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Pubic hair for women...yes or no?
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Okay everytime i get close with a guy...like sexually close i shy away b/c i worry about what he will think of my pubic hairs...i dont know if that's normal or not..yes or no? and for you guys out there, how do u like womens pubic hairs to be taken care of? obviously clean but like none at all? or a zebra tripe down the middle or what?

Comments from guys prefered but women can put their insight here too

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princess_love_bunny (2050)
2006-05-12 22:15:41
<Insert witty comment here>
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Anonymous
2006-05-13 07:30:43
Just keep it neatly trimmed, I don't like jungle bushes.
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subpar (1829)
2006-05-13 10:47:36
@: Anonymous
yeah, a bit of pubic hair is okay, but its best if its neatly trimmed.
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rustupid (2057)
2006-05-13 13:35:51
@: princess_love_bunny
shave then and dont worry about it stop being so complex its not a big deal if people dont like it give them a spoon and tell them to eat your a$$...
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ZackMorris (2071)
2006-05-14 11:22:49
I think public hair is okay so long as the ends are not split.
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Anonymous
2006-05-14 13:07:51
If your boy complains tell him to shave all his punic hair off! see if HE likes the itching and razor spots. gah.
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reymundo (2085)
2006-05-15 23:22:52
pubic hair is fine. hairy armpits is nasty on a girl
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cantinos1 (2145)
2006-05-19 01:03:09
I think its creepy for a guy to like it for a chick to look prepubescent I mean we're not freakin little girls they shouldnt want us to look like little girls
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Bore_Guy (1732)
2006-05-19 23:45:35
I shave. I'm a straight guy. I want girls to shave too. If they're skinny, then it would be okay if they didn't. I might, however, loose my appetite.
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Anonymous
2006-05-20 13:24:41
I'm a bi girl, and I prefer to completely wax myself. I like this in female partners too, although it isn't a must. I wouldn't bother shaving though - razor burns suck down there! I would trim a little if you don't want to wax though. It doesn't hurt that much once you're used to it - half a bottle of wine helps! It leaves the skin deliciously sensitive too!

But either way, if a guy cares that much whether you have pubic hair or not, is he really the sort of guy you want to trust that deeply?

Do whatever suits you- if a guy doesn't like it, he isn't worth the bother - and everyone has different tastes, just as many guys prefer either way, and most don't mind at all
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seventh_shot (1935)
2006-06-01 04:13:03
Bi female here as well. I shave because it's more comfortable, or at least get down there to trim just so the area looks neat. It just feels and looks so much better than a thick fur muff like the kind you see on French girls. It cuts down on odor and mess, too.

At any rate, do what makes you comfortable! If you want it smooth, wax or shave (although if you shave, NEVER go against the grain!). Trim it if you just want it to look and feel a little nicer -- if a guy complains after you've gone through the trouble of trimming the bush, chances are you wouldn't get along with him anyway.
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screamingnight (1649)
2006-06-04 20:59:49
@: seventh_shot
i just like a little bit of hair on a womans pussy so i can play with it while im eating her out.
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smartpatrol (2293)
2006-06-05 05:09:31
None at all or a zebra stripe down the middle or what yep thats how I like em...
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Debbie02 (2438)
2006-06-17 09:11:42
@: princess_love_bunny
Of course its normal i have never shaved nor ever will shave, i am quite bushy which i'm quite proud off,we are all adult human beings, pubic hair is there for a reason to stop infections and to trap your sexual smells to attract a mate. but personaly think the shaven look is a little distruping the landing strip look, and other pubic hair styles that seem to be around look plan silly, but i am a beliver of live and let live,you do what ever is comfortable with yourself and no matter what state your in down there you shouldn't feel presured into shaving or growing hair, and if you are going to get sexualy close to a guy then he should realy love you for you and not what you look like between your legs
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Anonymous
2006-06-20 19:56:19
I should hope its normal! I have the amazon rainforest in my pants!
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lilkeke596 (2497)
2006-06-23 20:30:07
I perfer it either neatly trimmed, "Landing Strip" (where you leave a smal lstrip above your clitoris, or completly shaven

It's more pleasent to give head without hair in the way
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Dr_Jackenauf (2512)
2006-06-23 20:32:03
hell no bitch, shave it off..i dont wanna be tonguing an affro
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Dr_Jackenauf (2512)
2006-06-23 20:33:49
if you aint shaved then you better be ready to have ur sex partner get lost in the freakin forest you got in ur pants
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Anonymous
2006-07-03 08:53:46
Try it both ways i am sure once you have tried it shaved you won't go back is alot more sensual especially if he is shaved as well, if you shave
the right way you will not get shaving rash etc... couldn't think of anything worse than a dag filled smelly bush, think of it like this do you like Kissing guys with big hairy beards and odour of last nights dinner and pussy juice????
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Sublime (2601)
2006-07-03 13:28:44
A few things are better then having your woman spread out in front of you, and you shaving her off nice and gently.

