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Now that I have your attention, I think sex is an over rated passtime. What do you think?
Do you think it's normal?
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karl1234 (10371)
2007-09-13 08:41:10
No. I think sex is more than a pastime. I don't think most people have sex just because they're bored and they want to kill time.

Sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person.
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-13 09:29:34
@: karl1234
But it is over rated is it not? I never found a woman who could satisfy me. I would f uck her (or make love to her b4 you get into that) then go have a wa nk to get my satisfaction. Why do you think I am gay?
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chiastreet4777 (9559)
2007-09-13 10:03:17
@: nearly
LOLOLOOLOLOLOLOLOLOL, nearly is a mistake
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-13 10:04:35
Perhaps I didn't look hard enough. Gotta say I agree there. However, my sexuality is much more complex than that. I personally think I was born gay. Then, when sexually assaulted by my father, some dormant inner sexual cog clicked, but was pushed to the back of my mind until my teens, when I started to have sex with both sexes. Always got more outta da boys though. Anyway, I progressed to adulthood, played both ways, got married, has 3 brilliant boys, got divorced and then made A CONSCIOUS DECISION to be gay rather than straight or bi.
Like I said, complex. Plenty more I could say but will not.
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Orochimaru (9975)
2007-09-13 10:04:55
@: chiastreet4777
gay repent!!!!!(@ chiastreet4777, nearly, and poster)!!!!!!!!!!!
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karl1234 (10371)
2007-09-13 10:07:11
@: nearly
I guess everybody's understanding of what it is to be gay is different. My understanding of being gay is that I find men sexually and emotionally attractive. It's not just a "that was a good f*ck" sort of a feeling, although that it part of it.

From your post I think you're saying that you tried f*cking women but you didn't enjoy it, so you tried men and that works for you. Tell me if I'm wrong...

Let me ask you a genuine question: Do you enjoy having sex with men, or does that not count as proper sex for you?

If you're not enjoying any sort of sex, maybe you have a low libido.

If you just don't enjoy sex with women, but you find it's great with men, then I agree, sex with women is pointless for you.

Let me know what you think...
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Orochimaru (9975)
2007-09-13 10:19:31
@: nearly
ur not that complex
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-13 11:36:53
I dont just enjoy sex with men I LOVE IT. Don't want love or involvement though, it is pure sex as far as I am concerned. Oh, by the by, I am the submisive one (play the female role). The only place my dick goes (or comes) is in my hand. So yes I am a wanker b4 you put that to words.
However, my inclinations may be gay, but since diagnosed HIV, I have chosen NO SEX so I guess in fact, these days, I am asexual.
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Orochimaru (9975)
2007-09-13 14:46:41
@: nearly
that is going to be funny watching you rot of HIV, hahahahahah
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-13 17:47:45
@: Orochimaru
Let me give you something to ponder you moron. Throughout my life I have had sex with both males and females. I enjoyed the men more. I never used condoms so, inevitably I guess, I ended up with HIV. YOU, YOU are a homophobic fool. YOU will go screw with the opposite sex and at some stage you will take a risk, if indeed you haven't already done so. When you are there fornicating, and this is your point to ponder, will you be absolutely sure that I haven't been there first? Will you be absolutely sure some one LIKE me hasn't been there before?
Now, THIS is where we differ. I hope that in either instance, wether it be me or some one like me, they are "clean" because I would hate for you to contact HIV.
I took my risks and they bit my arse, I knew the risks and I accept the consequences. Hence, I refrain from ANY form of sex these days simply because I wouldn't want to risk passing on my HIV. Even with a condom, you are not 100%% safe. They are 98%% safe. They tear, come off, whatever. I am not prepared to take that 2%% chance of ruining some one elses life. Unlike the misscreant who gave it to me.
DON'T think because you stick to one man/woman that you are safe. Are you 100%% watertight sure that your partner isn't "playing on the side" Unless you spend 24 hours a day every day for the rest of your life with him/her, you will never be 100%% sure you are safe.
Remember this also. There are thousands, no probobly millions of people out there that are married. MOST OF MY MEN WERE. Are you STILL 100%% sure. Think about that a while before you make such inhuman statements. You will not upset me with them but they just might one day come back and bite yout miserable little arse.
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October (10003)
2007-09-13 22:30:05
@: nearly
I wonder. You say you never found a woman who could satisfy you.

Why?

I mean, is it that you just wanted / want something special sexually? (Kinky?) or does it go deeper than that.

My sister Winter, she had a BF once, he said he was always kinda let down after sex, no matter what she did, no matter how long, how kinky (or loving) he said he was always let down and that the act never lived up to the IDEAL.

Turns out that, early in life the guy devoted A LOT (read ALL) his free time watching / masturbating to porno. He started, as I understand it, with tame stuff and then got progressively more perverse. By the time he got with Winter, he was so jaded by The IDEA (of whatever act) that The REALITY could never come close to being as exciting/fufilling.

I can't speak for you, but I think it is important to understand WHY you've never been Completely satisfied by a woman.

Tobra :)
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October (10003)
2007-09-13 22:36:32
You have got the chutzpa to mention GOD? After the things you post here?

You can bring God into a conversation? - I'm amazed that the word doesn't shrivel your tongue.

