjd
I don't like kissing I dodge my bf everytime he goes in for one idk why but I hate it I always loved the idea of it but when I do it its just terrible right now I'm making a deal with my bf that he gets to do something else in Exchange but if there's something wrong with me as u say there is why don't u tell me what it is ? Oh right u cant bc I'm a human who dislikes soemthing that most ppl like which is NORMAL
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@: wendigo
My will not kiss me, either. I'm sure it is an intimacy issue - ever see the movie Pretty Woman? I'm sure sex is infrequent, late at night in the dark and involving alchohol - and maybe as a reward or obligation. A person who wont kiss just isn't in to you. Mine won't attend counseling concerning any issue or speak coherently about anything whatsoever that is not on her own personal agenda. If someone will not try to work on the relationship get out while you can.
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i cna understand soem of the other comments, you need to amke sure she knows you just would like to enjoy some kissing time, nothing else and there's no need for tongue, unless she is pleased by a tounge in her mouth or putting hers in yours, there's jsut some people don't like it ok?, furthermore try and get her to realize you just want the kisses, and you would like maybe small intervals of maybe just a few minutes to kiss in a day, that's not too much to aks if she loves you. And in a sex health magazine i read it's nice if you embrace as well but at the right moments, embrace shortly if you want just some attention for a long kiss but not when's shes busy obviously. Get your little kisses at times of business and when you got the down time get in the 10 or more minutes of kissing on the couch, upright probably at first and let her know again, that you don't want sex to lead form it at the time, you'd just like some kisses,(trust me i love getting kisses all the time from mine without it being much more, just some good old snuggling and kissing!)
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Maybe you should kiss her in another place?
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Hmm, well, it could be because she doesn't like it that you don't use the words "the" and "it" when you speak.
(Just a thought)
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my wife is the same way not just with kiss's but any type of affection but i can tell you if u try to be the kind of man she needs you to be and make her happy in the other areas then that will come back too and if not life is to short be true to urself and getout
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oh and to these other cats if a woman dont luv you she would not be with you obv she does luv you thats why i said u have to make her happy make her want you again
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Kissing is an expression of intimacy.Speaking to friends they all agree, both of you may need to get the mood right to begin the kissing. Setting aside time for just the two of you.Where a little flirting plus compliments,set the scene where the dance of romance begins.Focus only on just enjoying the kiss and each other.Its about creating that intimacy to make it happen.
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My wife of almost 40 years does not like to kiss either. It wasn't until about 10 years ago that her father verified that as a baby, she would gag whenever someone kissed her. So this goes way back. She loves me, but still does not kiss much or long and never any tongue action. The rest of our life together is quite normal and enjoyable. I guess I've given up on a lot of kissing and she gave up being rich! But it is "'til death do us part."
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Maybe she doesn´t like french kisses or...Do you wash your teeth?
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Ollieo
That you are putting it all on her makes me think you are being a bit too selfish & are coming on too strong. Why don't you relax a bit, step back and respond to her moods/needs.
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Ollieo
@: Ollieo
Oops - that wasn't meant to be a reply to fashionstar...
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you are just gross you totally deserve to be alone!
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Women have sex mentally and in order for some of us want to kiss you have to warm us up. Just jumping into a kiss a deep passionate kiss it takes time, It takes a average woman about 15 mins into sex just to get turned on and it takes another 15 mins just to have a orgasm. So if you want a kiss a deep passionate kiss from her do something nice. Warm her up. Make her feel like you actually love her and it isnt about sex. Make her feel like she is the one for you! Eye contact is important and its the small things that matter. Do the dishes after dinner,run into the kitchen before her and do them. Wash clothes. Take out the trash without her asking you. Cook dinner. Its the small things that matter. When she first wake up and she have morning breath look at her and tell her how beautiful she is..
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maybe she isnt in love with you..

you should ask her why.
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I hate, Hate, HATE kissing! it is disgusting! I am 26 and female. I just think the idea of it is sickening. I think I'd rather suck a guy's penis than kiss him on the lips. My boyfirend also really likes kissing, it was more tolerable when I first met him. But for some reason the past few years it just plain grosses me out. I also don't like massaging him. You're all probably wondering why he is even with me; well, I've asked the same question! LOL
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maybe its all in your head.maybe your boyfriend is imaginary.
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I really do wonder why you are with him.
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someone needs a tik-tak!
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I am a wife that does the same thing to my husband. Don't worry. I
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@: mstyle
Your loss
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maybe she is having an affair
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I used to be like that with an exboyfriend in a really serious relationship but with my new boyfriend I like kissing.
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I'm sorry but if someone doesn't like kissing they're fucking dumb, kissing is amazing especially with the right person.
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I dont like to kiss and I am smart. It is a personal reason why people dont like to kiss.
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Smartness has nothing to do with it. It is emotion. If you don't have that, you will have to wait until you are re-incarnated. Karma baby karma.
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But what does karma have to do with it? I am confused not being rude, just confused is all. But you are right being smart has nothing to do with the emotional connection people share with each other when they are kissing;however,@Hersh0622 was only retorting to the arrogant implication that @OhStevieRaeee suggested, that people who did not like to kiss were dumb, and it is not just emotion only simple minded people could think this way, it is so much more than just an emotion, emotion is a type feeling not an action, and kissing is an action, an action that if both people are not enjoying the ACTION than there will be absolutely no emotion for one or both people. But everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
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kjd
You make since like i stated before i love the thought of kissing it was and still is amazinh to imagine but I can't stand actually doing it I waits I knew why or a way to fix it
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Totes right
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ka1lah01
Reddevil@. She doesnt like them anywhere.
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You just implied that there is something not normal about your wife because she does not like to kiss you.... everyone is making a lot of negative implications but only towards her, that is not fair at all. Maybe she loves everything about you but she doesn't like how you kiss, and because she loves you so much she doesn't want to hurt you by telling you the truth. So next time instead of assuming there is something wrong with her, look at yourself first, you may not be as normal at you think... and I think it is definitely not normal for a husband to try and change his wife obviously you should have taken that in to consideration before you tied the knot...its not like you just figured this one out, you knew before you married her saliva is not as repulsive to her as you think it just might be your kiss that she finds repulsive. Sounds like she loves you a lot and you should appreciate that your wife loves you enough that something as intimate and important as a kiss she was willing to give up, because spending the rest of her life with you meant more to her than this "20" minute pleasure you so strongly miss and desire, maybe she desires it as well maybe instead of trying to change her try changing the way that you kiss her she may teach you something you know!!! good luck to you both
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truly this lady do not like u ! i never say 2 leave her but i have deep feeling and that if women kiss u is because she love you ! i know a lady refuse that her husband kiss or hug her !?
even kissing her on face : no way ! so ladies on
world stop faking it we know you ?!
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its probably caused when she was forced to kiss her dads dick
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