Porn anyone?

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personaly i enjoy porn but only when im in between relationships when i have a girlfriend i forget porn as my needs are met porn is a tool i use when i cant get the real thing. Your man shouldnt need porn and should respect your feelings on the subject if he dose need it it may suggest deeper problems within your relationship. I have been in relationships when girlfriends where she enjoyed porn and we enjoyed it together but its not everyones cup of tea.

Thanks, yup so my bf doesnt need porn. i fixed my problem, so to all women i say, porn doesnt need to be accepted as a way of a man taking care of his needs when he is in a relationship. I think my man has his needs taken care of pretty good. :)

I've masturbated to porn since I was 12 or 13. I'm 57 now and have been married to but one woman for 32 years. When we were younger my wife only wanted sex 1 or 2 times a week. I needed it at least once a day. So I filled in the gaps masturbating. She's even less interested in sex now but I still masturbate daily. Our relationship is good. I've been able to remain faithful. I'm SO thankful for porn.

i think that porn is a normal thing for a man or a woman to watch and masterbate to. im still a teen and i watch porn everyday. i say there is nothing wrong with it . i think its super sexy!

yea i agree...porn is a wonderful thing..nd whoever came up with the idea of porn i sa genious:)

I think men just like porn you can't stop them watching it. As long as it doesn't interfere with your relationship too much.

If you are still going out with your boyfriend then WOW. my girlfriend try to make me not wach porn when we were going out, so i when along with it. because we were having regula sex. but then she wouldnt want to have sex so i would look at porn she would have a cry so we broke up. and trust me it was wearth it. girls in porn do things that REAL NORMAL girl will never do!:)

I'm married to a recovering porn/sex addict. He admits his problem and is doing things to control and prevent it. I am in NO WAY a prude. I could stay in bed all day long with my husband if I could. The thing with his problem is that it DID interfere with our relationship. He was pushing me away and we didn't have sex for 3 weeks a year ago. I like porn, but it's nothing that I want to do without him. Anyway, he stopped for a while; almost 6 months and things were beautiful. He regressed and each time he would go on, it would be for longer periods of time and the content was borderline illegal. His excuse was that guys like porn and that as an adult and American citizen, he can watch whatever he wants simply because he can. After I sat down with him and told him that there is a difference between being an adult and being a mature adult and pointing out that he watched inappropriate porn anywhere from 4 to 8 hours, (he denied this until I showed him the history) and the fact that it scared the bejesus out of me and hurt me, he realized that it was a real issue. The thing is, if your bf doesn't recognize that this hurts you and claims that it has nothing to do with you, you will be fighting this issue for a very long time. I don't regret marrying my husband or staying with him, but it's hard and if you don't feel up to helping him or staying by him, then maybe it's time re-evaluate what you have with him. Good luck to you and I hope that things work out for you. :)

you shouldn't discourage this because it is completely healthy and normal. and face it, wouldnt your rather him jack off using the porn (and probably thinking of you too) than go out and cheat?

It's normal and you shouldn't stop him, even though if i was in a relationship i wouldn't really feel the ned for porn.

In previous times, going to a whore rather than do your "respected" wife was considered normal. Before that, raiding villages and taking a wife as spoils of war was considered normal. Beating your wife with anything narrower than your thumb (aka the rule of thumb) was legal and considered normal. Just because all guys do something doesn't mean that they still are respecting you! Don't let a guy walk all over you - make him face what it really is: He's pretending to fuck other women. I'm glad you put him in your shoes too! There are plenty of guys out there who actually respect their SOs and won't watch it if you don't watch it... I have one. And for anyone who wants to say I don't understand - I used to be an adult film actress, have been on Club Jenna and Adam & Eve DVDs and STILL think that looking at porn is only okay if you are single!

boynextdoor: Yeah, they do anything for drug money. How do I know? I've worked in the industry and my friends started dying from drug ODs. Two out of my three roommates in the agency house could not bring themselves to perform without shooting up first... and I was with one of the better agencies with girls who looked like models and NOT crackwhores.

Hope that kills your boner next time you rub one out to a girl who has only filmed a couple of scenes because she probably OD'd.

Thank You! Masturbating to porn IS like imagining to have sex with another woman.
That's my point!

Well he doesn't do it anymore. I also think it is ok when you are single.