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Relationship w/ skinny boyfriend
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I feel fat next to him. he is excessively underweight and i am average. sometimes i feel ashamed and even embarassed when we go out. i dont want to hold his hand sometimes cause it seems like people think we look weird together. am i thinking too much or am i too insecure? should i leave him because he makes me feel this way? its not his fault he cant gain weight. but its really hard on my pride yet i love him a lot.
Do you think it's normal?
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cabinet69 (3089)
2006-11-04 05:01:10
You sound like a complete bitch do the bloke a favour and fuck of
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x.princess.x (3703)
2006-11-04 05:14:26
Well you cant love him that much if your willing to leave him because he has a problem that makes you feel bad. you sound very selfish. and if you did love him i think you should stick by him regardless of how either of you look. who cares how you look!
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magnum2 (771)
2006-11-04 11:55:21
pretty shallow of you really....you should do him a favor and leave him the hell alone....and you should be ashamed of yourself too, a boyfriend is not just an accessory
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roger49 (3711)
2006-11-04 15:29:33
Do any of you people understand what this person just wrote? She isn't using her boyfriend as an accessory, she's insecure, and standing next to her skinny boyfriend makes her feel fat. My advice is stop thinking about it, you're worrying too much. I don't think you have a weight problem, and obviously your boyfriend doesn't mind that you're average, so you should be fine. There's nothing wrong with the shape you are. You just need to work on the self-esteem a little bit.
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dalfaceNY (4054)
2006-11-16 00:40:25
@: roger49
wow, roger...ur so sweet. i agree with you, the chick never said she has a problem w her bf, she just seems very insecure.
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Fantainfinite (4355)
2006-11-16 15:06:16
I'm a skinny guy so I'd say that its in your head.
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Shadows_Of_the_mind (4488)
2006-11-27 04:14:28
well I love how people take one thing and run with something.

if he doesn't mind and isn't checking out the other girls, then you're fine!

my aunt was like 300 pounds and my uncle was 157 and they lived a good 5 years together. right up to her ... untimely passing. but she WAS 300! I doubt you are close.
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AilaMarie (4489)
2006-11-27 04:52:58
Yeah, I agree with Roger.
I'm a girl, and I'm pretty thin.
My boyfriend is thin as well, and he might be thinner, but we look fine together.
It doesn't matter how thin or how fat. It's how he makes you feel.
And if it's really love, then that should overpower anything, including the way you two "look" together.
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