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I am a girl,I'm 21 and I've got many male friends.In fact,I have only two close friends who are girls,and in general I hang out with boys(girls can be very boring).The problem with having male friends is that eventually some time they will hit on you,and through the years I ended up having sex with many of them,but most of the times it didn't end up in a relationship,we just kept on hanging out together like before.Do you think that I have an issue with "friendly sex"?(I know it sounds ridiculous,i just need you guys to share experiences with me)
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Funny, I'm a (straight) guy and most of my friends are women. I find men to be boring. And sometimes I end up sleeping with my women friends.
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@: cozart
Yeah it might be an awesome lifestyle. But u guys are the ones spreading the STD's...
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If its all consential isn't the woman as much to blame?
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@: Tystick
he isnt blaming guys, he used the word guys to sum up a group of people...and its true, they are spreading STDs...no offense
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you're 13. lies.
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Fuck,My girlfriend has a lot of male friends too.I hope she isn't like you
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she is ;)
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hehehe i am xD aahahahaha
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so what if she is!!
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I feel sad for you. :P
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gizzie56
AS long as your using your head and always practice "safe sex," then I don't see a problem with it. You may want to tone it down just a bit otherwise you could end up being labeled the school slut.
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s77
Yes definitely "use your head" ;)
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I agree. remember condoms and not too much casual sex
LULZ ;P
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she's 21...
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I want to be your friend. :) :)
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that's the best way to have it - friendly and fun, uncommitted and unencumbered with emotional baggage. have fun and, let's be friends!
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YOu've got the idea. Sex for the sake of sex & physical pleasure did lots of good. Share the same things with neighbours wives and enjoy life.
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WTF is with eveyrone calling this girl a slut? Fuck, get off your high horses people!

I'm sick and tired of chicks being looked down on who actually LIKE sex. Fuck that. Women want sex. We want it just as bad as men. But we have to pretend we don't and avoid it like the plague so people won't call us sluts and whores.

Not cool.

If a guy my age can have over 40 partners with no one blinking an eye about it then the fact that I also like to fuck should not be an issue. STFU already.
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mollythecat
@: boomzee
i LOVE girls like you. chick power!
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all guys love giels like us!
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be my friendly friend please
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im any guys friend
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What country do you live in?
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@: boomzee
Studies have shown that women have an equal or more voracious sexual appetite than men but it has been stepped on for millennia of oppression and inequality. Men who get laid often are glorified while the women are rebuked. Just another inequality in the social system that needs work.

Friendly sex is normal, if not extremely common, it is not uncommon either. As long as you keep free of diseases, its not abusive, and everyones happy, there is no reason that you should not keep having sex to your libidos desire.
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@: boomzee
I'm a guy, and I think you're completely right.
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mari
@: boomzee
I remember reading this somewhere "If a key opens lots of locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a s**tty lock" - Kamari aka Lyrikal
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@: boomzee
TOTALLY AGREE
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@: boomzee
Go do an experiment,

Get a guy friend to go ask 10 girls to have sex with him. Then go ask 10 guys to have sex with you.

Tell me what happened, and if you understand what the results of that experiment means.
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Rick_Bawls
@: boomzee
Men will never respect a woman who sleeps around and they certainly don't want to marry a woman like that.

It is very easy for a woman to have 40 sexual partners, but is much harder for a man to do the same unless he settles for fat chicks. All a woman has to do is spread her legs to get a guy to have sex with her, but it isn't nearly that easy for most men. This is precisely why most men don't respect women who have slept around - women who do this have low impulse control and are statistically more likely to cheat on their partners.
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You are either nieve or out of touch with reality
at 57 i have had sex with well over 200 women
and i dont do fat chicks
My wife has been with over 40 men before we married
from long term to one night stands and is defimitely no slut, just a sexually uninhibited woman
what is done in the past is past she could have been
the school tramp but that would also be the past
we have been together a long time and cheating for either of us is not going to happen because we know and respect each other and talk so nothing is a secret
We are sexual beings so dont judge on something you know very little about
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Thank you
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i love and respect my wife she had many men before i met her and still sees men whenever she wants{usually 2 or 3 times a week] she has many regular fuck buddies and also many one night stands
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very wrong.!! i was taught to have respect for ALL WOMEN regardless how they want live their lives! more men should learn to do this. but then again this genaration now doesent even respt them self much less any one else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I. Never had a fat chick
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i get more respect from my mates and my fb mates cos as they say "i lay on my back or im best on my back" or as you put it " spread my legs" cos im not just there for sex im there to chat with, go out with, etc, etc. Its normally narrow minded guys liek you who make it hard for girls liek me
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i'm sorry but... liek? (cringe)
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@: tomga1
why!!!!
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i'm sorry but... THE PAIN!
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Hi milkymum..i wud like to have sm sex chats wth u..my email id s mranp@rediffmail.com
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Flawed logic. What about men that sleep around? Is that okay? Why the double standard?
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@: boomzee
I fuckin hear you dude! Its not politacaly correct for women to like sex. Fuck politics that's what's wrong with the world these days so many people worried about what other people think. Jusgt live your life the way you want to.
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Sex is fun at ALL ages.
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Can't think of anything else to add
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under 13? you pervert.
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@: tomga1
i lost my virginity at 12!
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jesus. are you american or?
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@: tomga1
i live in the uk
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spose i've seen worse
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its what we all want in our lifes at soem piont
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I think you're missing out on having female friends though. Our society often pits women against each other, but even the best guy friends can't give you the same thing (I don't mean anything dirty!) that your girl friends can. As for sex with the guys, if you don't get hurt (many women get attached really easily with sex) and you stay safe, have fun! Yay to sex!
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I'm the same way as far as having more guy friends than girl friends...but I don't usually let them have sex with me...o.o

