Ok when my husband and i first got together i knew he had two sons from a previous marriage but he told me they lived at his mothers and wouldnt be around. we married about three years ago and have a 3yr old girl together. all of a sudden he is fighting for custody to get out of child support and having to play daddy to these kids and bring em home. he loves his sons to the best of his ability but he drags these kids home and expects me to solely take care of them while he plays video games with his buddies. at this point i really resent these ill behaved get away with murder little brats and want at least for their "FATHER" to shoulder some of the responsibility or them out of my life. Is this normal?