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By the time I was 13 I had lost my virginity FIVE TIMES, so yeah, you're probably not quite as attractive as a half-eaten dog.

Don't most 13 year old boys still have cooties?!

FUCKING HELL 5 times, i lost my virginaty at 17, you was an active one wasn't you.

ow and it was worth the wait.

Oh, and I also broke my hymen 3 times.

(for those of you who didn't catch the irony)

Every male person I grew up with at school lost there verginaty at 16 17 18 so realy you was a very early starter, without making people young feel small.

I didn't even have pubeic hairs at 13. (lait bloomer)

You are fucking 13, you don't NEED a boyfriend, and you don't NEED to be sexually active. Don't ruin your life child.

citizen premier, dont be such a bitch! attractiveness doesn't mean being a slut. just because you threw yourself at boys to get them to take your virginity, doesnt mean that you are any prettier than the poster.

I'm the original poster, and although I thank you for your opinions, I didn't mean that I wanted to be sexually active, I just want a meaningful relationship with a boy. Like with flowers and candelight dinners, no matter how cliché it is.

How's a 13 BOY going to afford that kind of stuff??

Being just friends and hanging out at Burger King can actually be more fun than going steady!

Hmm maybe I need to add even more irony for these people to get it.

When I was five I had sex with the entire republic of the congo, TWICE.

Irony means sarcasm for anyone who is still confused by the above post.

im sorry citizen, i couldnt hear your tone of voice (its a computer) forgive me?

Baby girl, take your time. Don't rush it you will regret it, just because everyone else is doing it. You are only 13, at 13 I didn't know what a blow job was. Seriously. Take your time, don't be in a hurry to grow up

Dude, I'm SEVENTEEN, nearly 18, and I've never had a boyfriend. It's not necessary at your age, believe me. What are you gonna do, marry the guy?

okay, first of all...EVERYONE needs love. and yeah this girls 13 but she needs to experiment. you all know when you were 13 you were chasin after boys too, so quit hounding her about being a f*cking kid. The SAME thing happend to me sweet heart. All through middle school and now high school the girls tell me im so pretty but none of the guys i like like me...and still continute to not like me. All i can say is wait. I'll wait with you, cause i havent found one either! =[

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it's really quite possible that the boys you like do like you but they are way too shy to show it. Girls are usually attracted to boys at a much younger age because they go through puberty quicker. This makes them rush to experiment with relationships and is why they often are attracted to older boys. Don't rush, just make friends, have fun, don't kid yourself about romance because most guys don't get it that concept till they are much older than you are now! The best relationship you may find is a close friendship.

You're 13.

13.
13.
Yes, it's normal to still be single at the ripe old age of 13.

I lost my virginity when I was 14. Let me tell you, it's not all it's cracked up to be. I was far too young and just got my heart broken and ended up feeling used and dirty for quite a while. Don't rush it. You're far too young to be worrying about things like that.

basically you need to put out more. just do everything that crosses your path. and I mean EVERYTHING! true love will get here eventually...

You're freakin 13.

Go outside and fly a kite or something, go swing on the swing or.. I dont know... play freakin hopscotch..

You have time, and it get worse.. trust us.

MY f**king God...13

I am 30 and never had a GF..

Now how do you feel?

Yeah, you better be careful. Not finding your true love at 13 is REALLY bad on the emotions...puleezeee. Date when you're 16, fuck when you're 18, I dunno.

It's totally normal. Hell, I was only thirteen two years ago, and I've only had one boyfriend.
That's right, girly. I've have one boyfriend that I was with for a good year or so. We recently parted ways and I've been single for oh...maybe 7 months? Of course, I'm an ugly son of a biatch, but you get the idea. It's okay to not have a boyfriend.
Anyone who says otherwise is just kidding themselves, and they probably don't have a boyfriend either.

You're probably fat, ugly, and, judging from your incredibly bad English, stupid. So yes, for you it is normal.

Pepople who use htis site to say mean things like this bitch daid last comment....Tell me where to meet ya'll so I could whoop all your asses. Me AND my dog

im 14 and ive had loads n loads of boyfriends , some serious boyfriends and some not! dont worry your still only young and you have your whole life to get in a relationship.dont go looking for a relationship just wait until the right boy comes along!

From a guys point of view, do this...find a guy you think is cute, ask if you he wants to go out, let him call you. If he doesn't call the next day dump his ass for being dumb.

Why dont you come over and hop in the cabinet with me

I lost my virginity at 13, didn't have sex again until I was 16. I had dated a lot at that time and now I am 31 and I wouldn't say I regret it because I am who I am for everything anyway, honey, take things slow. You are probably a really good kid who everyone loves. That sometimes makes it hard for the guys to see you in another light. If that's the case let them know that you aren't just one of the guys, but trust me when the time is right it will happen (dating not sex). Right now it's important to develop who you are and not let others define who you are and when you start dating early that sometimes ends up being what happens.

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Quit worrying and just relax. Likely the boys really like you but shyness is why they do not respond to you in the way you would like. Usually around age 16, the guys will be more comfortable approaching a girl or at least the shyness element will not stop them. You sound a bit too mature for the guys your age who tend to be very immature. There is a huge difference in maturity in early teen years with girls far ahead of boys. As time goes on, it levels off, more equity brings about more friendships and more fun times.

By the time I was 13 I had 4 girlfriends. When I turned 14, I got a c*ck suck.

screw your best friend


fuk his brains out

um fallen...yeah ur a 100% fagget...

