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never been kissed - 59% Normal

ok i am 15 year old female and i think i am not normal. i have had 7 b/fs so far but i have never had my first kiss....its not like i dont want to have my first kiss cuz i do. its just i am one of those girls who wont make the first move. i wait for the guy to make the first move...i no that may sound odd but thats just how i am cuz i am a shy person....rite now i have no b/f and no one thats a possibilty...is it normal that i am 15/f and have never kissed anyone b4??? i need comments..and maybe tips on how to be more out going
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its the age some guys are just shy maybe try moving in a little bit giving him a hint that he can unless all the guys you dated were gay lol
get them drunk and theyll be walking all over you.
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Seven boyfriends and you weren't kissed?! What'd ya do date them for a few days, and then they ditched you?
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no some of them i went out with for 2 months and i was always the one to break it off cuz nothing was happening and the relationship wasnt going anywhere....and its not like i didnt want to get kissed...i did...but i just dont make the first move i wait for the guy to make the first move...thats just the way i am
That's perfectly normal, and in my opinion, good. Too many young people these days are kissing and getting into heavy petting before they are ready. But at 15 I don't see any harm in a little kissing.
You sound like a normal girl, so don't worry, and don't let it happen before you're ready.
If you are ready, or feel that you are, take it slow. Tell your boyfriend how much you like him,
and try maybe starting with a warm hug, or a peck on the cheek when he says something sweet. Stare warmly into his eyes and keep his gaze. Trust me, that one usually works. If he's your boyfriend, he probably wants to kiss you, so don't be afraid that he doesn't. Don't push it too much, it'll happen, I'm sure.
Chances are the reason the boys haven't made a first move is that they're afraid of you rejecting them.
In the end it doesnt matter. Kissing people at a certain age is somthing our society sets up to controll you. Dont worry about it. Just the man tryin to keep you down.
I dontk now. Well I'm a guy I got my first kiss at 14...

I odntk now with me and this girl she asked me and we both did it at the same time outside in front of the school....

Lemme tell you after your first kiss. You will never forget it, the time, date, or month. For me it's one of those highlights in the world. It's great.
hah but now im single now anyways haha
yo dont feel bad...im 16, had kisses n everything...but not making out...somn would say im a lil shelterd...but i aint a virgin...its jus my gf's never really wanted 2 make out...my last one had sex wit me and we never made out...but u is normal...everyones time comes at diff. moments
i got blown before I got kissed
Skip the kissing part. If you want to do whatever it is you want to do then do it without worrying that whatever it is you want to do will deam you as a slut.
Maybe if you stripped or did some lap dances for prospective boyfriends you might get your first kiss. As well as a first fuck. Make some good cash as well.

Problem solved bitches.
sounds like you bf's are fridget, i would've attempted to do alot more than kiss on thge first date
Most certaitly is normal.I'm a guy (14) and have never had a girlfriend.And I'm the kindest,most polite guy you could ever meet.
iya. dw
neither have i. im 15 too (female)
i thought i was the only one
iv had about 6 boyfriends... but has just never seemed to happen
i had the greatest boyfriend ever. he was soo nice. and he was really shy an quiet like me.. but like you, i never wanted to make the first move, an seemed he didnt want to either.. i would kiss him on the lips an stuff but i never snogged him
so then i ended up dumping him. and i havnt had a bf since
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
i did have another bf about a year ago an he tried to kiss me.. but i wouldnt kiss him an i just laughed an dumped him bcuz i was too embarassed to be seen with him. aha
just make a first move yourself, it wouldnt seem that weird, it would just show youre interested, but be interested in him first.
Hey there!! well many people do things at different rates and i really wouldnt worry. i know some 15 year old girls who have never had a boyfriend before so consider yourself pretty experienced

If you really wanna have your first kiss then just try to make the first move. Just steph out of your comfort zone and go for it! If your going out with the guy it shouldnt be that bad .. Remeber everyone does things at different times so there is no rush x0x
Omg
Wow Well they must of Been not the right guy?
>,< Puzzled
Think ur self lucky that u get a b-f...
My mates Dont get them And 1 hasnt had one yet and there both 14! Just a year younger than u So Dont worry bout it Your Normal =']
i have make out alots time
ha im 15 never had gf or kissed its totally normal....i hope
Hun, save it. You know what, in 10 years you won't remember much of any of them.

I've never been kissed, but that's my choice.
Don't waste anything that you have to give on 'boyfriends'. Save it for the one that really matters(your husband). Okay, maybe a peck on the cheek. What you have is worth keeping.
didnt get mine till i was 15. it was well worth the wait.
welcome to my world of no relationships and nothing left to livefor
Kiss my tangy ass
No its not normal.

Unless your ugly or fat. (dont lie to yourself)

But just get another boyfriend and kiss him. He wont fit it
its normal to be 30 and never been kissed
I was 17. It's totally normal.
Gotta add to that last comment - go movie style.

Put your hand on the side of his face and look deep into his eyes. He WILL make a move. :)
yes this is normal i am 14 and i was kissed when i was about 12 but i just had my first french kiss a few weeks ago
Your prolly wicked fat.. NO ONE likes fat chicks... theres no excuse for being fat.. call me a cold hearted bastard.. but there isnt. if your NOT fat.. then no its not normal.. another hting you have to learn is that at your age.. having a BF is all crap.. you have such a small pool of penis to work with... wait till you get into college... oh man... just go find a cute boy.. make out with him. done if your waiting for a true love kiss.. forget it kill yourself now and get it over with.
Too many people rush into things too quickly these days. Most people your age are having sex. Take your time hun, if your first kiss is with someone you really care about, sparks will fly! & it will be worth the wait.
so i guess bj's are out of the question?
that's perfectly normal. there are people out there that don't even have their first kiss until like, age 18. don't try to rush something that should be special. trust me, i've been there and i know what it feels like. yeah, it sucks to feel like you're the only one at your age that's never been kissed but trust is, in the long run, it won't even matter anymore. as for being more outgoing, i'm not really sure what to tell you. just be yourself, and live life to the fullest. why waste your time being shy when you know you'll regret it? sure, it's easier said than done but so is everything. take chances. twenty years from now, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did. so with your next boyfriend or guy that you feel things could happen with, YOU make the first move. you can't always wait for things to happen or they never will.
hey im 15 also and never been kissed. i feel the exact same way! I couldn't of put it as well as you. we are a lot alike. it makes me feel like somethings wrong with me. idk. im glad there's someone else out there that knows what im going through.
Heya!!
im 16 Years Old.. and had my first Kiss..like a few Months ago. I have lied in the Pass abut boyfrends. i dated a guy wen i was 13 for 6 month but at that age was too scared to kiss him. I have Lied abut boyfrends since him.. and my first kiss.. told every1 was like 14.. but that was a lie. and they stil think tht was true. i feel bad for lying though. the guy i dated wen was 13 met up a few months ago and we kised, but it was horrible. and i wish i hadnt. now ive met this guy on holiday and kissing him is amazing. with tht guy before i didnt want to make first move i was too scared. but with the guy on holiday..my boyfrend I feel totly comfortable. its just a shame its long distence but anyway ull get there and it will be totaly awesome and hopefuly with someone you love. dont do what i did. the first kiss should be spical but for me it wasnt.. Anyway bye good luck hunny xxxxxxxxxxxxx