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Is it normal to have been with a guy who is three years older than me(I'm 19) and not have had sex yet? We have had chances, but he knows I have only had sex with one other guy while he has had experience with multiple other girls. The other night I almost would have let him get in my pants and I know he wanted to badly, but said he feels we should wait. Is this normal behavior? Especially considering we are college students and neither of us have been laid in a long time? btw the relationship is going very well.
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Comments (7)
sisophous (3738)
2007-01-20 18:26:29
It's more the exception than the norm but at this stage it doesn't seem like anything to worry about. It's very possible he ditched the other girls soon after sleeping with them and may not want to repeat the same act on you. Sex may strengthen relationships, bond two people in the short run, but it also has a way of ruining friendships and cause guys to look elsewhere for action after they get their fill with a girl.

As to what is going on in his head, could be one of many things...... fear of getting you pregnant, fear of passing a disease onto you, fear of acquiring a disease from you. I think my initial guess is more probable.
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callo (3023)
2007-01-20 20:45:17
it'll be more rewarding when you wait.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-01-20 21:12:44
Maybe he feels your more special than other girls if you really want to let him know you want to. Dress in a sexy outfit next time your alone and tell him you want him
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deamond (5379)
2007-01-23 09:20:32
If only it were not normal
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The_Buck (5933)
2007-02-15 07:01:56
ridiculous.
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advicemaster23 (5969)
2007-02-17 20:29:40
he is trying to stall he doesn't want to fuck you or he is just scared and lied about fucking with other girls
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icutmyself5446 (6048)
2007-02-20 13:01:01
sounds like a winner...he might have the herpes and care about you enough not to want to spread his love bumps with you
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