Online dating problems http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/ I'd offer you some advice man, as I am not much older than you (36/m), and have been in the same boat before, and have had decent and not so decent experiences with online communication as well as off. Let me know if you want to chat or whatever. http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-303217 2009-08-01 14:05:14 Pick up in a bar http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-295804 2009-06-19 03:02:33 Go off line & meet real people. http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-295165 2009-06-13 16:42:31 it NEVER worked for me the way I wanted! People are there with no expectations at all,just to kill some time at work or when they have"nothing" to do!Usually they have dozens of online "friends" and rarely they will show interest for only one person! If you are looking for something serious try dating web sites that people pay for such as lavalife or eharmony!At least you know they want something more serious if they are willing to pay for it! Good luck http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-291546 2009-05-19 20:33:23 i think you should talk to her a couple times, before you guys hang out. and, NEVER send a lot of emails to the person, thinking they didnt get it-you might come off as desperate. http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-288030 2009-04-19 15:06:07 Thanks, people. Great advice. This is an ongoing thing as you might imagine, so keep the comments coming! http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-286532 2009-04-07 12:47:44 Don't ask a girl out in the first email. Have 2-3 chats and than get her phone number. You have to call and invite the girl out. You have to talk before meeting. http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-286138 2009-04-02 23:00:00 Send A LOT more emails, winks, whatever. Try to give away as many free meals as you can. Don't expect to find any trust without a few face-to-face meetings, so keep everything as safe as possible until the ice melts. Eventually you'll get lucky or go broke. http://isitnormal.com/story/online-dating-problems-27759/#comment-285443 2009-03-27 16:54:48