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Older husband doesnt want anymore kids...
I am 24 years old and have three children.
My oldest lives with his father/my ex husband and I rarely if ever see him, yes...its aweful and no I dont need anynoe to address this issue or b**ch at me and tell me I am a terrible mother... it is a long story I wont get into now.
My other two children, my daughters are my world. I love them so much and my life is complete becuase of them. They are both under the age of 3 btw.
I met my now husband almost five years ago and we were married last year after dating and living together and having our two daughters. We got married becuase we love each other dearly and also it is the best choice for our family, two married parents, insurance and monitary assurance for the girls incase something should happen. It was the right thing to do, to move forward and be official.
My Husband is nearly 14 years older than I am. He has two children from a previous marriage that are practically grown and now our two younger daughters...he doesnt want any more children. He wants to be able to stop working and relax someday.
We both agree'd with our last child we were done having children for that reason. But I have to admit deep down I want more kids...but I think it is unfair of me to ask that of him with his age beign a factor. I feel depressed thinking I wont have any more kids or be pregnant again or maybe someday have another son. Any advice and is this normal???
My oldest lives with his father/my ex husband and I rarely if ever see him, yes...its aweful and no I dont need anynoe to address this issue or b**ch at me and tell me I am a terrible mother... it is a long story I wont get into now.
My other two children, my daughters are my world. I love them so much and my life is complete becuase of them. They are both under the age of 3 btw.
I met my now husband almost five years ago and we were married last year after dating and living together and having our two daughters. We got married becuase we love each other dearly and also it is the best choice for our family, two married parents, insurance and monitary assurance for the girls incase something should happen. It was the right thing to do, to move forward and be official.
My Husband is nearly 14 years older than I am. He has two children from a previous marriage that are practically grown and now our two younger daughters...he doesnt want any more children. He wants to be able to stop working and relax someday.
We both agree'd with our last child we were done having children for that reason. But I have to admit deep down I want more kids...but I think it is unfair of me to ask that of him with his age beign a factor. I feel depressed thinking I wont have any more kids or be pregnant again or maybe someday have another son. Any advice and is this normal???
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you have people in your life you feel love for just be happy.
your hormones are taking over wait a few years and reassess the situation, your still young.
These babies will effect you in ways you have no idea they can. And believe it or not your relationship with them will be much closer than with your then adult children.
Also your husband is over a decade older than you. He is tired. He is looking forward to retirement and he WANTS to enjoy his grandbabies. Consider his feelings in this also.
I hope I have given you something to think about. God Bless
There is no right answer - but there are 5 children, when you count your husband's, on the scene to whom you can devote all your attention and resources. Maybe focus on that. Talk to your husband a bit more if you feel you need to, but do make all of what you have, including yourself.