I'm 19 and have not had a girlfriend since I was 15. I feel like I've definitely done something wrong. I've been with girls since then but never for more than 1 night and never as far as sex. And they're hardly of a high standard, I know I can do better. Maybe I lack confidence, but I know exactly what I am capable of, so if I do indeed lack confidence then I also genuinely lack ability!!
Is there some secret that I'm missing? Please help!
As far as your confidence goes it sound like you know what your capable of so get the show on the road. If you can improve on capability but lack of ability, I think your just stuck with. Don't worry I think this shit is all in your head so you will out grow your insecurities.
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Sometimes when your younger you go through dry spells. I dont think theres anything wrong with you just need to meet the right girl and it will happen when you least expect it and it wont be very far away good luck
Thanks for the rest of your advice though
Girls dont know how big the penis is until they are already attracted, at this point penis size will not usually subside the attraction. If anything it is easier to do oral sex on.
Stop trying to score. Bring some sandwiches to the picnic -- by that I mean know something interesting to talk about, some music, some current events. Develop some talent or expertise. Be interesting to know.
Get to like women as people, not as objects. Stop looking at internet porn.
Maybe you'll never get married (who knows if that even means anything anymore), but you certainly don't have to be miserable and alone
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You might need a confidence booster, but I think the real problem is that you're not quite sure what you want. What do you want and expect from girls, yourself and life? Now that you're 19, it's time to seriously start pondering that question and to start coming up with an answer to it. Then you can get on with your life.
i have a mate who haz the personality of a treestump and when ever we hoock up with chicks they always seem to just wana fuck him . . now i have been drunk with him and he streeks when he is drunk so i know its not his cock
he haz the largest ego on the face of the planet there is a reason aus is on the bottom of the eirth . . .
However your attitude towards the women you have had shows reasons for while your struggling. You have way too much self confidence.
You're most probably not as good as you make out and you need to chill down on that thought...You'll get a lot more girls that way.