same situation. in love wit my bestfriend, but she dun feel the same, i think about it ALL the time, the thoughts of her consumes me theres never a time i dun think bout her or wana be wit her, i even dream bout her almost everynight, and it kills me when she says itll never happen, even though she says it wont happen i have hope that for maybe some miracle will happen and it will happen, its a very hard thing to live wit, ive wanted to break things off wit her a few times but cant stand the thought of hurting her, so i am trying to keep in my feelings to myslef. but seeing her wit other men kills me and even worse she wants me to be friends wit them and i really dun wanna be in that situation to be hurt even more. but its the sacrifice i make to keep the bestfriend ive ever hadd
The only thing I see here is you not having the balls to end it. I'm not trolling, I've been there and I wish someone told me what I'm telling you now: you should end this. Saying it will ''hurt'' her is just an excuse, the one being hurt by this situation is you. She won't like you that way ever so you should end that friendship to forget about your feelings. She will get over it but you will be the one who suffers the most. You should find someone who loves you back. Conclusion: that friendship is toxic.
NOT lucky to be in love with my best friend
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