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Rape fantasy involving gross guys
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Is it normal to have rape fantasies involving guys who repusle me? To be turned on by the thought of being forced by a guy who I hate?
Do you think it's normal?
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No you should seek mental health
You could have Bipolar disorder
People with that disorder act
that way
Well you sound kind of conflicted sexually. You are repulsed and attracted by sex, simultaneously. But who knows ...?
Maybe you need something to spice up your sex life? I doubt you have bipolar disorder...just sounds like you need an extra something to get you going?
You just love the dick.
well i have rape fantasies but not by gross guys
my rape fantasies are with a hot tall italian guy with a nice tan and muscles <3 oh man! totally turned on by them
Yes, it is normal. I am seeing two girls that have the same fantasy and we act them out every so often. I handcuff then, gag them, and have some really rough sex. They just really get off on the idea of having no control and being dominated. As for the gross guys that's just another form of submission to the dominance. So find a gross friend and have a good time.
I'd have to agree- If you are having rape fantasies, then you already get turned on by the thought of having someone do something to you *against* your will. The fact that the guy is gross, just amplifies the *against your will* factor. I guess it all depends on your level of fantasy- Either hook up with a gross friend like ralcor said, OR find a not so gross friend who wouldn't mind being (haha) "gross-ified" and also wouldn't mind role-playing as your rapist. Use safe words!
@: So_What
yeah
Nothing is odd in the fantasy. Even though this kind of fantasy could be related to the fact that you do not want the "responsibility" of having sex, so you need someone who rapes you (so you can not feel guilty for the sex). In my experience this kind of fantasy appears in girls who naturally love sex (as normal human beings do), but suffered a bigot education about it (even like "have sex only after your wedding", or something like this)
This is a serious response...

What you describe seems to be humiliation.
Humiliation is one of the most powerful human emotions.

So, I don't believe that you actually want to experience humiliation. By restricting this to a fantasy, you are, in fact, _controlling_ any feelings of humiliation.
hmmm. yep. this fantasy definately involves humiliation. yet it turns me on. of course i don't want to experience this in real life. that's an interesting take on it. the whole "contolling humiliation" thing.
I'm gross. I'm game.
@: redcarp
Wow. I am intrigued by your theory. The last part of it is especially interesting because I completely relate to that in kind of an extreme way and would never of made a connection like that myself.
Normal. . . People can fantasize about whatever turns them on as their imagination explores a lot of things many of us do not share.

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