NEVER KISSED NEVER BEEN ON A DATE

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Not to scare you,but I'm 19 and I haven't either.Don't force it your time will come.Trust me I know how you feel,but sometimes high school isn't the best place for relationships because everybody get's into you business,if you have a bad break up most likely you have to see them everyday.But the right guy will come along.Don't worry about it just focus on finishing school.Once you finish school it's easier and your older and more mature you can also experiment with your sexuality without worrying about any rumors or anyone judging you.Trust me there are many many girls and guys your age who hasn't had that experience your NOT alone.P.S try 2 find groups or clubs were people share you same interests.

Shunti made an excellent post.

High school years are not easy to form romantic relationships. There is too much control by the school system and regulations that make it very difficult to make friends. It's even difficult to get dates to functions such as proms. You have limited places to spend free time in private, are bombarded with tests to no end, have bells going off roughly every 47 minutes, are shuffled from class to class, and then have to go home to tons of homework and projects to complete.

I felt the summer months were the best to make friends. Spending time at a beach club or hanging out with friends at night worked in meeting new people. The school year is very difficult to meet people.

You may want to take the initiative and approach someone of interest whether you are a guy or a girl, doesn't matter. Just keep it casual, low key, ask if the person would like to join you in going someplace specific over the weekend. If you get a "not sure" or a "no thank you" response, move on, no big deal.

Once I entered college everything changed. All the clicks formed in high school were absent when freshman year arrived in college. Everyone in their first year is on an equal basis, starting from scratch and open to meeting new people.

Students like to feel in a safe zone, grab onto what makes them feel comfortable and who they know. The real world does not operate this way. People have to open themselves up to strangers to deal with everyday routines.

Just realize you have it the roughest at this time, and quit comparing yourself to others who have such relationships. Nearly all of them will end within a short time, despite their looking so cozy together.

Relax, your time will come, as Shunti wisely pointed out.

I had no problems making friends with the girls in school sisophous, I'm not sure what you mean by school regulations. Maybe my school was more lax than the high schools you've encountered, but I had no problem getting dates to the dances, and the only real restrictions were that people had to go to class and couldn't makeout in school.

Probably some guys in your grade who would like to date you, just are to shy to ask you out, be more friendly and talkative to guys. Dont be shy around them, girls are in control. >.> Trust me, girls ahve all the power >.>

good advice comes from dragoon.

Jesus, what a bunch of shut-ins.

When I was 15 I had never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and the only guys who showed interest in me were fat or ugly nerds. I couldn't help but wonder if there was something wrong with me. Not to be conceited or anything, but I'm pretty, nice and intelligent. I have a lot going for me, so I couldn't understand what the problem was. Later I found out that guys were actually intimidated by me. YEARSSSS later I found out about boys in my school who liked me and I had NO idea. Oddly enough, the only ones who had the balls to ask me out were the guys I would never go with! The next year, I met a guy who I was really interested in, so I did something I had never ever done before. I told him he had nice hair! Next thing I know, He was sitting by me, asking for my phone number, coming over to my house, KISSING ME, and on and on and on. It's been four and a half years since and we're still together. who knows, maybe 16 will be your year. or 18, or 20. Just try not to stress about it, it will happen!

Perhaps your ugly?

nope im not i model

Aww. :( don't worry. you're 15. live it up. i'm the same age as you and i've never been on a date.

I'd shag you.

maybe you look like a dog.

I kissed for the first time when i was 43. Then i had lost my virginity at the age of 44. Trust me. There's worse. Till then i always masturbated...

Same boat, my friend. You seem to be in exactly the same position as me.

wel im only 14 and iv kissed but iv never been on a date, i think it might be kind of akward with just me and some guy. but no worries to you, like some of the ppl said before, they might just be scared to ask you, iv been in the same sistuation, i liked a really popular guy but he never really showed interest in me in that way so i never tried any thign for the fear of being turned down but then one of his friends told me he likes me hes just scared so i started being more flirty to him and he asked me out....he turned out to be a bad boyfriend