I consider myself a straight female. However, when I was 12, a girl friend and I used to take turns pretending we were men and pretended that we were the other's boyfriend. We would speak in a male voice to one another and would actually fondle (on top of clothes) and have make-out sessions. This went on for about two years until I actually got a bf.
Is this behavior normal? Have any of you ever done it?
This type of behavior is very common among developing adolescents. It is an outward expression of your growing awareness of sexuality in response to the hormonal changes taking place at an accelerated rate within your body.
I think it's normal. Many children like to copy the things going on around them. Just because kids don't necessarily understand sex and intimate relationships, doesn't mean that thier bodies and minds weren't made for it and are curious. Don't worry about it
Yep, absolutely normal, doesn't make you gay. Any girl whose parents were too cheap to get her a Ken knows that all the Barbies has lusty lesbian encounters daily. Pre adolescence is all about play sex, and if there's no boys around, girls will do!
*Cheers at you for having guts to share that* I had some sexual encounters when I was younger with a female best friend. I'd definitely say it's normal, I wouldn't divulge the information that I've had an experience like that to people but that doesn't mean I didn't have it.
12 years old and you already say you are lesbian??? you have no idea of life at all!! i believe you still call your mom to clean your butt when you go to the toilet!!! grow some pubic hair before saying something like that
Completely normal - everyone experiments it's another version of make believe that helps prepare you before entering into adulthood and dealing with real intimate situations.
When I was 3 years old I me and my friend would pretend to be girls. We would play doctor, Hide and go seak (naked and loser got spanked) fondle each other, touching each other licking, I am still kinda getting over it even though im 15 now..
When I was 7 he moved, and another kid who was 12 moved in. Me and him would do the same stuff, as my other friend, except it got kinda sadistic, we would lock each other up in his dog's carrying case thing (he had a large dog)
A year later he moved out, and my mom got a new BF (my parents had divorced a year earlier)
Her boyfriend had a son, who was 3 years younger than me, We would touch each other and sleep naked with each other and such. This is around the first time I ever actually got an erection. (8 yrs old) And we would french kiss and suck each other's penis.
When I was 10 years old, my mother broke up with the boyfirned.
Since then I have had a very tough time living with myself, but recently (within the last year and a half) have set it aside (beofre i got over it, i would worry abgout what i had done every single night)
I can tell you what you did was perfectly fine, but Im not so sure about myself.
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12 year olds going further than making out is pretty sick btw is your 'best friend' your father in a dress?
grow some pubic hair before saying something like that
COMPLETLY NORMAL!
When I was 7 he moved, and another kid who was 12 moved in. Me and him would do the same stuff, as my other friend, except it got kinda sadistic, we would lock each other up in his dog's carrying case thing (he had a large dog)
A year later he moved out, and my mom got a new BF (my parents had divorced a year earlier)
Her boyfriend had a son, who was 3 years younger than me, We would touch each other and sleep naked with each other and such. This is around the first time I ever actually got an erection. (8 yrs old) And we would french kiss and suck each other's penis.
When I was 10 years old, my mother broke up with the boyfirned.
Since then I have had a very tough time living with myself, but recently (within the last year and a half) have set it aside (beofre i got over it, i would worry abgout what i had done every single night)
I can tell you what you did was perfectly fine, but Im not so sure about myself.
Was what I did normal?
Err, Yea if I liked that chick >.> but not if she was some stranger on the internet....