Scared of sex. http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-sex-24485/ You can be in the "friend zone" and still have sexual relations, I do. Its all about comfort and openness on both sides. You can have a girl friend and when the moments is right have sex and still be good friends if not better after. Sex is a social lubrication it should help build stronger bonds if done correctly. Setup an intimate meeting place and don't be afraid to arouse her through touch/words; progressively you'll be able to reach that place again with her. Regarding the pigmentation, i would see a doctor, think of it as a challenge. Ones you do go through with it you will feel much more confident about yourself. You have to work on your insecurities, going to the doctor can be your first step. If you dont overcome this insecurity you will be setting yourself up for failure and running away when the moment arrives. http://isitnormal.com/story/scared-of-sex-24485/#comment-267623 2008-10-02 11:17:14