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I am a 16 year old girl and ever since I've discovered the joys of masturbation (at 7 or 8, early bloomer I know) rape and bondage has turned me on. I remember early on watching TV or reading a book where someone was tied up against their will and having the urge to pleasure myself. Later on when I fully understood sex, rape seemed arousing to me. Whenever I saw or read a book or movie in which a character was forced into sex I would need to stop what I was doing and masturbate. I kind of want to be raped...by a middle-aged man. The thought of being an abused f**k toy to be left damaged by a guy is appealing to me. Oddly enough, I have never been sexually abused nor do I wish anyone to be. I realize rape is one of the most awful, violating,life-shattering things that can happen to a female...or male. My ideals at times are suprisingly feminist. I don't understand how someone can savagely without guilt steal someone's innocence or worth/dignity. But I kind of want it to happen to me. It might go along with BDSM, which I also support when both partners consent. Is there anyone who can shed light on my perversity?
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Rape fantasies are normal. Otherwise, bondage wouldn't be so popular.

Agree with finding a kinky boyfriend. I've played out that fantasy with my husband before, and it was faaaaaaantastic.
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You're not perverse. Rape fantasies are very common and that's all it is, a fantasy.
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that's really horrible @college girl but i'm glad you're ok. as to the other girl, that's exactly how i am, except i dont masturbate, cuz well i don't like masturbating but when im watching tv and see sum one being forced i get excited and think, man i wish that were me, then I'm like wait wtf is wrong wit me that's horrible. but yea to agree with college girl, get a kinky boyfriend and plz do not do wat the idiot who said "dress like a slut and go out at 1am" I'm pretty sure that was a guy. Anyway i'm glad there's like a few of us "decent pervs" out who share this issuse. lol good luck
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I once read a magazine article about female sexual fantasies, and it reccommended "Compromises". Say, for example, you have a fantasy about being raped by pirates. Instead of actually renting a boat and everything, he could just hold your wrists down with his hands, close one eye and say "Arr".

Mind you, if you tell him about that fantasy, HE'LL be the one gung-ho to rent a boat, and YOU'LL be the one who has to tell him to just close one eye and say "Arr".
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Honestly I used to think the same way I never actually masturbated when I thoght of it but I used to get horny watching T.V. and some1 would get raped.....BUT....once I was almost raped when I went on a date with a guy I had just met and it was the most horrific thing I ever experienced luckily for me my roommate came home early bcuz of a fight with her boyfriend and she startled him and called the cops right before he went in so I got lucky.....and now I do not see rape as a turn I see it a FUCKED UP THING TO DO....I think if you experienced it you would hate it too.....but you should think about getting a kinky boyfriend and have him ruff you up
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The whole being tied up thing is arousing to most people. Rape fantasies are also common, it doesn't make you not normal. But any sexual act against ones will is cruel and vile and you should not wish that upon yourself.
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There's a difference between rape and bondage. This is how I look at it. Rape is violation of somebody's basic integrity and rights. Bondage is deprivation of pleasure... the technique is used only to heighten pleasure. And not to hurt or steal someone else's respect. There is a thin line that seperates these two experiences. And often, they can be misunderstood for each other. But once the difference is sensed, there is no looking back.
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Wow! A pedophile's wet dream.

Anyway, you seem to like it violent (that's hot) and you'll definitely turn on a lot of guys later in life.
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babyangel2580
maybe you just like the idea of the guy being in total control to a certain extent. I feel the same way.. well not about rape

Angel
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You're normal. =]
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i wud definately ruff her up:P
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Just dress up like a slut, get really drunk, and wander home at about 1:00AM. Trust me, some dirty bastard will make your dreams come true.
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wow, this was stupid, cant wait to see the headlines " 16 Y/o burtaly raped and killed " if u get raped what makes u think they wont kill you
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For some reason, buttsex is scary to me.
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I wonder what that phobia is called.
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messedupdude
1 u need help 2 u just need to find the pleasure of sex u dont want to be rapped 3 it turns me on but i dont want to be rapped or rape somebody so i think is ok 4 it's that or ur horney
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It's not perserve. (not in my book, anyway) I am surprised that you knew about sex at such a young age though...that's what shocks me the most.
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I dissagree with you about the "...or male." part. I'd love it :)

Reccomendations;
*The Gorean Saga (a series of books by John Norman
*Early (and even recent) Wonder Woman comics (Binding her bracelets together is her main weekness)
*The Story of O (There's a book and at least 2 movies, the more recent English movie was better)
*upcomeing movie "Black Snake Moan
*I also found this
http://www.myprisoner.com/movies/index7.shtml
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Its a control thing, youll probably find she is a strong minded girl, and just like judges and politicians like to get kinky - so does she. Why do you hate the idea of expression so much? whats your fantasy, or havnt you the balls???
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The above happens here sometimes, ignore that.
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@: deamond
Thanks.
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teenadvisor, are you a boy that likes the thought of a sexy woman straddling you and taking you to heaven and back ..................hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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its the same thing for me..it always has been a turn on...im a pretty confident, stand up for myself lady..but i guess im just really kinky when it comes to sex..which i dont mind hehe
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ok im in the same situation, i wouldn't want to be hurt or humilated but the idea of the domination is kind of...but be careful there a weird people out there and to make it weirder im a virgin
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I have the same prob accept I'm a dude. My fetish sickens me because both me and my girlfriend are victims of it and I would kill a rapist if caught them but it is nice to see the fetish is cross gender.
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Completely normal.

I do think it's interesting the double standard. A girl says she fantasizes about rape and everyone is all for it. If a guy fantasizes about it then he's got a serious problem.
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I have the same feelings. Letting a man ravish my body and use me as his sex slave turns me on. Now I was raped when I was 12 and it almost ruined my life. I think there is something wrong g with me that it turns me on. Now that being said I would only want to act it out not really live Thru it at the hands of some psycho! I thought I was the only one who felt like this
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If you want someone to rape you it couldn't be considered rape. Rape is being forced to do something sexual that you don't want to do. It's demeaning and a turn off to the person experiencing it. So if you are secretly longing for it to happen and/or if it turns you on, it's not rape.
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I'm kind of in the same boat here :/ I've never had a sex drive growing up, and never got turned on by stuff, let alone rape, until I was 18.
I was almost gang raped when I was 16. They thought I was drunk enough I guess. That ruined me for a while, and I have hardly touched alchohol since. When I was 17 I got in a long distance relationship with an older guy out of state and that quickly became abusive, physically and sexually. He liked to get rough and hurt me, ignoring my wishes to stop, then shame me for Letting him do it. That screwed me up for about 4 years. I'm still working it out, but now I have a hard time getting off without fantasizing about rapey situations. I'm glad I found this, and that there are more women like me. This whole thing has had me very confused :/
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Contact Me
RayPISTACHIO@AOL.COM

...I'm sure we can arrange something.
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yeah, i seriously eat rusty razorblades. dur.

however, i feel like doing that @ the moment. but i'm going to drink till my stomach lining gets puked out instead. can't be any worse than a broken heart.
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You didn't break up with Dalene did you?
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you women scare me...
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That's kind of an ironic thing to say for someone whose favorite food is rusty razorblades.
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We all have our own ideas of what it would be like but would we enjoy it a much if it really happened. I would like a guy or 2 to rape me and when they are done put a load of creepy crawlies inside me and do me again. after the 2nd time they put a load more of the bugs inside me and glue them in. Do fanatasies ever come true
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