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Is it normal to have a long drawn out divorce and start to have sex with someone else before the divorce is final? I have started seeing a lady that I was engaged to 14 years ago. we broke it off and went our seprate ways, bot married and now divorced... well I am not, but we started seeing each other and I was wondering if it is normal and if you think it is healthy? thanks
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cpg123 (15225)
2008-08-04 15:43:01
fuck marriage
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cabinet70 (4440)
2008-08-04 17:40:06
yes it is normal divorce takes a long time as you have to be apart for at least 12 months I think so if you meet someone in the meantime why not. The only thing that worried me in your post is you say your with an old GF its not wise to visit old holes if it didnt work out the first time may not work a second time
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imrighturwrong (15501)
2008-08-05 02:04:38
ur get divorced & ur soon to be ex could be doing the same. So why not?
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Goatmeat (15262)
2008-08-05 13:55:24
Uniballers post
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chatty (15581)
2008-08-05 22:38:37
Just you go on and f*** your brains out, marriage is paper only if you make no promise yo your God.
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2008-08-13 10:27:04
According to the Bible it is Adultry and the only grounds for divorce is adultry!
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MorallyReprehensible (15825)
2008-10-22 15:08:13
fuck the bible.



you go ahead and BANG OUT, brother!
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oldman (18826)
2008-12-26 06:48:37
Well you still both need sex, so yes keep on banging her right up to the last day.
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andrian007 (21330)
2009-03-27 13:36:59
What is so unhealthy about it? You both have sexual needs and there's mutual consent. It's not rape or anything, right? Go for it, mate.
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DeZiredX (22060)
2009-04-16 21:35:46
You should out of respect of the value of marriage (not speaking in an religious sense) wait til your divorce is final.
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Xanadu (22302)
2009-05-07 21:46:04
You shouldn't have sex with anyone but your spouce when you are still married - regardless as to whether or not a divorce is imminent.

That being said, when you are used to having sex on a regular basis, (as in a healthy marriage), and something irreconcilable occurs that would cause the marriage to end; it is only natural to have the desire to continue with sexual behavior. Or...if your marriage had been on the rocks and it's been a long time since you've had sex, it's only natural to want to have it when you see your "freedom" so close on the horizon. Those desires should be fought. Sex in those situations, aside from being morally wrong, (which should be enough of a deterrent), usually are designated as "rebounds," are not entirely healthy and rarely end well.
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gilliamjf (21680)
2009-06-26 13:04:39
IMO, you may have sex if your new partner and you are already in a committed relationship. But, you shouldn't sleep around just to spite your estranged spouse.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-06-27 04:15:08
Your marriage is over emotionally & as a relationship & the legal termination is on the way & a technicality in that regard. I think it is normal to want to date and see others. You might want to consider if this is a rebound relationship. Take it slowly. Maybe get counselling to better understand your part in the failed marriage. I'm sure you do not want a repeat.
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sexybi (26385)
2009-07-31 12:50:25
yeah you dont belong to your ex bang away
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