I guess it could be normal though.
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in other words you have fuck buddys :) haha yeah its awsome, and there mates so whats the worry.
if you want a relationship, start dating other guys
:)
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I wish I had friends like you. Seriously. Usually girls are really boring when it comes to sex with friends, as they fear to be seen as sluts or skanks. So I'm giving out a very big "Thanks idiots" to those clowns in here calling this girl names. People like you are the ones to blame for the worlds biggest irony. I mean, imagine a world where guys and girls had the same approach to sex? That would be heaven.

Respect to this girl for making the world a better place.
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its fine .... infact i wish i was you lol
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I wish my friends that are girls would be like that

But yeah I think that is PERFECTLY normal as long as your being safe ;)
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Totally agree--everybody I've ever had sex with suddenly takes everything so seriously--which is good some of the time, but occasionally: you just want somebody, for some odd reason... without any interest in making a big deal out of it... I wish to god I had cool friends like this!
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I wish everyone was like this it would be a funner world :)
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Sounds fine. Just make sure to use condoms. Seriously - you don't know what kind of disease they may have.
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Or what she has more like.
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In before the sad cunts who will say "Can I be your friend?"

Oh wait...
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A very healthy attitute. Good that there actually are some people who can have sex and not get emotionally involved.
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rammstein234
I have a boyfriend, but I also have a big majority of male friends and I would just love to have sex with some of them but I can't. Take the good out of it as long as you can. It's just evacuating sexual tension and it's a good thing. You're lucky you can do that.
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sex should be with one person and only after your marred.HORSE SHIT what are we liveing in the 1800s have sex act slutty if thats who you are if thats what you like and if your enjoying yourself (and others)ROCK OUT.
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hell yeah im bi and ive done it with guys and girls who are my freinds. its no big deal.
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So... how did this get downvoted?
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That's the only reason why they hang out with you, in hopes of the opportunity to have sex with you, ridiculously common these days!
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Relationships are sometimes overrated anyway
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thats just how things happen when you enjoy sex and have male friends that you hang out with on the regular
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well...having sex with friends is ok but u have 2 have safe sex....

if u wanna talk ill be here
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I have alot of male friends as i find girls to be bitchy and untrustworthy but i have a bf so i dont sleep with them. But i think aslong as its safe sex and no one gets ther feelings hurt i dont see a problem with it.
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Sex is something women have and men want, and as something women give in return for something else. Anything else you want, you better get before, because you will not get it afterwards.
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In "Marriage and Morals," Bertrand Russell wrote: "The essential of romantic love is that it regards the beloved object as very difficult to possess and as very precious . ... The belief in the immense value of the lady is a psychological effect of the difficulty of obtaining her, and 1 think it may be laid down that when a man has no difficulty in obtaining a woman, his feeling towards her does not take the form of romantic love."
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As long as you are prepared that you are diluting the meaning of sex with every guy, I think it is OK. If you want sex to be about fun and not intense emotional intimacy with say, a future spouse, then by all means have a good time :). But if you want sex to "mean something" down the road, you might wanna take it a little easy. I am probably the wrong person to ask though, b/c I think and care too much, so casual sex for me is an emotional nightmare...
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Yeah, that's crap.

You will find it varies from person to person. You can have fun with someone attractive but not partner material, and then have intense emotional lovemaking later with a real partner.

