Should I change ?

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Changing your atitute only to please guys is not on the most top rated smart things i heard, lets imagine your bad girl attitude does indeed land you a "guy" what then? will you keep on the act or wait till he finds out that youre not what you advertise? Just be yourself, very few ppl are worth changing over, and those that are will never aks you to do that.



Peace jah bless

I suspect you are equating a nice girl with a giving girl. You can be very nice without being a giving person. Less is often more, and you may be giving more than is appropriate which can turn people off big time. People do not like to have to deal with reciprocal obligations, it's a headache to deal with.

Sweet, respectful, independent and cute are qualities/features every decent guy admires and is a magnet.

You can also be more aggresive with guys, take the lead, make the first move if you like someone. Just cut out the giving aspect unless you become serious with someone and lower your expectations when it comes to romance. If someone doesn't like you that's fine too, move on to another person. There are plenty of fish in the sea. So...........have fun.

blow him

You just need to find some better guys.

lol let me tell you something. im quite the aggressive young lady myself and ive got a huge bad arse attitude, and im telling you now guys dont like that! dont change trust me, its in my nature to be what im like and thats the same as you. Dont change for other people it doesnt work like that, you will end up regretful and unhappy.

dont change unless you feel its what you want. be yourself its the best thing.

Do not become more aggressive, simply dont be a pushover though, speak your mind, treat people as they treat you and all should work out fine.

If it does not, then its the other person in question that has a problem.

do not change for anyone!!!!!~

HON*Y it seems that no one here gave you real advice..you just want the guy right? well here is advice from a guy who knows how to help.
1.) guys like a girl if she's hot..there is no way around that..weather your nice or bad..its about looks more then anything, im sorry

2.) if you look good and are shy thats fine, you can still get the guy you want, easily, just wear something provacative in front of him..if he doesn't do the first move and he's weak then you should sit on his lap and feel up on him, no guy will say no, and if he's a weak dude he will love you for it.

3.)if ur ugly, u can still get guys, but you got to give it up, and have a killer personality..give the guy you like head and keep him in check, don't let him cheat and get away...but don't kill the guy either..but if ur too ugly..then ur limited to desprete guys..

no, just put urself out there more

this is for diz daz you must spend a lot of time on this site ive seen coments from you all over the place.





peace out jah bless.

personaly i like nice girls.dont try to be some1 you are not. Also you sould not change yourself just to get some1 to like you or to fit in. if i knew you and i liked you. if i found out you changed to get some1 to like you i wouldnt like you any more. be yoursel. remember that.

rayismynameandgirlsaremygame12 is wrong. i have herd better advice from my 6 and 1/2 year old sister.

NO!!! you absolutely should not change and should approach the guy just like u truly are... i'm a guy and i can say i personaly hate aggressive girls and i just adore nice girls :)

no don't change aggressive isn't better it comes across as needy if you like him hang with him you could let him know casually but some guys are oblivious to hints though I was always bad with that. And some, probably most guys are insecure and maybe because your cute, they think you could have lots of guys and they don't feel they have a shot with someone as cute as you. When i was young i was fearless, as i went into high school i got a regular girlfriend and everything changed, I lost my manly aggressiveness because I changed and wasn't outspoken enough because of fear of rejection. I know for women it is harder cause women don't normally ask. But when they do it isn't always what you want but guys take it anyway because they feel it might not happen again. And it will . So relax be confident in who you are. I'm sure some one great. So get to know him and get close to him and if he feels it he will come to you. Alot of girls think picking on them is the way to go, but it can backfire if your mean he may think wow shes a b@tch instead of flirting. So be sweet and fun enjoy the time you spend with him. Ask him along to hangout and don't make that awful nerve racking date thing. Make it fun and casual and if he's interested he will come to you.

nice people attract nice people and you get married and live in a perfect lil house with a puppy and a baby on the way ....and then you both get killed in a car crash