Normal to have not done things with a girl by 18?

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Its not abnormal but I think you should have had some contact with a girl however slight even a game of stinkfinger. I suggest you work on changing this soon

start little by little. maybe you are kinda shy like to ask a girl out. so start by that, kinda like training yourself... first ask a girl out, then try to start sweet talking to the girls, then you can decide for a next step, like touching her hands in a way she will know you eventually want something else or just straight kiss her. little by little bro, dont worry is not weird and keep your heterosexual feeling for ever!

I am 20 years old, and have never had anything to do with any girls. So do not feel bad....... but I am gay that is why. Girls hold no interest to me.

I'm going to be the same as you, I'm 16 right now, though. So I still got two years.

Just give it some time, dude.

no way... if you have not fucked a girl, that does not mean you are gay...
that is bull shit and gay people should stop trying to get people into their team with this bullshit talks....
i started fucking when i was 24 years old and i have no gay thoughts or feelings...
take your time, be responsible and have fun at your own pace..

Hay Cheer Up Try get out there =] x

i was sexually active from a very young age. i am so jealous.

I'm 20 and am only recently sexually active. I was pretty shy and had little self confidence up until about a few months ago.
I'm going to be honest with you and this may sound weird, but the answer to your problem is alcohol. I'm not saying get piss drunk, but alcohol does two things for you. One, it makes you look more mature which girls like and two, when you're buzzed a little you get more talkative and more interesting. You'll have no problem talking to girls and being suggestive when you have a drink or two in you. Not only that, but when you do things buzzed that you never thought you'd do, it builds you confidence when you're sober.
So just relax, take your time, go out partying with your friends and the time will come where you'll get some confidence and before you know it you'll have a girl in your bed.

It may seem like everyone around you has been in relationships but they haven't, many are like you, completely normal and had no involvement by age 18. Those who are in relationships like to flaunt it at a young age and make others jealous. I found once I got out of high school that girls are far more approachable whereas in high school they were more standoffish, uptight and to themselves around guys of the same age. I suggest you just talk to them, and ask some to join you to go someplace, a sports event, lunch, dinner, a movie. Keep it very low key, nothing very long and in no time you will find a girl who connects with you. Give girls who are not drop dead beautiful, just average looking, a chance, they often are the most fun to be around. Good luck and quit worrying!!!! It's all a numbers game.

then you must be ugly.