And if it's got to be something accompanied by a 90-piece orchestra every goddamn time, lighten up. Sex IS fun. If you can't have a hot quickie for the fun of it with your man, you're a tightass.
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smileystevie
i got offered head once and i said i dont want an std and the girl beat the $hit out of me lol, and im 13 BOO YAH
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USE A CONDOM, you dumb little s**t!
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The general principle of having casual sex is not illegal therefore there's nothing wrong with it. Even sex with a married person isn't illegal. Really the issue comes to the morality and your own values. However I wonder, if we always fall back on morality would we ever have sex. Would we want to lower ourselves to have sex. I mean. When you respect someone how could you do that. When you love someone. That is not respect. You love them and you want to do anything you can to please them and make them happy. I think sex is quite natural is that state. At the same token. I read about your body releasing dopemin which makes you feel happy when you are around something that you "love/care" but in a sense it's artificial. And until your body gets used to the chemicals then you'll always feel like that. I think I read after about 4 or 5 years your body becomes used to the chemicals. I would say after that amount of time. If you haven't had sex then you would feel that you weren't attracted to the person or that it wasn't working. So, ironically how can you truely know if you love someone? "I love you so much, that I don't want to risk my relationship with you".. :( Love is hopeless. And very imperfect.
Case in Point - it's your body .. do as you wish. There is no right and wrong. Only legal and illegal or moral and immoral. You will be judged by friends and family. But they are outsiders and can't necessarily understand your choices.
Sex with a random stranger sounds fun but if it turns into a pregnancy; very little likelyhood of that person staying and being a parent. A friend might b/c that person already cares for you.
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Ollieo
Yes I think you have an issue with friendly sex or you wouldn't ask.
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It seems okay as long as you're not upsetting anyone by sleeping with these guys, and you're having safe sex. You just need to keep a sharp eye on your reputation, cause it sounds as though a LOT of girls will be hostile to you/feel intimidated by you.
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You don't just "end up" having sex--you decide to do it. You little slut! Um...and furthermore, uh...Can we be friends?
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Ollieo
You'll grow out of it.
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dude, get your self checked out. std's are a bitch i hear.
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What is wrong with you? Don't you realise that this makes you a slut on so many levels and the fact that you have the lack of self respect. Haven't you thought that you might be used by your friends? but then again thats OK for you coz its just fun...
I'm 18 and I have a lot of male friends, but I don't go round sleeping with them for the fun of it coz thats just stupid and it makes a girl look cheap!

Just get a life.
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@: violet3
Wow, you really need to get laid.
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WTF? for your information I have sex with ONE person who is my BOYFRIEND, I don't need no stupid casual sex when I can do it with the one I love... the problem is, people like you have probably never been in a serious relationship before which is why you talk a load of BS.
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@: violet3
well isn't that nice for you, but really you need to learn to be less of a judgemental person. Everyone is different and some of us girls just dont get on with other girls like u because they r bitches. grow up.
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@: violet3
anyone that calls her a slut can back off! she's having fun with her youth and to be honest yes, having sex with people you are friends with is actually a bad idea. but so what? you learn from your mistakes and learn more about yourself and how to deal with different situations. she's having fun that's the main thing. i have sex with my friends too and nothing bad has come from it aslong as you are safe and have a mutual agreement that no strings are attatched. if one of the guys liked you and you were leading them on it would be a different story
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@: violet3
awww, how faithful :)
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@: violet3
and i bet u dont have ANY male friends because guys dont be-friend bitchy girls!
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Violet333
Slag, Trash, Tramp.
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I think it's f--ked up
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In my experience, and although they may not show it, often-times it is the guys that feel badly about having sex with friend girls. I did so with a very good friend in college and felt I had let her down. I avoided her for a little while afterwards out of supposed guilt which produced its own problems between us. We put it behind us by, believe it or not, scheduling a regular night to be with each other for a movie or dinner or sex. We were usually broke so it was usually sex, but we didn't obsess and it made us closer friends. Whatever works and makes you happy.
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Men are sooo fucking predictable. I have a couple of best friends that are guys, and yes at least once in their life they will TRY to have sex with you. God damn it guys, why are you sooo horny?
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@: lala85
Hey sex is fun, enjoy and be happy.
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I wanna be your friend. I'd like to fuck several of my friends.,
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If your a swallower I would like to be your friend. Not to many swallowers out there.
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that is what good friends are for I want to be your friend.
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I have a female friend with who i have had sex with. It only happened once and it never made things weird between us. Sometimes it just happens and its fine. Both males and females have certain urges and its natural for them to relieve them together. Just use protection though. Have some consideration for your friends.
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In my last year (im a guy (27) of high school i had sex with a friend. I had many lady friends but that girl was... Great. I wonder how she's doing...? Yeah, its normal.
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i have sex with my female friends all the time.and get my cock sucked by them. so it's ok to have sex with your male friends
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I want to be your friend!i like girls love girls like you
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cruelintentions
Sex is ultimate social lubricant, have fun. :)
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WOW I wish I was more like that! You are so lucky. Casual sex rocks but I can't do the whole sex-without-emotion thing.

