well i have rape fantasies but not by gross guys my rape fantasies are with a hot tall italian guy with a nice tan and muscles <3 oh man! totally turned on by them
Yes, it is normal. I am seeing two girls that have the same fantasy and we act them out every so often. I handcuff then, gag them, and have some really rough sex. They just really get off on the idea of having no control and being dominated. As for the gross guys that's just another form of submission to the dominance. So find a gross friend and have a good time.
I'd have to agree- If you are having rape fantasies, then you already get turned on by the thought of having someone do something to you *against* your will. The fact that the guy is gross, just amplifies the *against your will* factor. I guess it all depends on your level of fantasy- Either hook up with a gross friend like ralcor said, OR find a not so gross friend who wouldn't mind being (haha) "gross-ified" and also wouldn't mind role-playing as your rapist. Use safe words!
Nothing is odd in the fantasy. Even though this kind of fantasy could be related to the fact that you do not want the "responsibility" of having sex, so you need someone who rapes you (so you can not feel guilty for the sex). In my experience this kind of fantasy appears in girls who naturally love sex (as normal human beings do), but suffered a bigot education about it (even like "have sex only after your wedding", or something like this)
What you describe seems to be humiliation. Humiliation is one of the most powerful human emotions.
So, I don't believe that you actually want to experience humiliation. By restricting this to a fantasy, you are, in fact, _controlling_ any feelings of humiliation.
hmmm. yep. this fantasy definately involves humiliation. yet it turns me on. of course i don't want to experience this in real life. that's an interesting take on it. the whole "contolling humiliation" thing.
Wow. I am intrigued by your theory. The last part of it is especially interesting because I completely relate to that in kind of an extreme way and would never of made a connection like that myself.
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my rape fantasies are with a hot tall italian guy with a nice tan and muscles <3 oh man! totally turned on by them
What you describe seems to be humiliation.
Humiliation is one of the most powerful human emotions.
So, I don't believe that you actually want to experience humiliation. By restricting this to a fantasy, you are, in fact, _controlling_ any feelings of humiliation.