"im on the verge of being desperate for a relationship with a boy. is my situation normal?"

let me answer by saying no this isn't normal. Like everybody else on here: YOU'RE 13 DAMMIT!

you should really wait a couple more years before dating, its too early for you at this age, sorry.

0hh my god, some people on here are so rude. Honestly u just ask a simple question and they get all lairy with you because of your age. I'm 13 too, and trust me, all boys are complete dickheads, not even worth it. Oh and also, all you older people, things have changed since you were 13. For a start, it's the 21st century now.

Oh, heaven forbid a 13 year old not having a boyfriend!

Everyone your age already has one, has had sweet but gentle sex, and loved it. also having never b roken up with anyone and no harm in the world..

Gawd, not many chicks at 13 have boyfriends. Wait till highschool, and trust me, somone will ask you out, even if ur super fat and ugly

Ask the biggest loser your proabaly ask popular people
And if the cornballs say no den u noe ur ugly

I wasn't ready when I had my first real relationship at 14... let alone 13 lol

yes, this is normal. don't get desperate though. you just need to let things happen. you never know who'll come into your life. you'll get a boyfriend sooner or later. but for now, just enjoy being young.

Yeah wait. I dont see the point in datin this early. My friends has tons of friends who have dated and they dont do anything. At this age when you go out with someone its more of a label then actually doing something for most relationships.

woops i meant to add a comment not reply to one. that last one was directed at the story not at applestoapplesx comment.

It's ok, my friend is 15 going on 16 (she was held back) and she hasn't even had a boyfriend, kissed a guy, or even held a guys hand! so i'd say if none of them are not going out w/ you then maybe they know that they aren't ready but then again guys at my age (14) are all jerks and would say anything for a girl. maybe they think you are too good for them ;)

Trust me it is not strange at all. im only 14 but i can tell you right now its not weird and dont worry. wait until your a little older. i know i dont have much room to talk but my first real girlfriend was this year. i went out with her for 7 months and nothing like what your wanting happened. it takes time for great things. the universe wasnt created in one day now was it? so relax. and when you get a boyfriend. let him know how you feel but dont be too pushy.

Yeah. Its normal. Most girls are ready for relationships at 13, but guys arent. Wait a few years.

If you cant do that, go bi and fuck your friends

trust me.. i had my first boyfriend when i was 13.. NOT WORTH IT! just wait for the perfect guy

no boys... go 4 a girl

DONT RUIN UR LIFE!!!! wait untill u have a house and a job just think wat ur parents will say when they notice u r pregnant!

DOnt do it untill u r REALLY ready!!!

or do wat chicken_little says go for a girl u cant have a baby with a gurl!

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I hadn't gone into puberty at 13, not yntil I was 15, lol I'm didn't start getting pubic hair until I was 15 or 16 and I'm 17 and still a virgin

I'm 15 and i have a boy friend for about 5 months now. he was a jack off for the first 2 months. Until i told him that if he keeps acting like that than tell him this!

"If you want to be with me, than you need to start acting responsible, or were done"

Thats why we girls let them know that were in charge.

PS............................

wow, didn't know what a blowjob was a 13? Must have been one retarted little kid

I must have been a early bloomer, i had pubic hair at like 9.

You're 13 honey!
Your love life shouldn't even start,
Till you are in highschool,
Believe me,
Highschool is where you find,
All the hotties,
That crush on you back ;)

Uhm, you're thirteen, get a grip on your over-active hormones. Boys aren't ready for relationships at ALL at that age.

I think what you can derive from all of these posts girly, is that relationships at a young age are not exactly good. However gross or unrealisitc it may sound, I had anal sex with a girl when I was 15 and got HIV. Smart me, huh? Biggest slut in the school, and no condom :)

youre 13 get back to youre ken doll babe.

dont fall into a hole and smoke weed with all the whores in your grade.
be yourself and surround yourself with good hearted people and youll probly meet a really nice guy

dont be a Follower.

I'm 18 and I'm a virgin, for personal fears/reasons. I'm in no hurry and I've been told so many times, that I should be absolutely SURE the guy I'm with makes me have the most exotic, erotic climax, meaning, he's got to be experienced, and he's got to be kind or loving enough to make your first-time a time you won't EVER forget.

Just wait, be patient, virginity is just a word for a sexually mature species that hasn't had sex yet, that's all. It's not really that big of a deal other than, you shouldn't waste your first taste on a stupid punk, k? K.

Just wait, most guys your age are only concerned with 'guy things' and haven't woken up to the idea about relationships yet, Since your 13 I'm assuming your an 8th grader. just chill until high school, it'll really open up

yah im a guy im 12 (mentally 20 no lie) yah ur situation is normal chances r ull get a boyfriend at some point if u want a boyfriend at that young of an age u have to find someone that is not ut typical 12-14 year old (like me but im taken) all i can say is good luck

no

i never had a boyfriend but i want a boyfriend this year.

LOL, that's sad. I had my first girlfriend in Preschool.

Go suck a cock bitch

It is not normal to be concerned about your relationship status at 13!! At thirteen you should be worrying about whether you have enough Zit cream, getting your braces removed and getting straight A's in school. Boys cause too much distraction especially if you want to finish highschool so you can get a job and support yourself. At your age a dumb boy will impregnate you and drop you because he's too stupid too realise that penis vagina = baby!! Stay away from boys till ur at least 18 and make sure they have goals and that they have some kind of brain in their head!