Girls as friends aren't that bad, though.
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depends on how close you two are. i think sex should always mean something. i have alot of guy friends too but i would never sleep with them. because why should it be so easy for them to have me? im only going to give it to a guy whos deserving. not just another notch on my bed post or his for that matter. i can understand why u have more guy friends but try making girlfriends. they are great to have! and u can go out with them and have a good time. and i bet if u have more girls with you, you would meet a greater guy! rather than just having sex with the guy friends...
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haha don't worry about it - I'm a 23 y/o chick and I fuck my dude friends all the time haha
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kylie-ann22
I miss my fuck buddy
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aww...that's cute
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You are a perfectly normal woman. I think at your age you should have sex with several different guys. When you meet the right one, you will know it.
I am 55, and I have more enjoyable in the last year than any period in my entire l8fe. My girlfriend still likes a variety of sexual partners.
I don't mind, as long as I can join in. She is a true slut, but that's cool with me.
You don't have to have sex with everybody you meet. Variety is the Spice of Life.
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casual sex is good anyone that say they dont need sex is either a virgin or a liar. im a guy and general prefer girl mates and have found my self in simular situations. its fine aslong at intensions are clear before starting anything
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Having sex with friends is better than having sex with just some random person, IMO.
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Why can't I have a friend like you! Seriously, I hear stories like this and I sigh so deeply you can hear my sex-starved cries in Hawaii.

But you must be aware that this could be one of the only reasons guys hang out with you - to get lucky. Just remember, they probably don't respect you. You'll eventually find sex with someone you love and things will change. Until then, have fun!
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I have had sex with my friends that are girls and the same thing happened, we just kept on being friends so I think it's completely normal
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Modern birth control has changed the meaning of sex. Once it was a means to procreate, the more children produced the more likely the survival of the group. But with our vast overpopulation this has been reversed. Sex has now become a recreation and rightly so. Dispose of this society's puritanical beliefs. As long as you are not violating a promise made to a loved one, and you enjoyed the sex. I see anything wrong.
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cabinet70
Your only young there is nothing wrong with casual sex so just enjoy one day you will find someone you want to settle down with
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you have a lack of self-respect. You sleep with your guy friends bc you want to keep hanging out with them and are scared of losing their friendship. problem is they likely value you less, or really like you. Seen this a 1000 times. you need to stop sleeping with your guy friends. you will deserve more respect, and stop leading guys on.
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Good, bad, or indifferent you're what the gals call a skank.
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I think you need two things very badly.

1. NEW FRIENDS
2. MORALS
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I don't think it's cool. You sound like a skank who doesn't have many girlfriends because girls don't like you, not that girls are boring.
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Sorry, but you are being a disgusting skank whore with no morals. I pity you, because no decent guy is going to waste his time on your slutty ass.
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my friends decent, and HE WOULD.
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OMG I'm exactly the same!
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me too!
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It's a casual thing! Happens all the time and it's perfectly normal. I've had sex with like... 5 or 6 of my friends and we're still friends. As long as they aren't already with someone, it's OK.
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You are a young lady and obviously enjoying your life. You are also very popular by the sound of things. As long as you don't go below your dignity level you should be OK. Take care and enjoy your life.
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P00LTOY
you have a very healthy attitude.
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I've had sex with all of my male friends too. It can get confusing but its normaly a one off thing.
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it's fun.
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sounds like you are doing a fantastic job for us guys, keep it up, just play safe and don't spread or catch anything.
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theres nothin wrong with just havin sex just take a look at my name
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It's great that you feel liberated enough to have sex before marriage... just be careful. While you might not feel any romantic interest in any of your buddies, they could become attached to you. As in crazy possesive stalker if I can't have you no one will type of deal. Just be careful who you sleep with, and be smart about it. Drunk sex often leads to unprotected sex, which leads to-you guessed it-babies!!!
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thats why im bi hehe
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that's fine just be very careful
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Your my kind of girl.
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sexybi
you can be my friend
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casual sex is alrite.
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I actually lost my virginity to a good friend. And it was just casual sex. You're totally fine. :)
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Arijit
SEX is a part of life,Wanna be my friend?
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zii
I'm the same way. But its not normal. We're fucking whorres and we'll probably end up spreading some STD's at some point or another. I can't wait to see the looks on my friends faces. who wants to be my friend?
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i agree Im 60 and still love to fuck younger women 20-60 is great the older ones know how to fuck but the younger ones love to learn
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Who cares?!?!?!?!? you're young!!! do your thing, honey bee!
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It seems like a wierd situation. As soon as I get some from a women than I usually get it from them continually. If the sex stopped than so would the friendship. The cycle goes friens, than friend with benifits and than a falling out. You dont go back to friends, thats just strange.
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It sounds like you don't know how to say "no" because they are your friends.
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It's perfectly normal. When my lovely wife and I married she had only had sex with three other guys while I had been with many girls since I was ten years older than she was. We decided not to have children and she had her tubes tied. She has great breasts but I paid for her to have breast augmentation surgey and today they are fantastic. She was a 34C when I met her and she never wore a bra except at work and today she is a 36C and she still doesn't wear a bra. Consequently, she gets plenty of stares and that turns us both on. Four years ago I told her that I loved her; which I do, but that I felt she should 'expand her horizons' meaning I would like to see her with other men. She told me, "to forget it" but she slowly warmed up to the idea. Three years ago we were diving in Honduras and she had sex with the divemaster while I waited impatiently to find out about her experience.

