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i am a guy, with a new girlfriend, she is asian, i am not. she is refusing sex because she says that it hurts for a while and then she has like this discomfort for 3 days. is it normal?
some more data: i am her first guy, she is over 25y/o. sex and penetration maybe about 8 times so far.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (12)
Moi (588)
2006-08-11 11:11:41
Have the two of you had sex together yet? If not she could be refusing to have sex with you because she's afraid of experiencing that pain or just not ready to have sex with you yet.

Sex should not hurt. She should see a doctor about this. There could be some medical reason behind that pain.
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Zang-arang (3187)
2006-08-11 18:01:03
@: Moi
I agree, it shouldn't hurt for that long.
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Chuckle (2016)
2006-08-11 20:56:16
Maybe you're not fucking her hard enough. Invite some of your friends over and give them a free ride on your bitchy girlfriend
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galeni (2821)
2006-08-11 21:49:47
w
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jenisis (883)
2006-08-12 02:43:06
She might be too dry and your hurting her, or hitting it the wrong way and again, hurting her. Maybe use lube, foreplay more, make her comfy, and don't do it until she's ready. If you want some, make her give you head. Head is always fun.
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cheatertb (3209)
2006-08-12 21:18:57
This can be normal, she might have Endometriosis, which can be very painful with intercourse, she should be seen by her gyno and explain the problem
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mystery (3437)
2006-08-28 03:49:04
@: cheatertb
I agree, this sounds like symptoms of Endometriosis. She sould see her gyno.
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dawn1029 (3561)
2006-09-06 19:09:35
asians are tight, haven't you heard? i know that because i am, ha
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HEYEVERYBODY (3687)
2006-09-10 22:06:01
@: dawn1029
who gives a fuck what she feels, tighter=better for u
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kaymichelle (4094)
2006-10-23 16:07:08
Screw all of that! She is faking. You might want to consider that your new girlfriend lied about her virginity and she hasn't stop humping her old boyfriend.
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oncemore (4219)
2006-11-04 01:41:23
She probably isn't wet enough. More foreplay and water-based lubricant should help her out. Also, try some different positions; some that don't involve penetrating her too deeply.
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lalolopez2005 (4335)
2006-11-15 02:54:07
She probably is a small asian with a small hole. You need to start warming up the motor or use more lube. Try telling her if you can 69, if she says no, then you have a relationship problem.
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