Sharing a bed with my dad

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that is tender. nothing wrong with that.

I was going to say no, but my GF says everything is normal EXCEPT for the spooning part. There should be no touching.

That's really cute, your affection for your father is endearing. I hope my daughter will not think it is awkward or weird to sleep in the same bed as me when she is older.
So go for it and be happy

Gross. Please, set some boundaries.

Ewwwwwww.

Most of this is nice - the tenderness & feelings of trust and safety - but that you are posting says you are not entirely sure. You are growing up. I agree with above - time for boundaries esp. the spooning.

Wanting to spend time together? Fine.
Spooning? Please stop..

i just thought of a friend who told me once "i think incest is so hot"

as long as you dont overstep boundaries into sex of touching each other i think its weird but ok

Its all good, but cut out the spooning. That's the beginning of incest.

as long as your dad aint geting hard next to you then its fine.................

I agree with all of the above. Finding comfort and tenderness from your parents and father is natural, but spooning is beyond where the boundaries should lie. In addition, now that you're older, this should probably stop. I'm more worried that your father hasn't put an end to it - adults know the boundaries and the fact he still actively spoons you is worrying.

"active spooner" im so gonna use that

A description of what two people do is far less revealing than what thoughts, feelings and intentions had in have in connection to what they do.

The fact that you feel safe and comfortable says a great deal about the nature of your relationship with your dad. However, if you begin to wonder about your feelings, or your dad's at all, I hope you have the kind of relationship with him that you can ask him about it. And if you start to have romantic or erotic feelings yourself, really, the smart thing to do is to remove yourself from temptation to indulge them.

In your life you'll have an indefinite number of relationships that have romantic and physical aspects, but a relationship with a parent is kept unique and special by avoiding those complications. And they are undesirable complications, in a number of important ways.

I wish I was your daddy baby
Oh my is he lucky LOL ha ha
Omg i am blushing

I'm a psychology major and no, it's not entirly normal- not terrible but not normal either.