Mach 3 of course! It's just soo much more of a smooth shave.
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Peep_ (2600)
2006-07-03 13:36:07
Yep, Loved that one Subby, that little vibrating feature it has was an wonderful stimulating surprise I must say.
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dumbtomthumb (2873)
2006-07-22 06:45:34
shaved is fine but i definetly dont like landing strips. whats wrong with hairyness down there? i think its more feminine and more sexual with hair down there.
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kenny90 (3078)
2006-08-03 20:25:58
My gf shaves hers completely. I like that because it is easier to lick her but pubic hair does offer the benefit of capturing some of the natural aroma of the woman's sex. I love that aroma. I guess one can't have it both ways at the same time. I opt for shaved if forced to make the choice. I like being able to get my tongue inside her, uh, "channel" without getting hair caught in my teeth. She likes this a lot too!
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nihonnegro (3458)
2006-08-28 19:53:48
@: Anonymous
agreed...
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nihonnegro (3458)
2006-08-28 19:57:55
@: Debbie02
I'm a male and maybe a minority but I need hair down there to do the dirty deed otherwise I feel like I'm having sex with a child.
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babyangel2580 (1623)
2006-09-09 19:33:05
lots and lots of comments...
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blahblahblahblah (10688)
2007-09-18 22:32:56
I think you should do whatever makes YOU most comfortable. I would definitely do the wax thing vs. the shave thing though - no stubblies, longer results... I also think that if you said to your bf, "I want to sleep with you, but I have to wait until my wax appointment" he'd be like, screw it and screw me. Given the choice - guys want sex. That's it. I also find it interesting that the "men" who have misogynistic comments are all too happy to ask a women to go to all this extra trouble and worry just for the his own preference. If he can't handle your pubic hair, it's curb time. I'd like to know how many guys out there worry about how their penis looks/smells/tastes etc...
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zandor (10829)
2007-09-25 22:54:29
I love pubic hair on a woman, the darker the better. Actually, if I have any say in the matter, I prefer that my brunettes not shave or trim at all, especially if they have dark labia, and that blondes and redheads be shaven smooth. That's just a matter of preference, though. Whatever you choose, there's no need to be embarrassed about your sweet little body when you're with a guy. It's rather unusual for a guy to be so picky about your pubic hair that he wouldn't sleep with you (or sleep with you again) because of it. Like blahblahblahblah suggested, when guys want sex, they want sex. I've never turned down sex because of a woman's pubic hair of lack thereof. But if your guy doesn't like your sense of style, tell him not to let the door hit him in the butt on his way out.
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cruelintentions (10923)
2008-09-20 11:00:08
I find hair a big turn off. I think a bold pussy is very attractive, also body hair overall is not attractive.
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JakesGirl (17007)
2008-10-17 16:52:31
I like it all off permanently, even in the crack! It can be lasered off or using Intense Pulsating Light Treatments; it hurts but it works!

Jaynee
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JGrover (20744)
2009-03-05 10:35:17
Ok ladies...listen up.
Most men are perplexed about the obsession women have for shaving their pubic hair. Having pubic hair has almost become phobia which is sad. It's there because most "real" men find it very sexy and it's not what you see... it's what you don't see and leave to your imagination that's HOT!

I've found most men I've spoken to on the subject didn%%u2019t like to see a woman totally or extremely shaved because it made her look like a little girl and that doesn%%u2019t interest most "real" men.

This is not to say men want a "cave woman". A neat and modest trim to accommodate today's swim wear is perfect.

Another MYTH about shaving is it's good hygiene. There is a new process to curb any problem in this area. It%%u2019s called soap and water and daily bathing.