When she got back to our room she was literally glowing. Since that time she has been with a number of guys who we carefully select in advance. We have had several threesomes both FMF and MFM and our sex life is fantastic. I don't think having sex with all of your male friends is wrong at all.
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I wish my wife would do thatfor me . I asked several times but she says no . The most she would do is flirt a bit and sometimes dance close up with them , any advise i can get on this ?
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Rick_Bawls
Man, you must have a weirdo cuckold fantasy!
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Rick_Bawls
It is normal for slutty woman to do this!
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Stop it. It may cause problems later. Protect ur heart. I used to b that way but I've learned sex becomes less special and if u give ur heart to too many people it's hard to pick up the peaces later. They will still b ur friend if u don't sleep with them.
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u r sick??realy!
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I TOO HAVE MORE MALE FRIENDS THAN FEMALE FRIENDS HOWEVER THEYRE INTRODUCED TO MY MAN AND THATS WHO I WILL FUCK WITH.....ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THAT IM NOT FUCKIN MY FRIENDS!!!!!! THATS GROSS...
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if you dont mind being a slut keep it up!
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YOU ARE WHAT PEOPLE REFER TO AS A SLUT!!!!.. im sorry but you are the people that girlfriends are afraid their boyfriend will meet. No one wants someone who will just have sex with anyone. A loosy goosy!
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@: slm89
you're a prize prat. The girl is not a slut as long as she knows that casual sex is what she wants. She has a beautiful high sex drive and she's enjoying herself.
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@: slm89
To be completely honest, and I mean no disrespect. That is probably why she has no girl friends. They just don't trust you, girl. It doesn't mean that you will never have girl friends. It just means that women will be VERY weary of you around their men. Keep that in mind. It's just what happens.
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@: slm89
I agree. You kinda sound like a sl*t. Stop having sex with your guy friends, or else you will be sucking for money (if you know what I mean)
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i think its fine, just a bit of fun isnt it
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for awhile i too did the same with a girl i was friends with, i'm 20 and she's 21 we to this day are still good friends and sometimes i find myself hitting on her friends and, well you know. but she's cool with it cuz we are just friends , ya sometimes her friends are like i like him but she wips out a "sorry he's mine" but she does that knowing that it was a bed buddy thing not a i want a relationship
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I agree, I prefere male friends to females anyday. It's normal, you will just be talking then one thing leads to another. When you are not commited or anything then you don't have to worry about break ups and things never being the same. That is the advantage
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Keep riding them honey! Your my kinda gal!
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It is perfectly normal and as long as you can remain friends and they make no further demands on you than sex, quite rewarding. Varietal sex has been shown to strengthen a woman's immune system, and decrease the likelihood of her having heart disease or cancer. Sex with such friends allows you this rewarding experience without an increasing danger of exposure to STD's.
Research in evolutionary biology and genetics also indicate increasing trends of women practicing varietal sex. More and more women are practicing varietal sex even beyond marriage.
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@: Lysette
I thought that was only the case if they exchanged bodily fluids. In her case, I don't think that would be a very wise thing to do. They seem to be quite young. Not really keeping track of their partners yet. Pretty sure they are not getting regular STD/HIV tests.
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Wanna be friends?
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Ha ha can you give me your number baby cakes?
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Nah, there is nothing wrong with it as long as it doesn't hurt anybody. Do you feel used? I'm just wondering?
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I need a friend like you....

I would love to have a friend who is secure in herself enough to have sex with me and still want to be friends. Most women deem sex as rights of ownership.

Just make sure they cover that thang up and hit me up if you need a good GOOD and I mean GOOOOD friend~wink~
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lol...and men don't use sex as a claim of ownership as well?
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One more thing.

I really think society puts unrealistic expectations on people in that they expect men and women NOT to give in to their natural urges to have intimate contact. There is nothing wrong or dirty with two people sharing physical pleasure with each other. This whole thing is a typical Christian hypocritical value of making the very act of conception evil and wrong...this whole born in sin crap. Well I am not a Christian and I don't give a damn what some pedophile Priest says about my lusting for women [friends or not] neither do I care about what some Preacher says who happens to be sexin half the congregation and is also bi on top of that. Protect yourself and be happy [period].
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Can I be your friend?
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ive done it. as long as it doesnt ruin your friendship, no harm no foul. just dont get pregnant. then you end up hating them.
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I guess that u can say that it's "Friendly Sex". As long as u prevent yorself from getting AIDS, STDs and HIVs, then u should be alright.. And also as long as it doesnt damage yor social behavior as well...
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Like anger happiness sexual desire is also a feeling that we can't control so u should not think u are doing something wrong U had desire for sex as everyone has and u get full filled with ur friends just enjoy it.
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Dear, um, Baby:

I want to be your friend!

