Sex with friends

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Your only young there is nothing wrong with casual sex so just enjoy one day you will find someone you want to settle down with

AS long as your using your head and always practice "safe sex," then I don't see a problem with it. You may want to tone it down just a bit otherwise you could end up being labeled the school sl*t.

yes i have sex with as many girls as i can, which is usually 5-10 per week

Your an attention w**** thats all.

Sex is ultimate social lubricant, have fun. :)

you have a very healthy attitude.

Misseh, when's yo gets prennent from all dat leg spreddin', use dat bress' milk to make pancakes to git yo'seff a husbend an' good luck hoe!!

Wanna be my friend? =)

OMG I'm exactly the same!

I want to be your friend. :) :)

In "Marriage and Morals," Bertrand Russell wrote: "The essential of romantic love is that it regards the beloved object as very difficult to possess and as very precious . ... The belief in the immense value of the lady is a psychological effect of the difficulty of obtaining her, and 1 think it may be laid down that when a man has no difficulty in obtaining a woman, his feeling towards her does not take the form of romantic love."

thats just how things happen when you enjoy sex and have male friends that you hang out with on the regular

Sex is something women have and men want, and as something women give in return for something else. Anything else you want, you better get before, because you will not get it afterwards.

I've had sex with all of my male friends too. It can get confusing but its normaly a one off thing.

this guy is probably talking about his blowup doll collection

that's the best way to have it - friendly and fun, uncommitted and unencumbered with emotional baggage. have fun and, let's be friends!

i think its fine, just a bit of fun isnt it

it's fun.

Sounds fine. Just make sure to use condoms. Seriously - you don't know what kind of disease they may have.

Or what she has more like.

Funny, I'm a (straight) guy and most of my friends are women. I find men to be boring. And sometimes I end up sleeping with my women friends.

sounds like you are doing a fantastic job for us guys, keep it up, just play safe and don't spread or catch anything.

well...having sex with friends is ok but u have 2 have safe sex....

if u wanna talk ill be here

theres nothin wrong with just havin sex just take a look at my name

I'm the same way as far as having more guy friends than girl friends...but I don't usually let them have sex with me...o.o

I guess it could be normal though.

in other words you have f**k buddys :) haha yeah its awsome, and there mates so whats the worry.
if you want a relationship, start dating other guys
:)

As long as you are prepared that you are diluting the meaning of sex with every guy, I think it is OK. If you want sex to be about fun and not intense emotional intimacy with say, a future spouse, then by all means have a good time :). But if you want sex to "mean something" down the road, you might wanna take it a little easy. I am probably the wrong person to ask though, b/c I think and care too much, so casual sex for me is an emotional nightmare...

Sex is fun at ALL ages.
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The general principle of having casual sex is not illegal therefore there's nothing wrong with it. Even sex with a married person isn't illegal. Really the issue comes to the morality and your own values. However I wonder, if we always fall back on morality would we ever have sex. Would we want to lower ourselves to have sex. I mean. When you respect someone how could you do that. When you love someone. That is not respect. You love them and you want to do anything you can to please them and make them happy. I think sex is quite natural is that state. At the same token. I read about your body releasing dopemin which makes you feel happy when you are around something that you "love/care" but in a sense it's artificial. And until your body gets used to the chemicals then you'll always feel like that. I think I read after about 4 or 5 years your body becomes used to the chemicals. I would say after that amount of time. If you haven't had sex then you would feel that you weren't attracted to the person or that it wasn't working. So, ironically how can you truely know if you love someone? "I love you so much, that I don't want to risk my relationship with you".. :( Love is hopeless. And very imperfect.
Case in Point - it's your body .. do as you wish. There is no right and wrong. Only legal and illegal or moral and immoral. You will be judged by friends and family. But they are outsiders and can't necessarily understand your choices.
Sex with a random stranger sounds fun but if it turns into a pregnancy; very little likelyhood of that person staying and being a parent. A friend might b/c that person already cares for you.

It's great that you feel liberated enough to have sex before marriage... just be careful. While you might not feel any romantic interest in any of your buddies, they could become attached to you. As in crazy possesive stalker if I can't have you no one will type of deal. Just be careful who you sleep with, and be smart about it. Drunk sex often leads to unprotected sex, which leads to-you guessed it-babies!!!

I think you're missing out on having female friends though. Our society often pits women against each other, but even the best guy friends can't give you the same thing (I don't mean anything dirty!) that your girl friends can. As for sex with the guys, if you don't get hurt (many women get attached really easily with sex) and you stay safe, have fun! Yay to sex!

that's fine just be very careful

its fine .... infact i wish i was you lol

for awhile i too did the same with a girl i was friends with, i'm 20 and she's 21 we to this day are still good friends and sometimes i find myself hitting on her friends and, well you know. but she's cool with it cuz we are just friends , ya sometimes her friends are like i like him but she wips out a "sorry he's mine" but she does that knowing that it was a bed buddy thing not a i want a relationship

I agree, I prefere male friends to females anyday. It's normal, you will just be talking then one thing leads to another. When you are not commited or anything then you don't have to worry about break ups and things never being the same. That is the advantage

Yes I think you have an issue with friendly sex or you wouldn't ask.

I wish my friends that are girls would be like that

But yeah I think that is PERFECTLY normal as long as your being safe ;)

Keep riding them honey! Your my kinda gal!

lol

if you dont mind being a sl*t keep it up!

Your my kind of girl.

you can be my friend

You'll grow out of it.

YOU ARE WHAT PEOPLE REFER TO AS A sl*t!!!!.. im sorry but you are the people that girlfriends are afraid their boyfriend will meet. No one wants someone who will just have sex with anyone. A loosy goosy!

It seems okay as long as you're not upsetting anyone by sleeping with these guys, and you're having safe sex. You just need to keep a sharp eye on your reputation, cause it sounds as though a LOT of girls will be hostile to you/feel intimidated by you.

It's a casual thing! Happens all the time and it's perfectly normal. I've had sex with like... 5 or 6 of my friends and we're still friends. As long as they aren't already with someone, it's OK.

hehe, you be pimpin.

casual sex is alrite.