Rumours Of A Threesome

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Guys who do this are just in it for their own sexual perversions. It is not normal and should not be asked by any loyal man. Clearly your guy has wandering eyes and a wandering penis. I've said this to another girl before, and I will say it again. This is not normal by any decent(emphasis on decent) man. It can be hurtful to the relationship, and cause emotional discomfort to you especially knowing that your guy had sex with another girl while with you. It's just wrong. Don't do it.

Unless either of the three people involved in the threesome feels hurt or uncomfortable I do not beleive it is wrong or un-loyal. I beleive he is just a bloke wanting to live out a man's fantasy.

It may be that he would like to trysomeone out but for the most part men want male-female-female threesomes because it gives them a sense of power, their ego's are stimulated to the n-th degree. It is something they can brag about and have other men look up to them for. Male-male-threesomes on the other hand is simply your man sharing you with another man because he likes you, like giving a friend a ride on his bike. He will still keep the bike but now his friend knows what he is mising. As usual because human relationships come into play things get much more complicated from here on. Because you are not sure whether you want to do it take it as a sign that you are not ready for it. The experience wil be too powerful for you and probably him too.

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Get's the point across doesn't it!

but seriously, that never works. it will ruin your relationship. this 'bf' should be dumped.he just wants to check out the ladies.

LOL have a 4sum. Works better ect.
Your shorthand hurts to read. Some people feel strongly that a ménage à trois can operate as a functional relationship, but your boyfriend is just interested in triolism. That's fun for some people. This is a typical fantasy, but not one that's conducive to a good relationship in my opinion. Don't do it if you're not comfortable with it. Kick his ass if he persists.

It's apparently a pretty common male fantasy, but as the others have said, if you're uncomfortable with the idea, you just are. There's no reason for him to expect you to go along with it, and if he respects you, he'll quit bringing it up.

Threesome with what? You and another girl or another guy?

A dog would be very wrong I think. A horse outright sick! But that's just me.

Please pay no attention to the judgemental rants about 'perversions' and men's egos etc., etc.,
Dumas says that marriage is a heavy burden that needs to be carried by two sometimes three.
What is important is for you to talk things over with your lover. Are you guys experiencing sexual burn out? How do you feel about sex with another person? Do you want another man? Another woman?
Are you fine the way things are now?
Your lover may just feel that your sexual relationship is too safe and that a way to introduce an element of choice and excitement is to invite one more person in.
Don't do anything that is unsafe, unpleasurable or, unappealing, but don't be close minded.
Don't expect a threesome to be free of conflict either.
Factually many couples engage and enjoy this activity.