In fact, most men tend to think women who shave, do so because the don't have good hygiene habits, so the next time someone tells you shaving is the "Chic" thing to do, think twice about the type of men or lounge lizards you'll attract.
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david1002007 (21210)
2009-03-23 14:47:33
I think it looks really good with some hair down there.. trimmed looks good to me makes me...
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david1002007 (21210)
2009-03-23 14:55:25
@: Anonymous
It looks worse with razor bumps and all that than the normal look. You tellm!
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david1002007 (21210)
2009-03-23 15:01:07
@: cantinos1
I agree it looks wierd without any (like a little girl).. I like some hair down there even if its trimmed it looks sexy...
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Austin2007 (21568)
2009-04-03 19:40:59
@david1002007 Didn't know you were spokesman for men. I was with the same woman for 27 years, she never shaved, I never shaved. Her bush was huge, upkempt and not appealing. Since the divorce, I have dated several women, all trimmed to a landing strip, or some shaved. I do now. What a nice change. A much nicer appearance (my opinion) and no hair in the teeth. My gf does not like hair. Gives a mean bj. I will shave... it's worth it. Really it's style thing. in the 70s women (some) lighhtly trimmed. Look at old playboys. Today, most shave or landing strip trim. Look at any adult magazine or porn, plus personal experience. Perhaps in 10 years bush will come back into vogue.
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MissVenus (24476)
2009-06-21 11:20:10
Oh they didnt shave in the 80s and the 70s
shitty people nowadays...
Why cant you just fuck a 6 year old girl?
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bestxXbudXxlayf (27066)
2009-08-13 18:04:03
i agree with austin.. shaving is in style.. but who really cares anyway?? all that matters is that you do what you're most comfortable with
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Wonderlover (29065)
2009-09-27 21:11:08
Personal taste like everything else. I think that those fantastic lips between her lega are as beautiful and kissable as the lips on her face, and kissing, licking and sucking them gives her great pleasure that is impossible with a big hairy beaver bush.
Do you think you would kiss her mouth more or less if she had a full beard and mustache? Well same thing with her genital lips.
As a good and considerate lover you would not just dive between her legs and shove in your member, and neither should you dive between her legs and shove in your tongue. With her wonderfully shaved lips, her natural feminine beauty is revealed for you to admire, kiss, lick and suck on as foreplay to traditional muff diving.Both of you will love it
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Anomyous2 (32900)
2009-12-16 11:05:34
in my opinion as a guy, i think its fine for a woman to have pubic hair, it's normal for hair to grow in places, i know most women today shave for sexual reasons and/or hygiene reasons, but if a woman wants to keep her bush, that's fine, it is only natural and it can be kept clean if you do shower everyday, i do have a gf and she has one, don't bother me none at all, but again, its only my opinion, not trying to change anyone elses opinion, just giving out mine.
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Anomyous2 (32900)
2009-12-16 11:08:53
@: zandor
i agree with ya, why should you turn down sex just because she doesn't shave her pubic hair, and its the matter of loving that person for who he or she is and not just for her body style
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Anomyous2 (32900)
2009-12-16 11:10:04
@: nihonnegro
i have to agree with ya on that, shaving down there completely would make a man or a woman look like a child again.
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Anomyous2 (32900)
2009-12-16 11:10:57
@: dumbtomthumb
i definitly agree with ya on that :).
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Anomyous2 (32900)
2009-12-16 11:12:17
@: Debbie02
now i really agree with ya on that :).
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Anomyous2 (32900)
2009-12-16 11:16:05
im going to add another comment on here, as for leg hair and arm pit hair, if she doesnt shave that off, that should be okay, i mean, if you love your girl for who she is and her personality, you shouldnt have to worry about body hair, but, thats just my opinion, im still a virgin and all and yet to experience the sexual pleasure, but in my opinion, i think its fine for a woman not to shave, if she shaves, thats fine, but if she doesnt like to shave, i wouldnt force my gf to shave just because i wanted her to look all smooth and what not, you should make love to her for who she is and not what you like to do with her. But again, my opinion, and i know im probably going to get some crappy replies here and there.
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csciabarasi (33927)
2010-01-01 21:47:51
I do the same thing. Whenever I get close to a guy, I get nervous and paranoid whenever we get to "that stage". I feel embarassed. But I hate shaving down there. it's a pain, it hurts, there are razor bumps, it itches, and it grows back funny. i hate it. So I've finally realized, as long as you keep it trimmed it's still good and not so out of control. I'm never able to talk about it to anyone else though, like my friends, because they always talk about how they shave all the time. And as many other people on here have said, it shouldn't matter if the guy likes it or not, it's whether you like it or not. If I guy doesn't like the natural you, he can go screw himself then. and he's not the right one for you. You need to find a guy that loves you for you, not how the area down there looks.
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3hanner3banner3 (36353)
2010-02-07 18:54:39
@: cantinos1
I agree i am a girl 15, and i just trim and it looks awesome im happy with it and so is my boyfriend :) i shaved it all once n he said it felt like sandpaper ha he told me "having pubes is a part of being a woman. i dont want to think that im fucking a 2 year old when im doing you...thats just wrong" he says it looks beautiful! so just love yourself!
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jlw07 (37170)
2010-02-20 14:45:08
I think it is very natural confined to a certain area. Dark brown bushes are especially attractive and sexy. For me it is sort of a fetish I don't make it a criteria for dating..sort of like DD cups or satin and nylon lingerie.
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thetantrum (37623)
2010-02-28 17:03:26
@: Anonymous
OMG I COMPLETLY AGREE WITH YOU
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