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my wife wants
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my wife and i have been married for 4 years at first the sex was great. now i really dont think she has anything for me anymore.but anyways she has allways wanted to be with a girl so we had another girl come in our bed we all had a blast. she had fun and ofcourse i did. but now she is makin plans to see this girl alone and wants me to be ok with it. i would be but the fact that our sex live has went down hill over the past year or so has got me worried.is this something i need to let her get out of her system or is it the beggining of the end
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would she be ok with you and a guy doing it alone i mean im not saying that that would ever happen but its just a way to look at it and know if its ok or not
shes going to dump you.
You are probably gonna lose her. But you gotta teach women how to treat you!! Tell her that your not gonna accept her in bed with anyone else unless she doesnt want to be in your bed anymore. and make that her decision. If she dont wanna be with you, you dont need her.
you cant let the women be in charge ask her whats going on between them and if she confeses and its something bad take a vacation away from the women or stay with the girl she likes and talk to her that you are her man and you dont want her liking other girls more than her wife but dont be to harsh about it or that will make her ambitions even greater to get a divourse between you wife and you.
Next time yall do this kind of thing get another couple.
If the rest is the relationship is good and only the sex is bad, then she probably will not leave. But, I'd ask her why she doesn't want you involved anymore. Is she really a lesbian? Are you not doing something that the other girl does better, like oral sex? You can't just let her go off with her unless she keeps having sex with you and it starts to get better. Maybe she just needs some variety. The one thing the other girl doesn't have is a cock.
i would think that there is something missing, there is obviously something right that girl is doing and your not. do you still love her? then show her! take her out again like you used to
talk to her tell her that your not comfortable with what she wants to do, talk to her that you think the sex went downhill and try different things like doing it in your neighbors backyard or something with adrenalin like rape fantasy whatever gets u excited
There is such a thing called polyamory, which is having multiple lovers. In polyamorous relationships, the golden rule is COMMUNICATE. And if she wants to leave you, don't you want what's best for her anyway?
I don't get the impression you have much of a grasp of or say in your relationship. Sure, talk with her - but more importantly - go in there and tell her what you think & want.

Another quick review: she doesn't want sex with you; allows you to participate in a 3 some then blows you off from that to keep the other for herself ... get the picture?
its the beginning of the end my friend. just try to sweep her off her feet again like you did the first time. do some cheesy romantic shit. and then whisper to her in her sleep "dicks before chicks" and keep saying it.
A failing sex life 3 way = Your time is up.
3 or more ways only make things worse later on.
ask if you can watch because how dont you know it not a guy
ok math she did sey "i do" so just do as said befor sweep her off her feet go to a fancy (and i mean fancy) resteront(we dont use that word in my group of mates) and treat her like a queen try somthin different during sex like anal (if u havent) or but a porno and watch it at the same time or find another couple and have a 4 way!! but as for this other chick tell ur wife that ur not comfetable with this and just say if u cant be in it she cant eather. . coz its more than likley she just wants a little bit of a change all girls like a little adventure so giv it to hey just not on her own