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No oral?

Ok here is my problem. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for almost a year. Everything is great. We do live about 3 hours away from each other, but other than that, we have a good relationship. So when he comes over, we have sex about 7 times a day. Everytime before we engage in sex, I give him oral pleasure. Now out of all 7 times we have sex, he returns the oral pleasure about 1-2 times. Im starting to think that he does not want to give me oral often because of the fact that I squirt and I nearly scared him half to death with that. Im the first. I called him up and asked him if he would like it if I played the part of starting the sexual encounter by telling him to "give me oral" and he replied with "only if I feel like it." I feel as though he is not into it.
What is a good way to find out if he does not like it without sounding like a basket case?
What is your opinion on this?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (16)
Stop peeing in his face
sounds like he likes it a bit but only when its fresh
well first off Im doubting you squirt anything when he orals you except maybe pee.but Ill act like youre serious and answer anyway---- some guys are a bit hesitate to do oral because they arent quite sure what to do with all the openings and flaps and the clit and all the stuff a girl has down there.

give him directions on what to do and he may feel more secure and it could be hot for him having you tell him how to eat it.
Yeah, some girls squirt... some call it female ejaculation. From other posts made by guys there are alot of boys and men out there who find squirting a real turn-on. It could be that he just finds it gross in general, or, he could be inexperienced and feel like he will embarass himself by messing around down there without pleasure.
I'd just be up front and ask him.
i agree with potato, comunication is everything
First, the reason why this guy won't do it is because he doesn't want "PISS" in his face. YES "PISS" How many times this has to be explained. Some women get wetter than others, but women do not ejaculate!! Listen guys and girls; bare bones. For guys it is the course of life. No ejaculation = 0 babies! Unless you went to a clinic. Why would women need this bodily feature??? they are the recipient!!! Women never did this previously until the invention of the internet and within the last 3 years. Now, ever woman is running around pissing on guys saying they ejaculated/squirted. Ejaculated/squirted what???? and for what reason??? having sex for men feels good so they "can" ejaculate because it makes life. For this reason the vagina becomes "wet". Men have a prostate that makes them ejaculate. When women start to grow one of these let me know. Until then, it's PISS!

Oh, I forgot; I know what it is, we live in the equality era. "Anthing you can do I can do better" right girls. As far as your boyfriend goes pissing in his face is nasty, second, all sorts of crap comes out of a pussy, babies, blood, mucus, fungus/yeast and that daily white discharge that smells like rotting fish. You know the stuff pany liners are supposed to catch.

CAN YOU BLAME HIM!!!!!!??????
@: tinkius
Actually, girls can "ejaculate". It's not the same thing as guys do but it ISN'T pee. It's just a build up of fluids which are released at orgasm, some girls do, some don't.

She isn't peeing on you, it's not even coming from remotely the same place, the fuild that does come out shares an ingredient or to with pee, but so does cum. So wise up, idiot, and do some research before you going telling people about their own anatomy.
he can do it to with kandoo
dont pee in his face
Yep, you got it...too many here give their opinion, but facts would be more helpful....she's normal....and don't worry about it....hum....enjoy life...
Ok, first off girls can ejaculate, but some more than others, Ive had the experience of having a girl squirt, yes there is some urine in it but it is a mixture of that and her ejaculation, have you never tasted a girl when you were giving her oral? It doesnt taste like urine, and it is sticky and close to the consistency of male ejaculation. As for you squirting thats a good thing, and there can be a few reasons as to why he doesnt want to give you oral, personally i would give my girlfriend oral whenever i mean how can you accept a girl going down on you but you wont do it to her? how is that fair. Just talk to him and find out, do you shave? Mabye he has a problem with going down on a woman that doesnt shave around her vagina, or mabye it is the fact that he doesnt want to give you oral after you had sex because he thinks its diry and doesnt want to lick up his own ejaculation, you could try cleaning afterwards mabye, just talk to him about it hun! Communication is really important, and be honest!
if he cant take the splash he shouldn't be in the pool.

hold the head hostage and negotiate from there. (i shouldn't be the one to state this obvious move. dont you have a mother?)
See how much he minds doing it if when he comes to see you and walks in the door someone else is doing for him. Might change his mind and then he will stop being such a pussy.
Man that's fucking awesome, he must be gay or something! I'd let you squirt in my face and day.
give him anal

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