Ok when my husband and i first got together i knew he had two sons from a previous marriage but he told me they lived at his mothers and wouldnt be around. we married about three years ago and have a 3yr old girl together. all of a sudden he is fighting for custody to get out of child support and having to play daddy to these kids and bring em home. he loves his sons to the best of his ability but he drags these kids home and expects me to solely take care of them while he plays video games with his buddies. at this point i really resent these ill behaved get away with murder little brats and want at least for their "FATHER" to shoulder some of the responsibility or them out of my life. Is this normal?
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Everyone is always so surprised and upset that the kids misbehave, but how are they supposed to act when they are being raised without love and rolemodels and compassion and discipline?
The parents in this situation need to be involved and caring individuals, not resentful or sitting around playing video games and ignoring children.
You married a man with kids. You must be prepared to accept and care for the entire package. You are a mother of a 3 year old, you should know by now that all kids need love and respect and someone to teach and lead them.
It's your own damn fault for marrying someone with kids, if you didn't plan on having to take care of them. Dads these days are deadbeats, it's hard to imagine that you didn't foresee this in the first place.