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I'm a virgin, and madly in love with my boyfriend. I'm bisexual and have had sex with many girls, but never really thought about having sex with a guy, until now. I'm really nervous about it, like i'm self contious, about not only my looks but about what i'm supossed to do and stuff. I feel really stupid, but i just don't know if i should have sex with him or not, i'm tired of pleasuring myself, and i can't have sex with a girl anymore because i'm dating him. So should i have sex or no sex?
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Comments (19)
McDonuts (2386)
2006-06-11 22:34:21
Sex,sex,sex,sex,sex,sex!!!
You don't have to be nervous, you really font have to do much except lie there and enjoy it ;).
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Ladiesman (1976)
2006-06-12 04:01:05
Go for it. It might seem different at first, but hell you can only get better. Besides, it sounds from previous experience, that you'll be fine.

Just make sure he pleasures you...
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emib (2457)
2006-06-19 04:47:17
everyone is nervous on their first time but if you are ready to do it and u love him you shouldnt be worried, just let him gind you and have fun!!
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Anonymous
2006-07-15 12:21:53
Go for it! If you love him, and you're bisexual, why not?
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Rat-Face (3244)
2006-08-15 11:43:24
I know how you feel. Promise. I'm ten times more comfortable with chicks, because then I get to be the guy in the relationship, and it's no big deal when you're the guy because you know exactly what to do and say, you know?

But, either way, go for it. Be careful, though, and make sure he knows what he's doing. Don't want to wind up never having sex with a guy again just because of post traumatic stress. ^ ^
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geoman2021 (3328)
2006-08-20 22:15:05
Come on he should be nervous about being long enough, but you don't have to worry about a thing! Sex is God's gift to the universe soooooo........ GO FOR IT!!!
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kayleigh (3321)
2006-08-22 10:02:52
dont be nervous!coz if ya be nervous it makes things worster! if you love him go for it.aslong as you trust and love him , then hes da right boy 2 lose it 2!
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cfodderbro (3360)
2006-08-23 11:29:22
sex for the first time is exciting so enjoy the ride and bi or not, if you don't put the work in you wont reap the rewards.
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The_stig (3389)
2006-08-25 11:43:38
if he loves you and you really love him you wouldnt care about any apearences.
but fuck him who cares?
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jigsaw (2929)
2006-11-03 23:27:55
I wanna have sex.
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vodkaveins (1756)
2006-11-15 11:06:16
I didn't even read the article, only one way this answers going - SEX!
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Someperson (4345)
2006-11-15 15:55:26
http://www.carm.org
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PatronDeity (4690)
2006-12-10 01:35:06
do it.
hahaha
i did
it was fun.
but it is a little interesting to be like "wow...i'm not a virgin anymore..."
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mindfreak (4990)
2006-12-28 21:43:31
use a condom and watch porn. use porn for pointers lol. btw. SEX
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dudewithquestions (5080)
2007-01-03 19:22:05
just lay there and let him tell you what to do.
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Carlos (5224)
2007-01-11 00:13:09
do it
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swollemgoat666 (5249)
2007-01-14 01:42:37
you should totally do it
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xxlittlemissemoxx (5287)
2007-01-14 02:31:36
have a 3 some guys love that and the fact that your bi like me so you wont mind it a bit :)
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trouble666 (5288)
2007-01-18 22:05:40
if you have had sex with many girls before then how can you be a virgin?
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