Scared of having sex http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-having-sex-25532/ You are having performance anxiety. Your concern over losing your erection is causing you to do just that. Viagra and other medications can help with that, but i would start by Googling "performance anxiety treatments" and seeing what you can find out on your own to help you get past this. http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-having-sex-25532/#comment-277605 2008-12-29 19:33:43 Having a wank two times a week is not a lot, I toss one off two times a day, am registered blind and have hairy palms. I think you need to get yourself a girlfriend and take things slow. Not all women want sex on the first date, in fact in my experience, after meeting me they don't want sex full at all. http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-having-sex-25532/#comment-275317 2008-12-01 08:40:15