Sincerely,

Me.
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wanna be my friend
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that's hot.
yur my kinda girl
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i have done the same thing to have a one night stand with a friend is much better than with a stranger also when u have a boyfriend and all u have is guy friends u really lose touch u know it sucks
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Can I be your friend?
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it's normal i think, coz' i do have one that kind of relation like you do...
just satisfying others, no hurt feelings after... it's just a sex...
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your are a bit slurry, but w/e makes you happy
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The more friends the merrier. Need a new friend?
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quab
You are my hero, lets hang out ;)
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hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
i use to fuck my friends all the time but i know i have sex problems..... but now i don't do it cuz i have a bf that i love..... so it could be a way for you to find true love
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You ever heard the phrase "the more friends the better?" well its TRUE so will you be my friend :D
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More power to you!
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ummm..... best freinds forever:3
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I wouldn't say it's normal... I guess if you feel fine about casual sex, then more power to you. But, if this is taking an emotional strain on you, then you should stop. Sounds like you're fine though. Btw, I'd like to be your friend too lol
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72% of the commentators said you are normal. But I said, you are not normal. Far from it.
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I let boys give me oral sex all the time but I don't date them just because they like giving me oral sex when I ask them for it.
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i think that you are perfectly normal. more the merryer, wanna be friends?
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I have many friends who are girls, but I don't go around shagging them! Closer to the point: Try to be in a loving relationship first, you will feel better about yourself.
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Actually, I would say that you DO NOT have a problem with "friendly sex"
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Sex was taboo back when marriage and children were institutions of social status and economic transaction. Now we have birth control and less class discrimination. Just make sure that you and your friends agree on the nature of the activity so that the sex feels good physically AND emotionally ;)
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I would probably do one or two... I dunno never tried it but I feel like I would be diminishing my value and crushing my confidence if I did so. :s
But whatever floats your boat.
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I wish I'd had a female fiend like you when I was younger. I don't see anything wrong with what you are doing. In fact, I think it is pretty neat. Apparently you are sensible enough to practice safe sex and birth control, so your behavior seems perfectly alright with me.
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I have this group of friends, 3 guys and 2 girls, me and a friend of mine, sometimes there's another girl with us. I have kissed all of the guys without being in a relationship with them, and so has my female friend, never had sex though. But still, I think this is normal :)
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Having a casual fling with a mate if they hit on you is far less awkward than turning them down. Turning down a mate if you are single is like saying I would rather screw a rabbit you fucking ugly cunt.
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IT HAPPENS BUT PLEASE AVOID THIS AND IT CAN BE DEVASTATING TO YOUR SELF-ESTEEM. They do not really respect you and when you get older and they are all are married they will all still friends but they will not be friend with you because they had sex with you. You may see this on television but is not a good idea.
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I think you have sex with them cause unconsciously you want one of them to ask you to be their girl friend and you think this will acheive that. Wrong they will use you for sex but since secretely they think your easy they will never respect you enough to have you be a steady girl friend. All you will get is a bad reputation for being a slut.
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Be very careful with this kind of thing. First of all, I have ruined a few friendships by caving into either a drunken or emotionally charged sexual encounter. Either way it has ended poorly because the other person is either looking for more or really in to me. (Not to sound self-absorbed) but the few occasions I have done this I have lost the friendship. It never gets back to the place it was before, plus, it is so much nicer to have a bunch of girlfriends that you can just shoot the shit with and not feel any pressure about any future sexy times.
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i love to have fuck buddys its ok
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at times u cant say no what r friends for if u can not assist in times of need. i once visited a friend meet them watching sex film sat close to him n we started kissing d light was off but tv on 1 finger was deeping in n out of me b4 i no it was a mouth licking my vagina later a dick inside me all d 5 boys were on me,1 dick fucking my mouth,1 breast,1 deep in my vagina........ infact all fuck me 1 after n their dick so big, fucking for over 4hrs n they were licking my vagina deeply. group sex is wonderfull.
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@: tego
I bet they all really had just the deepest respect for you afterwards.

If your story is true it sounds more like they raped you then being consensual group sex. Either way its disgusting.
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YESSS. Girls are so fucking boring. I also have only two female friends because they are just like me. I just like guys better, all they ever talk with me about is funny things, jokes, and we make fun of people; all girls talk about is emotion bullshit, girls can be extremely self-absorbed.
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thats a whore for you hunny
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I had sex with my best friend and we dated but she broke up with me and I asked my self why would she brake up with a good man why would anyone do that. I know girls are looking for a good man and she let me go for someone that looks better and he cheated on her. The only thing she would do with me now is have sex but I want more than that so now were just friends but o well I need a better girl anyway
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lastnight
Friends with benefits
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...right?
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TheBlueOne
This is more than likly more common than people would like to admit. ;]
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Hey if you can't screw your friend who can you screw. At least you know them. Safety first.
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franciosdillinger
it's normal. I've slept with female friends, and the ones i haven's slept with, i would.

