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sexually confused, can you help me?
I am a 21 yr old female. Married.
I was only really interested in girls growing up but i kept it secret. Some how i found a wonderful man whom i am now married to. I love him very much, usually i can keep my thoughts clean of women but lately i cant get women out of my head! Is this normal? Should i look into it? Get it out of my system? I wish i had a female friend i was close to i could confide in.
My husband knows of my past and says no way to a threesome. So i know there is no chance of it.
Is it normal to feel this way? am i to feel unfullfilled for forever? Advice?
-feeling guilty and confused.
I was only really interested in girls growing up but i kept it secret. Some how i found a wonderful man whom i am now married to. I love him very much, usually i can keep my thoughts clean of women but lately i cant get women out of my head! Is this normal? Should i look into it? Get it out of my system? I wish i had a female friend i was close to i could confide in.
My husband knows of my past and says no way to a threesome. So i know there is no chance of it.
Is it normal to feel this way? am i to feel unfullfilled for forever? Advice?
-feeling guilty and confused.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (7)
rationalist (25567)
You can control your own life. It sounds like you married a man who does not accept the real you. If you are attracted to women, then you should have sex with them. That is normal and morally correct. You can try to be what he wants you to be and what others have convinced you is "normal" but it will be unfair to you and equally unfair to your husband, and it won't work. Why condemn him to an unhappy life with a frustrated wife.
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Guywiththehotwife (9478)
Being 21, you have a LONG way to go in your relationship, if you really love him like you say you do. A man's "no" is almost always "probably not." As your relationship gets stronger, he may get more comfortable and secure and love the idea. At least for now, you belong to HIM and him only.
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odd1out (26252)
That is normal. You married him so you should probably give him a chance. Wait a few years and see how you feel. If you're still crazy about girls then ask him again. He might change his mind. If he doesn't then divorce him. You're not being fair to yourself. In the mean time you should look at porn when you can't get them out of you're head.
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mdht7 (27210)
you may only be strongly fantizing about it, i do it occasionally and i am very straight lol, but if you are bi then you should be honest and completey serious with him. you are still VERY young. use porn too. or become good friends with a lesbian or another bisexual and fool around with them.
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acedavis (27862)
No this is not normal this is not something you see in everyday society.You should respect your husband enough not to make feel uncomfortable about not having a threesome. Just keep your sexual urges to yourself.
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ctbpdx (22808)
Just admit that you're bisexual, and when he's gone, you can look at naughty things on the Internet. That's what I do, anyhow. :D
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Ollieo (19003)
Don't have children until you have sorted yourself and relationship out.
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