Your kind, the only time they THINK of God is when they have fucked things up so horribly for themselves that nobody left here will talk to them anymore. The only time they mention God is when they want to score points or express peity over someone else.

sad.
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-14 14:09:50
@: October
I never really tried to analise that aspect of my life. I have always masturbated for as long as I can remember. Had a few "bad" experiences with girls when (very) young, again in teens. Maybe worth thinking about and assessing. Always got my sexual gratification from masturbating. That probobly has a bearing on it to.
Point is, I will give it a lot of thought but these days, because of my HIV, I guess I am asexual rather than gay. No way I would EVER take a chance of passing that on to ANYONE.
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-15 04:59:17
@: Orochimaru
nearly was thew poster but you being so thick wouldn't have picked that uo from the answer above would you. raflmfao

OK just for you Oro, I will repeat the reply in question

nearly (10533) 2007-09-13 09:29:34 @: karl1234
But it is over rated is it not? I never found a woman who could satisfy me. I would f*** her (or make love to her b4 you get into that) then go have a wa nk to get my satisfaction. Why do you think I am gay?
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nearly (10533)
2007-09-15 05:02:13
I aint the one into incest spam. Told you before, don't judge others by your own standards. As for Heaven/hell, they are one and the same place. THIS IS BOTH. I got no fears of death. You obviously have.
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Orochimaru (9975)
2007-09-17 16:47:33
@: nearly
if you have sex witha dude, YOU R GAY, PERIOD!!!
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glasswilderness (5971)
2007-10-05 23:27:07
As long as it's done for recreation I don't care. When people start carrying on the tradition of humanity, I really don't condone that.
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Potato (7428)
2007-10-06 00:02:05
@: glasswilderness
lol
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jamesbeam420 (15830)
2008-08-19 16:56:42
Nooooo nooo no!!! No way! Underrated if anything!
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coolio234 (15895)
2008-08-22 11:11:08
lololololololololololol omg it is def underated
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Beaver_bonk123 (15962)
2008-08-26 15:32:57
sex is good incest is better
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_Elise_ (5781)
2008-10-28 06:57:51
Why you have indeed. Clap clap.
You can read a lot about Attention Deficit Disorder online.

Overrated ... mmmm ... I don't know. x
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Miss_Charlie (17693)
2008-11-14 15:30:31
sex is overrated.
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hssan56 (18299)
2008-12-07 12:59:16
sex is fun
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luffymaxxie (18717)
2008-12-29 11:19:42
I don't think sex is overrated. And its not just a past time. Most people don't just have sex to have sex unless your like a sex crazed freak!
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Breonna_Nicholson (18924)
2008-12-29 15:59:46
I think sex isn't that over-rated, but I do think the way people percieve it at times is ridiculous; I mean sex is only a bad thing if you make it that way.
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smiledude (19042)
2009-01-02 13:18:17
I am bi myselfe< i havent got gratification from a girl. but u should try having some sort of deeper relationship forget the sex just have a relationship...
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Jim_Pfoss (19247)
2009-01-08 00:16:00
Maybe for my partner, but I'm always satisfied.
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Bazaza (18929)
2009-02-04 21:58:12
sex is over rated just think back to when you were a virgin and you thought it would be super amazing then it turned out to only be twice as good a masterbation execept oral sex that is in no way over rated.
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wierdo_yes (20262)
2009-02-15 12:19:16
sex is delicious and fun!
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winterfresh (21111)
2009-03-23 01:27:37
I hate sex, honestly most men suck in the sack. You should care more about your partner's needs than your own, and vice versa. That way both parties are happy.

And you men may not believe me, but most women lie about being satisfied.
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JimmyHoustonOutdoors (21357)
2009-03-28 17:46:12
Maybe it's just you that's bad at pleasin' the women folk.
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combatgal856 (13140)
2009-05-24 16:59:25
Sex is intresting when done with the right person. I don't like the people that do it with anyone and everyone because they feel like it.

Find someone you like and you will probably change you're opinion. Maybe
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SaaaaaaaaayWhit (23395)
2009-05-24 17:28:56
If its good sex then its incredibly moreish.
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serafina (24089)
2009-06-17 17:34:16
ive never been turned on by any guy b4. Im not attracted to them at all. Lesbien much? No. I have a boyfriend for 15mnths now and hes the only guy that i enjoyed sex with, the only guy that turns me on. I love him to death and thats mainly why i enjoy the sex with him and not with the previous bfs. Sex is not a pasttime, its something that bonds 2 people who care for each other, together in a way.
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lotsofjunk (15110)
2009-06-17 19:21:56
@: nearly
I'd be more worried about my wife "playing on the side" than her having some sort of STI
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russellnb (23816)
2009-08-13 16:12:35
You are right. What is all the excitement about sex anyway
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stjimmy (26603)
2009-08-17 08:31:01
I'm glad I'm not alone.
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iHilary (28804)
2009-09-21 23:12:25
Not if you're in love with the person
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arcadios91 (30473)
2009-10-30 08:09:40
only ugly people would say something like that... are you ugly?
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leahquestions (31598)
2009-12-03 16:32:44
@: nearly
I applaud you for your honesty and directness. very well spoken you are. I wish more men would be open about their sexuality but some are ashamed because they are men and have an image to uphold. I am a female and was heartbroken--the excuse with him not marrying me 4 days after proposing was that I have HSV 1&2, combo pkg so I recently found out...he has type 1-- I'm almost sure he was bi-sexual, this was the real reason. he never gave me a direct answer about it, to admit is to be free.. to love someone regardless of their sexuality is true love no matter the physical.I mourn the loss of a great man, bisexual or not......me I have to take one day at a time now and hating every minute of it,the next few weeks aren't gonna be nice.
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leahquestions (31598)
2009-12-03 16:37:56
as for sex being overrated , it depends on the person..theres nothing better than sex all day on rainy days with the one you love.
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gabrielvillamayor (32918)
2010-01-05 16:49:18
sex can never get boring!!!
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