Why not?
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Any way you and I could become friends?
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Jaaaa im having sex with my boyfriend and his father, this is ficking good, why sex is the best thing ever mmm ?
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i have been having sex with my mates since we where all at school togther so do what i do enjoy all the sex n fucks they give you, its good being close to your mates like this cos we can tell each other anything so it has made our friendship stronger
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if it's consensual and they arent cheating on their boyfriend/girlfriend.your consenting adults.it's ok.
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Yeah bro, I'd say that's normal. though I find it slightly amusing.
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Rewinds
I have slept with many of my male friends (I didn't have sex though)
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It's "normal" but it's not "right". It's really up to you to decide when and where to have sex, not the guy. Guys' brains are often totally ruled by their sexual arousal feelings; they would be just about equally satisifed if you jacked them off or had intercourse with them. You might even get a number of guys who enjoy jacking themselves off while you watch them and tell them how sexy they are.
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Ahahahaha slut
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Want to be my friend?
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i'm the same i have got lots of male friends and just a few remale friends, i have also laid on my back for all my male friends quiet a lot of times.

i've do it when evber any of them want a ride
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This is normal, you know them and it is just a thing to do. Keep up the good work, my friends an I do this.
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There's nothing normal with it. You're not a slut like some people suggest.

With this, there's that double standard of society. If a guy has a lot of female friends that he screws, then he's a hero. If a woman does it then she's labeled as a slut.

Even if people say it to you, remember its just a word to keep women down. Its old old old sexism with a new name.
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It's very common, but I think the real question is why casual sex with friends is preferred over a stable relationship with one guy, while drawing lines with other male friends. Is it just a way to stay accepted by the guys, where competition for being "the cool girl" is always on the horizon? Is it no-strings-attached for all parties involved? Do the friendships still seem as valuable and like they'd stay afloat without the occasional fling?
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Theres nothing wrong with having sex with your friends. Monogomy was created by religious nutjobs anyways and most people are brainwashed. You sound like an awesome friend.
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just enjoy yourself the best you can and as long as you decide who gets to have sex with you then go for it girl. Over the years i have let all my male friends have sex with me many a time and we are still mates and they still get sex with me when ever we want it, but has led to some gangbangs tho! so watch out for that
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I think you should practice self control don't give it away so easy, but on the other hand its good to expeirence life. Really the best I can say is really ask your self are you happy in life, if yes then don't change, as long as noone gets hurt and you use condoms
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I would love to be your friend, I don't judge anything sexual
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thats awesome
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I think you will find that after a while you will feel used. It's not really a complement for them to sleep with you. If you will give it,they will take it.Most women go through this it's part of growing up. I wish you happy life
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I guess if it's clear from the get go that it's only sex and that one of you doesn't want more in terms of a relationship then fuck away and enjoy the variety! Just keep it safe obviously.
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iPhilip
Just to tell you, every male has a worm feeling for sex. It is normal, and you are only making your friends feel happy. If they think you are hot, you should let them fuck you. I want to fuck my sister but she doesn't let me
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The maths don't add up to me, all the guys you speak to have lots of women horny dirty sluts! All the girls you talk to have only had four or five guys! Now either guys are telling lies or the girls are, personally I think it is somewhere in the middle!
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Ok Im just gonna assume from this that you are gay correct and wow , but um I do the same thing with my freinds I end up dating all of them XP
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'Friends with benefits' , it's not a bad thing, you're just having a little fun, and as long as it doesn't become weird between you and your friends, you'll be fine, although if you were thinking of settling down any time soon, it may be a little awkward introducing your friends to your partner..
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Its perfectly normal for people (boys and girls) to enjoy their bodies, hey why not if its not hurting anyone else?? The only time it may get problematic is when you do find someone that you want to stay monogamous with and your previous special friends may not appreciate why you no longer wish to be physical with them, either that or when you do find someone that thinks you should be monogamous and you carry on with your other guys, that could cause problems... I say enjoy while you can, but have a plan on how you will handle the day you want to get serious.
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i dont see a problem with it, sex is awesome..as long as you are having a good time then whats the big deal? just be careful because if you're sleeping with a people in a group of friends then if the clap or something like that gets introduced yer fuckin doomed. how humiliating for everyone. i say do it..

