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Never been in a relationship.
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Right, I'm 18 and pretty self concious as I'm seriously underweight but nothing seems to rectify it. Anyway recently I've become the only single lad amongst the "clique" and it's the first time being single has got to me.

Being tall, skinny and a wearer of glasses I would probably agree if someone called me a nerd. Problem is, I've never done anything with a girl (and I mean ANYTHING), been in a relationship of any kind nor on a date. I'm starting to lose faith in this "love" crap and I'm ready to give up looking and forget about the whole thing.

Don't have the balls for suicide so I need to sort this crap out. Help!!
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Comments (24)
cabinet70 (4440)
2007-12-22 19:00:04
you might want to start exercises to build up your self and maybe get contact lenses and look to your personality maybe something wrong there
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-22 19:16:46
Cab is right, you need to improve your self image if you are not happy with it. I'm willing to say your not out going to women and that could be a big problem you need to step it up and not really look but put your self in the right situations for you to step up if you choose. Relax with the thought of suicide because trust me their is someone out there for everyone, even the fat ugly people.
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unibaIIer (12323)
2007-12-22 22:14:29
just let love into your heart, and you will find it everywhere!!! it's so amazing.
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charliebrown (3883)
2007-12-23 00:43:02
Looks aren't all that important, it's all about confidence. If you don't like yourself, girls won't like you either.

So do whatever you gotta do to feel good about yourself and you'll meet someone sooner or later.
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Joho1010 (12361)
2007-12-23 02:17:25
I'm a female and I love self confidence in a guy.
I don't believe in changing your self much for another person or just any male/female, but its always good to add new things and learn if you have to.
You will run into a lady one day. I mean your only 18 :]
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-12-23 07:07:35
you need more self confidence.once a guy is self confident he'll get the chicks usually regardless of what he looks like.

and being skinny isnt all bad for a guy,your cock looks bigger that way.do you think chris robinson ever had a hard time getting laid?

get some contacts and some self confidence and youll be OK.BTW there is nothing wrong with being inexperienced at 18.There is no rule that says you have to be laid by 16.
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dohertyfan (12368)
2007-12-23 07:15:52
Cheers all. I've been given a diet by my doctor and I'm running 4 miles a day at the moment and for the last 3 months or so. Not alot is happening yet mind.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-23 08:25:13
@: dohertyfan
Hey watch the running, you need to power lift and eat dont run it will cut you and make you loose muscle. You ever see any cross country runners who are big body builders? No they are all skinny. Lift weights.
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dohertyfan (12368)
2007-12-23 12:24:20
@: Chris_Ufc
I'd just got the hang of the running! Typical!

I'll cut that out then and nick my Dad's weights. Cheers!
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-23 12:26:36
@: dohertyfan
Its ok to run but not 4 miles maybe a mile and a half or two miles 3 or 4 times a week, no more or you will loose body mass.
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dohertyfan (12368)
2007-12-23 12:53:48
@: Chris_Ufc
Thanks for your reply. I'll take that into account, how often would you recommend I should lift weights without ripping my arms off? :D
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Crookshanks (10749)
2007-12-23 13:30:18
You ever asked a girl out? Searching is one thing but actually asing is another. Good luck, all you need is confidence.
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dohertyfan (12368)
2007-12-23 13:31:36
@: Crookshanks
Of course, it just gets me nowhere fast.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-23 14:22:48
@: dohertyfan
Well you need to work your body up to it, the idea is to work out 5 days a week. You want to work a muscle group each day. Like

Monday- Chest
Tuesday- Shoulders
Wednesday- Back
Thursday- Arms
Friday- Legs

Get a partner to work out with you so you stay with it and make sure you run about 3 or 4 times a week two. No more then 2 miles each time though.
And get some crunches in there too.
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dohertyfan (12368)
2007-12-23 16:11:25
@: Chris_Ufc
Cheers! Here's hoping..
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nearly (10533)
2007-12-24 07:40:04
@: Chris_Ufc
their is someone out there for everyone, even the fat ugly people.

Not so in your case loser. No one in their right mind would be seen dead with you asswipe. 24 year old virgins are not in demand these days. Especially fat ones like you.
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nearly (10533)
2007-12-24 07:44:34
@: dohertyfan
dohertyfan! Is that as in the snooker player? I wouldn't listen too much to these morons in here. They think they know it all but in reality they know phuck all. Especially that cretin known as Chris_UFC. He is a fat overweight 24 year old virgin who wouldn't know a girl if one sat on his lap. He has been stalking me for weeks because he fancies some gay sex but he isn't my type. I preder skinny men.
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nearly (10533)
2007-12-24 07:44:54
@: nearly
preder = prefer
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-24 17:18:00
@: nearly
Nearly shut the fuck up. I spent 4 years in the Marines and I'm in great shape right now, I could out lift you pound for pound and out run you at any point in your pathetic life. Ive only had sex with 3 girls and thats because I was with one for 5 years and we broke up last december and I will admit I havent been layed since then but ive went out with a few chicks and got pretty far with them but its didnt work out. Im looking for a relationship not a friday night fuck. So shut the fuck up old man.
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24hourman (7306)
2007-12-24 19:09:43
what do you need a girl for?better off without em.
just love yourself man and get on with your life
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nearly (10533)
2007-12-26 08:53:49
@: Chris_Ufc
They didn't work out because you are a racist homophobic who is into old men, animals and incest. As for being fitter than me because you were in the marines! RAFLMFAO. I am 60 and I'd give you a good tanking anytime and I wouldnt need a crowebar to do it either!
Go away you pleb.
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Chris_Ufc (8299)
2007-12-26 08:57:26
@: nearly
Being in the military has nothing to do with being in better shape then anyone else I just wanted you to understand that I'm not a little pussy running my mouth on the net. Ive been out in the real world and people trusted me with their lives. Has for your 60 year old ass giving me a good tanking I doubt it very seriously but you can keep dreaming. I'm in great shape because I work out 5 days a week for 2 hours you on the other hand are sitting around waiting to die of aids. Have fun.
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Pandy123 (15623)
2008-08-07 20:29:04
Lmao... tbh if your a 60 year old man.. and your on the internt at your age givin young men cheek.. you must be the fat loser incest twat... I repect UFC that you have been in the marines.. I was in the navy for 5 years then father died and i had to come home... but nearly... is your name ment to be NEARYDEAD..lay of you fag and go die.

to the topic, Just work as hard as you can.. take it slow to begin with.. and eventualy you will get there.. :)
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dude1150 (15636)
2008-08-09 14:38:47
I think that's a little weird.
And I also think girls wouldn't wanna date someone with no experience in anything like that.. unless they're like you.
Idk. Gives me the killer vibe.

Just get out there.
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