I recently met a girl, and we ended up having some no strings sex. Great sex with one drawback. I hurt her with my penis. I am more than a bit oversized, and it has never been a problem in the past. All the other girls called it "good pain".
We have been seeing eachother regularly for a couple weeks. I would really like to take this to another level, but she is afraid of my penis. When we talk on the phone she has a nervous/flirty tone. We have stayed intimate, minus the sex. She says that she "just wants to be friends for now".
I don't know how to approach her about this without scaring her away. Or when to approach her. I don't even understand what is going on in her head. I feel like she isn't telling me something. The mixed signals are confusing me.