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Problems getting girlfriends, sex, fun, love, etc.
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I'm 19 and have not had a girlfriend since I was 15. I feel like I've definitely done something wrong. I've been with girls since then but never for more than 1 night and never as far as sex. And they're hardly of a high standard, I know I can do better. Maybe I lack confidence, but I know exactly what I am capable of, so if I do indeed lack confidence then I also genuinely lack ability!!
Is there some secret that I'm missing? Please help!
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Comments (27)
you probably have a small dick
Well, to start with your 19 and when you fornicate with underage girls your headed for trouble so be Leary of that to start with.

As far as your confidence goes it sound like you know what your capable of so get the show on the road. If you can improve on capability but lack of ability, I think your just stuck with. Don't worry I think this shit is all in your head so you will out grow your insecurities.
You can improve on capability but not lack of ability something like that.
What would you know Gizzie hes talking about women not little boys

@ poster
Sometimes when your younger you go through dry spells. I dont think theres anything wrong with you just need to meet the right girl and it will happen when you least expect it and it wont be very far away good luck
I've never faunicated with underage girls, perhaps you misread the first sentence: "I'm 19 and have not had a girlfriend since I was 15."

Thanks for the rest of your advice though
Thanks very much mate, hope you're right!
ha well maybe you should talk to a girl for what they like and have things in common then thinking about what theyre like in bed..
simple answer, but it might work
Just watch alot of porno and be patient. To scoot along there is much wanking to be done.
Or you can kill yourself
What do you like in bed?
girls like a big ego
ego??? girls like a big shlong!
WTF are you insinuating that I have thing for little boys you worthless puke?
your 19, there is probably nothing wrong with you, but girls might see you as a man whore, maybe not a good guy to be with because he just wants sex, if all your doing with these randoms is sleeping with them. the next girl you like try and get to know them, instead of going to fast.
Girls are attracted to someone who is confident and sincere.
Girls dont know how big the penis is until they are already attracted, at this point penis size will not usually subside the attraction. If anything it is easier to do oral sex on.
@: flikr
Find out what you are good at! It takes time to build confidence! When I was your age I felt the same way, the old adage practice makes perfect! You are going to stumble sometimes but thats ok! It happens just keep practicing at something. What ever it is wether you are trying to date girls, or sports or money or what-ever it is! And don't listen to that ass-wipe that commented about your size! He is probably very insecure himself so he ridicules at other peoples expense besides being immature himself! Good Luck to you!
Why don't you just hang out with people who happen to be female?

Stop trying to score. Bring some sandwiches to the picnic -- by that I mean know something interesting to talk about, some music, some current events. Develop some talent or expertise. Be interesting to know.

Get to like women as people, not as objects. Stop looking at internet porn.

Maybe you'll never get married (who knows if that even means anything anymore), but you certainly don't have to be miserable and alone
hey how about you have confidence and ask a bunch of gurls out??? your young go to clubs like all teens do have fun......
"Is there some secret that I'm missing?"


ALCOHOL
Perhaps you should come to a realization that there is quite too much more to life than sex, like I have. To me, sex is only 1.5% of life.
Don't look at sex as the be all, end all of your life. That's a mistake.

You might need a confidence booster, but I think the real problem is that you're not quite sure what you want. What do you want and expect from girls, yourself and life? Now that you're 19, it's time to seriously start pondering that question and to start coming up with an answer to it. Then you can get on with your life.
Persistence. That is really a key.
just be confident girls always like that a person is confident
hey bud im in the same boat but mines worse
i have a mate who haz the personality of a treestump and when ever we hoock up with chicks they always seem to just wana fuck him . . now i have been drunk with him and he streeks when he is drunk so i know its not his cock

he haz the largest ego on the face of the planet there is a reason aus is on the bottom of the eirth . . .
@: flikr
Yup
Normal.
However your attitude towards the women you have had shows reasons for while your struggling. You have way too much self confidence.

You're most probably not as good as you make out and you need to chill down on that thought...You'll get a lot more girls that way.