No one has ever asked me out

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Take a little initiative, I am sure people have wanted to be with you, but just never got the chance to do anything about it. You need to give them the chance and put out signals and such, or what is probably much more effective is just go up and ask.

you shoudl ask a guy on a date. whats their to lose?
and be a lil flirty with the guys you like, too

It's your vibe.... The signals you are giving guys isn't right. Be flirty, confident but not skanky!! You wanna make sure they respect you as well as being interested in getting to know you

I don't understand why ppl like artnais reply to stuff like this.

I'm 27 and never had a date. However I truly believe that dating is becoming an old ritual.

Since your a woman.. you will have no problem getting a date. It doesn't mean you will like it. But there are tons of guy who would like to have a date. Sure there's a lot of jerks out there. But you sound like a nice girl and if you see a nice guy. I'm sure it will be fine. Course I can't promise you that.

However as far as guys go, and me in particularly .. I'm attracted to very fine women. For me, women out of my league. Some call this shallow. But I don't. It's not to say that I couldn't be attracted to a less than stunning woman. It could be because I watched a lot of porn as a teenage and that was my attraction. But it's good. B/C I feel it's creepy to stare at a real person and think bad things about them. I always treat ppl with respect and hope for the same from them. Obviously it's not always the case.

I guess my advice is. Just be nice and friendly. And if you like somebody. Just hang out with them more. Forget the idea of "dating" and just do the things associated with dating. Kiss the person tell them you like them. I'm sure if they don't like you.. you will know.. or they will tell you so. If so then you have to move on. Or wait for that person, however that's not really a good idea, since there's no telling if they will ever be free.

My ex. which I do call an ex even though technically I never met her. Is now married and has a child. But she and I are still on good terms. I just didn't have enough money to be with her.

Girls have the pluses in life.. so don't be down.

Yeah, just be more sexual.

I mean this totally honestly: Maybe you're TOO normal? Maybe try showing some of your quarks. People love those. they're deal sealers. I mean, that's why people love sites like this too. It's the quarks that make us all wonderful. Let your unnormalness shine on through a little.
I've got a girlfriend a lot like you. 26, really cute, quite physically attractive, but just too damn scared to let her inner dork shine on through. The day she does, she'll have dudes knocking down her door with flowers.
Give it a try! :)

Maybe they are intimidated by you. Maybe they feel there is no way they would have a chance so they don't ask.I have been married for 14 years but every guy I have dated (including my husband) I made the first move. My husband said he always saw me around and wanted to talk to me but I always looked busy.Try flirting a little.
I personally wouldn't do the online dating thing. I know some people have been successful but I know even more that had nightmare experiences. If you want to meet someone, do it the old fashioned way and go OUTSIDE!

You just now beginning to find that strange and your 27?

Huston we have a problem...

Even at 27 it's ok to not have been asked out by anyone. Much of the time, men can be more shy than women and will thereby avoid confrontation. If you find someone that you really like, then go up to them and flirt or ask them out! It couldn't hurt to try. Oh, and if you do get shot down, it's not the end of the world. Some people just won't be interested; it happens to people all of the time.

not odd at all.. my situation is exactly the same.. maybe you will have to be the one to do the asking out :)

I am Thai and live in the US. There are plenty of Thai, Chinese, Japanese, Hispanic, etc. girls around but I also only like white girls. My girlfriend is white and is a Mormon.

Its ok, Im 28 and I feel the same! Ive never been in a serious relationship and rarely get attention from men. Ive been asked out officially like once and the guy treated me like crap on the date, so essentially Ive never really been asked out by a guy who really likes me. Try online dating! It will be easier to go on dates, and who cares whether or not they are good dates- just do it to raise your confidence level. You sound really nice and normal to me, you just need more confidence and the guys will be attracted to you! I have hope for you and me both

So what, you 're still 27 and have plenty of time to have dates. Just make sure the next time you see a guy that you like to go ahead ask him out yourself instead of waiting for him to do so because guys can be really shy in this stuff and you don't want to lose the opportunity :)

You know the old saying: "If you want something done right, better do it yourself." ;)

It all depends on how you define "normal". Focus on yourself and what makes you happy. Don't let society's finest get to you with, "Huston we have a problem"... Houston, we do have a problem. The other cities are starting to get jealous of you. They want acknowledgement that there are morons plaguing their insides, as well.

If you want to date then ask guys out. It's the 21st century-if you're waiting for old style customs to come around again you're dreaming. Today's women have to work as hard as men to find that perfect person. No more sitting at the side while the man makes his move because that man is going to be approached by a girl before he has a chance to even look your way!!

lol i searched up donkey punch and found this :3

I would say that this is perfectly normal, however of you have never had sex nor some kind of physical contact then I would say that this is not normal at your age, but I'm going to assume that you've been kissed!!

Come on dudes are shy !!!