most of my friends are male, and we dont have sex but we flirt all the time, its fun and gets me all giddy. i think its a sign of being comfortable in a relationship with someone, too. its a sign of 2 people being comfortable in their relationship as friends
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Lets be friends?
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Hmmm... When you say friends, that means more than one, I think you should stick to one friends with benefits maybe. And girls aren't boring. Meet new girls
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its fine ,you dont just bang anyone,they are your friends,it seems quite healthy to me,and it reminds me of the seventies,sooo much ,you go girl ,you will know when to stop,
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i had a friend who i hung out with and partied with and we hooked up like that and we were good friends and now we are married and have been for 17 years and going so i guess i did marry my best friend. and ya its bullshit us guys can fuck as many women as we want so i dont see why a women cant do the same thing as long thay do it safe. and guys might get laid more if we did not make women feel like sluts for doing the same thing as us men do just my take on the hole thing
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I've never slept with anyone, but from what I've heard, it's not so normal.
Increasingly common though.
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Had this happen a few times, and it's not worth it. 90% of the time, you lose your friend.
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It's a good way to lose friends.
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why sooooooo many comments on one of the mos normalest posts?
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Sounds like a Hoe to me
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WhiteOctober
This is exactly what I want my friends to be like.
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What are friends for? Just because you have sex with a friend doesn't mean you will end up marrying them. Enjoy your friends and sex.
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I'm stirght male and perfer the company of women over men. I am thinking that is a natural thing be you male or female to desire the company of the opposite sex. As for sexing your friends. I am thinking that both you and your guy friends are lucky to share yourselves without the sex driving a wedge between you. I wish I could have had that kind of a friendship with some of my female friends. Only thing I can think of is you might want to consider is will sexing your friends put somekind of a wedge between you and them when you hook up with some guy for a long term or permanent relationship. That might be when your comfortability level with sex friends might make a change for the worse. I hope not but it's something to think about.
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well in that case can i be your friend
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if it is fun, do it.
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Sounds fun! Wish you were my friend;) I say its normal because one of my friends sleeps with her friends (but she's 14 and she needs to wait) and I also say its normal because I want to sleep with pretty mmuch everybody I'm friends with (but I guess that's kuz I'm a male)
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I sleep with everything regardless of species!
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I mean, I have never been in your shoes, but I feel like I might understand where you are coming from. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't help but feel a little bit of a temptation to have sex especially if there are heated moments in our friendship where he flirts, but I don't know if I would go as far as actually having sex with them. Idk. I guess I'm just one of those girls that really thinks you should be committed to a guy if you are gonna do sexual things with him.
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'It's not normal, its called beeing a slut.
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It's not normal, its called beeing a slut.
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If a girl allready had sex with like 5 guys or more when shes 20 years old. Then i dont want to be with her together. Thats disgusting to most men. Also, girls who have had many sex partners, often struggle to find friends. because noone wants to be friends with a slut. When a girl had many sex parners she looses her value. People think that these girl cant be a good partner in a realationship. and thats true as you might know yourself..
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I think it's cool to be freinds and just have sex its normal il be your freind lol
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can i be your "friend"?
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called having some fuckbuddies
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abigdick
If a woman likes sex, she is not a slut. A woman should enjoy sex with whoever she wants, whenever she wants. Us guys do.
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I have had sex with friends. Only had problems with one woman. She didn't fall in love she just felt she needed to change her life.

I have five women friends that I have had sex with and we are all still friends. I think it is if you know the difference in sex making love and fucking.
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My wife and I have been discussing her having sex with another man and she has chosen at least 3 of my close friends. Now they have all seen her naked hostessing my poker parties so know what she looks like and I'm sure they wouldn't refuse and they all teased her about having sex with them. Is this advisable?..... Would appreciate opinions....
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dytrog
I grew up in a small town so most of te girls were my friends. So wen I had sex it was just having fun with a
friend. Some was afraid of getting preg so they wanted
it in te ass wich they seemed to enjoy as much as the ones that did the norm.
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I think its normal. When youre friends with someone of the opposite sex there is a sexual tension between eachother most of the time and i think thats what really makes it different from being friends with a same sex person.
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It's called friends with benefits and there is nothing wrong with it. Go for it..
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Normal, nope. Healthy, yes as long as your safe about it. I have heard that friends with benefits is the most fulfilling sexual relationship, and I can see why. The problem is maintaining it without hurting feelings. If you can do that then you are gold and probably will have a very nice time in your twenties. I'm 24 and trying to get something like that going. Oh, I'm a guy BTW.
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I think you have with these friends was not normal relations,because they used you as a toy,so you better forget.
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dytrog
The first girl I came in was 9. I was 14. She asked me to fuck her. I said no. She laid down pulled her dress up and I saw her bald cunt and got hard. She told me to fuck her. She said her brother did. He was 3 years older than me. She fucked like a experienced woman. her 11 year old sister loved fucking too. She also fucked her bro.
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Yes its normal, but when you get in a serious relationship you might be ashamed about this and you'll need to be honest with your partner or if you lie your partner will figure it out and resent you for not speaking up...
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I had a few girls I was "friends" with as I was growing up. As I got older, I developed a preference for longer term monogamous relationships.

You only live once, so you might as well have fun. No doubt as you get older your sexual "needs" will change and the occasional fuck with a buddy won't do it any more. Or maybe it will.
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Do you guy friends like sloppy seconds?
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flikr
yes i have sex with as many girls as i can, which is usually 5-10 per week
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@: flikr
this guy is probably talking about his blowup doll collection
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lol
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NICE!
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@: flikr
hehe, you be pimpin.
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@: flikr
That's what lifes about having safe fun ^_^ I love sluts they are alway's interesting ;)
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@: flikr
you'd like to think so. 8-|
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