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Is it normal that I want to share my wife with other guys? We have been flirting with the idea but have not gone through it yet. We, however placed a lot of pictures online from her naked and that just drive me crazy knowing other guys are looking at them. Having said that I would never have sex with another woman but would love to see my wife with another guy or guys. She is extremely attractive. It started by noticing other guys checking her out while we are together and it drives me crazy in a good way. I think it is the knowledge that even if she is with someone else she will still come home to me and knowing that she had sex with another guy would hurt me in a good way and amplify my already strong feeling to her.
Do you think it's normal?
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Lynne (24497)
2009-06-21 04:21:12
It is normal, as a thought. Diferent to actually do it.
My Hubby and I are on the swing scene, but we treat it as a hobby, nothing more. similar to a couple who may go to a football match, or do the gardening together.
It has to be a mutual respect and also mutual responsibilty.
Lastly NO means NO! Don't compound it by trying to find some other woman to fill the void.

Lynne
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lonelyinside (24457)
2009-06-21 12:53:47
@: Lynne
To Lynne

Thanks for your comment, however trying to find another woman is not part of this and never have been and I respect my wife and her wishes tremendously, would never do anything to hurt her. I guess I'm unique when it comes to this.
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JCKIIMP (24575)
2009-06-22 20:09:32
Yes its normal...and for me a turn on. As Lynne said it must involve respect for each other. As far as having your wife go f**k somebody without you being there, in my past experience its not a good idea. Now with my current wife, we only play when we're both there and it has been GREAT for the past 10 years!
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Liquidmetals (24697)
2009-06-25 13:34:44
I can see were you are coming from I am 24 recently come across a girl who was a little younger who wanted to be rather naughty with my self now while I been there done that I decided to test this out & asked her to go with my friend also so it started off with two lads & her myself being one, now I have asked her to do it while am not there & to come home to have sex with me after she has been out having sex with another guy. Its the fact I know she has been naughty.

I really enjoy watching her having sex with another guy or guys at the same time knowing that she is mine & I can have her at any time almost like look how cool this girl is & how naughty she will be. To be honest I don't get jealous of any lads at all its really hard to at times to get attached this girl is one of many girls at the current time I have in my situation.

I am sort of going threw the same thing with one of the girls am meeting, I just want to see her have sex & be naughty as I want to put her in a room with 5 guys class her as my girlfriend & tell her to perform acts on those guys while they tell me how amazing, gorgeous she is & naughty only to come home to me later on.
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THATSWHATHESAID (24827)
2009-06-29 11:56:26
theres one problem with this all though it will very exciting and great for your sex life it could also make you jelous are make your life feel like she has not expirenced life to the full
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dumrul (24960)
2009-07-02 01:50:50
believe me friend, it is good while dreaming but you may feel so bad if you make it real.
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4w04se (25055)
2009-07-04 21:20:38
I think that's sick! sharing your wife? Pay some respect Dude!!! and just thank God for what you have .. you're so gunna be in pain sooner or later cause of what ur doing
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dingopepper (25444)
2009-07-12 02:31:14
I've been doing this for years. If you have a good relationship and do it for the right reasons, its fantastic. I love the visual stimiulation and that's about as good as it gets. Just lay down your ground rules and I suggest you be sure you are the last to "finish". Otherwise you might lose interest before the part is over, and that could change your perspective.
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petitlutin (26122)
2009-07-26 13:45:40
It's normal to fantasize about it. I don't think doing it is actually the right thing to do for most couples, though. For some, maybe.

As a fantasy, it is fucking hot. Turns both of us on a lot. I think it's normal to feel excited watching our mate get fucked because it's hardwired as a trait from our animal past. Gets me cumming twice as much in her too...
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petitlutin (26122)
2009-07-26 15:29:22
It's normal to fantasize about it. I don't think doing it is actually the right thing to do for most couples, though. For some, maybe.

As a fantasy, it is very hot. Turns both of us on a lot. I think it's normal to feel excited watching our mate get screwed because it's hardwired as a trait from our animal past.
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