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Paranoid of love
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My boyfriend has told me he's not in love with me [its only been a month]
but I know he likes me alot, he says he's crazy about me. and i can see that too, i really can.
but I'm a insecure person to begin with so I only half believe what people say in relationships, and I dont trust easily. and i get attached to people easily, although, i'm usually good at not letting myself, but with him it was instantly he broke down all the barriers i put up. i just feel like i like him alot more than he does me. and that worries me. ive never felt this strong about anyone.
and I'm constantly paranoid he's going to leave me or somethings going to happen. he means the world to me.
i cant enjoy being around him [i fake it well]
because the whole time half of me is unhappy/ worrying/comparing myself to his ex/overthinking what might happen in the future.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (10)
ladyoftheworld (4309)
2007-01-11 08:37:52
Hi there, its early days yet, you can't rush love. Obviously he thinks alot of you and he is willing to make a go of the relationship so I would hang in there if possible with him. It sounds as though he has been totally honest with you about everything and that is certainly a good sign. Some men would just say they love you even if they didn't mean it so its obvious to me he respects you alot. I think this relationship will work out for you both but the love stuff takes time, it can take a while to properly fall in love so hang on in there and good luck, hope this helps
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Fantainfinite (4355)
2007-01-11 09:00:42
It sounds to me like you're the typical crazy white girl desperate for emotional abuse and extremes, falling in love, falling out of love. Do everyone a favour and just fuck off and go watch another crap season of the OC acted buy a bunch of emotionally manipulative jews. Dum bitch.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-01-11 12:19:03
Just sit back and relax, just because you like him more than he likes you doesn't mean he's going to leave you. If he likes you, he'll stay with you.
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drawinghearts (5229)
2007-01-11 15:04:13
@: Fantainfinite
no, im not a typical crazy white girl.
and i hate the oc. calm down, i wanted advice, if you don't like it, leave.
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crazyme (4954)
2007-01-11 18:23:13
Just relax and be yourself. Don't think or compare about you and his x. It's not good. You need to do better than her. You need to make him feel that you're better than anyone he can get. You have to let him know that you are perfect for him. Don't worry or compare or jealous. Those things can make relationship turn bad. Now he's only like you, not love yet. Maybe some day he will leave you. So you have to be careful and ready for that. Don't let yourself down.
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applestoapplesx (6020)
2007-02-20 19:44:06
just relax. seriously, why waste your time thinking up of outrageous scenarios and getting all working up over nothing? it's pointless. when you guys do break up, you'll regret having spent the whole entire relationship not trusting him when you could've had something amazing. if you have no reason to believe all that shit, then why are you thinking about it in the first place?
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-03-25 01:46:30
You just started dating him, get a grip. You probably are insecure. Life doesn't end if your BF doesn't love you.
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Be_weird_with_me (8615)
2007-05-31 13:52:40
Most people can't tell if they love someone in only a month, at least he's being honest and is not one of those guys that say they love you on the first day. But if i were you i'd stay with him, only time can tell what will happen.
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beatles_steffi (9285)
2007-08-17 12:47:32
he shouldnt love you after a month relationship, that would be crazy....at least he has the decency to be honest, and say he doesnt love you......if he lied, or you forced it out of him....that would be worse.
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EmoFobSk8Dex (10984)
2007-10-06 10:27:22
it's only been a month, so chill, just have fun with him without doing overrated stuff. Dont think too much about the future and breaking up. Have fun, dates, making out, talk sweets, hugs, kisses, holding hands. if he really likes u , and u guys keep going out, it will develope to love and soon in love.
But dont let the little problems make u think too much, theres always pain in relationship, try to overcome that. =] goodluck grl
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