Let me give you something to ponder you moron. Throughout my life I have had sex with both males and females. I enjoyed the men more. I never used condoms so, inevitably I guess, I ended up with HIV. YOU, YOU are a homophobic fool. YOU will go screw with the opposite sex and at some stage you will take a risk, if indeed you haven't already done so. When you are there fornicating, and this is your point to ponder, will you be absolutely sure that I haven't been there first? Will you be absolutely sure some one LIKE me hasn't been there before? Now, THIS is where we differ. I hope that in either instance, wether it be me or some one like me, they are "clean" because I would hate for you to contact HIV. I took my risks and they bit my arse, I knew the risks and I accept the consequences. Hence, I refrain from ANY form of sex these days simply because I wouldn't want to risk passing on my HIV. Even with a condom, you are not 100%% safe. They are 98%% safe. They tear, come off, whatever. I am not prepared to take that 2%% chance of ruining some one elses life. Unlike the misscreant who gave it to me. DON'T think because you stick to one man/woman that you are safe. Are you 100%% watertight sure that your partner isn't "playing on the side" Unless you spend 24 hours a day every day for the rest of your life with him/her, you will never be 100%% sure you are safe. Remember this also. There are thousands, no probobly millions of people out there that are married. MOST OF MY MEN WERE. Are you STILL 100%% sure. Think about that a while before you make such inhuman statements. You will not upset me with them but they just might one day come back and bite yout miserable little arse.
I applaud you for your honesty and directness. very well spoken you are. I wish more men would be open about their sexuality but some are ashamed because they are men and have an image to uphold. I am a female and was heartbroken--the excuse with him not marrying me 4 days after proposing was that I have HSV 1&2, combo pkg so I recently found out...he has type 1-- I'm almost sure he was bi-sexual, this was the real reason. he never gave me a direct answer about it, to admit is to be free.. to love someone regardless of their sexuality is true love no matter the physical.I mourn the loss of a great man, bisexual or not......me I have to take one day at a time now and hating every minute of it,the next few weeks aren't gonna be nice.
If you have a husband and you are both totally committed to each other and he knows that you have HIV then have sex with him but really if you do not have sex with him just because you do not trust him to not sleep with someone ells that is something you need to fix or just end your relationship so he can find a trusing partner.
Now, THIS is where we differ. I hope that in either instance, wether it be me or some one like me, they are "clean" because I would hate for you to contact HIV.
I took my risks and they bit my arse, I knew the risks and I accept the consequences. Hence, I refrain from ANY form of sex these days simply because I wouldn't want to risk passing on my HIV. Even with a condom, you are not 100%% safe. They are 98%% safe. They tear, come off, whatever. I am not prepared to take that 2%% chance of ruining some one elses life. Unlike the misscreant who gave it to me.
DON'T think because you stick to one man/woman that you are safe. Are you 100%% watertight sure that your partner isn't "playing on the side" Unless you spend 24 hours a day every day for the rest of your life with him/her, you will never be 100%% sure you are safe.
Remember this also. There are thousands, no probobly millions of people out there that are married. MOST OF MY MEN WERE. Are you STILL 100%% sure. Think about that a while before you make such inhuman statements. You will not upset me with them but they just might one day come back and bite yout miserable little arse.