should i get pregnant?

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Don't do it, you will regret it. There is a right time and place for everything. Age 16 is too young to have a child. You may be emotionally ready, but I highly doubt you are financially ready or have the appropriate support in place. A child benefits most being raised by both a mother and a father who are together, not separated. So wait.

STFU and go get your Barbie, you're 16...

Wow, i think you should listen to yourself and reconsider..."I just want to have sex with guys to get pregnant". I'm not saying there's anything wrong with having a child, but at your age, i highly doubt you're ready for it. Unless you can find a really great guy with a really great paying job, then go for it, but if not, i honestly think you should wait this one out.

-Adam-

WOW ya u might like children but im 16 and sderiously its too early if you really wnat something to take care of get a puppy of kitten and its just like a baby except cheaper and you dont have to carry it around for 9 months at the age of 16 and if u get a little one you can dress it up and take it everywhere
dont have a baby
its not the best thing to do

u sound nuts to me u wont be able to support the baby one bit and the father wont either

ur obviously a slut rnt u

No you are not a slut!!!

The reason most Pstchs say tat a young girl wants a baby is because they seek love! Generally they are not getting the love hey seek from their parents or faily or friends! Thus tey eel if they have a baby they will have some one that has to depend and love them!

DON"T do it! You will regret it later! Get your educationa nd get started in life before you get PG!!!

your still a child yourself, how would your parents feel about this?

you won't be able to raise your baby properly. :)

Never thought about that but if she did it it would not be fair to the baby!!!

actually i have a job and my family would support me. i dont beleive in having un needed benefits. and as for my parents i dont have a dad and my mum would be dissapointed but supportive. i dont take drugs, smoke or drink heavily which is what alot of 20 something mothers do.

i didnt right this post you arsehole

why dissapoint your mum and force her into being supportive? Do good in your job for few years have a bit of fun put a bit away etc and and your mum will more than likely support you more than you could ever realise. Why not make the decision then? If it is really what you want it would be worth the wait anyway

I cant tell you what is right family wise, if you want to be a single mum i guess thats your choice, but that is a very difficult road to tread at 16 or at any age infact, you may want a baby now, but what do you do when your mates are out and you cant find a baby sitter? you may meet the man of your dreams, and he might adore you, but he might not want to take on a baby that isnt his.

With out reading all the comments im going to say wanting a baby at 16 normal but actually really considering it means your crazy.

Many girls feel this way around that age. I did too. I suspect it is biological as well as a way to seek attention. Just wait a while, or you might harm your chances at ultimately getting the kind of family you want.

ok before you do anything pleace take the time to consider:


If you have your baby this early your going to be realy young like when its like 10 your going to only be 26! Your kid also might be made fun of. I dont think that it would be the right thing to do. If you have the right guy. Have protected sex. Wait a while before having that baby! It will be more special this way.

Trust me... not a good idea. I have had so many friends who thought it would be 'fun' to get pregnant and have a baby... but now they are seriously regretting it. You should wait until you have met the right guy and are in a good financial situation. You are way to young at the moment... you have your whole life ahead of you. Just go out and enjoy being young.

Dont do it, I think you may be longing for attention and for someone to love and for someone who loves you back. You will be doing this for all the wrong reasons. Having a baby at your age with ruin your life. You wont have enough money to feed and clothe the baby and you will struggle to survive and keep it. The idea is never as wonderful as it seems. If you want a baby you need to find someone special first, have a stable relationship knowing the other person will stand by you through the tuff times. You both need to save up your money to give that baby a good start in life. Think of your own childhood, was it good? Would you want to put your own baby through the same? I expect you would want the best for your babies future. So hold off for a while, get a job and some money in your pocket and a stable partner.

You know you ought to think about the guy you want as the babies father also! Is he ready to be a daddy? Is he ready to get a job and support a famly? What if once you have the child he decides he wants it, are you ready for a custody battle?

When you have unprotected sex do you think about the possiblities of STDs

dont call me a fucking asswhole you fuckzo. i wasnt talking to you

When did I call you an "asswhole."

If you don't want peoples advice then don't ask!!!

i dont know how that @people thing always comes up. its soo anoying!!

no, you should cut out your womb and have a west african witch doctor to perform a brutal female circumsision on you with only lego to operate with.

Instead of hitting reply at the bottom of a reply...go to the very bottom of the last rely and hit adda comment! Then you won't be addressing your comment to any one person in particular.

dont do it im sure you think you just adore and love babies and want one of your own but trust me i want one too but i atleast wanna have a little money to support the baby and have the daddy around to help take care of the baby and i wanna party when i turn 18 but dont rush in you have a lot of oppurtunity in the U.S that people would kill for so dont do it wait until later

dont be dumb and ruin your life.

on average it takes £400,000 to raise a child, you got that?

typical mother abuse situation,accented by a non father figure.
find love for yourself before having a baby in the belief that this will bring you the love you have always cried for subconciously.
you must love yourself before you can love others.

It is sad when you think about babies having babies. What I think agirl should do if she really feels like this kid...go down to the local hospital when a 13-16 yr old comes in to deliver a child. Stand in the hall as she delivers. the talk to her after wards and find out what the girls plans for herself and teh baby are!

It wouldnt be fair on the fella you slept with, your lumbering a child on them for the rest of their lives too. Just wait, the urge will go away, just concentrate on school, or a book or shit

you have the rest of your life to think about kids are hard work i have a frind that made the same mistake your thinking about doing ahe has no free time and can not go to parties are do enethang not saing kids are bad but to early thay can be a hasil

I hate babies. Aside from the fact that you're using the baby to feel needed and loved, couldn't you just get some, ahem, friends? Or boyfriend(s)? Babies are ghey. Little jaundiced goblins, I abhor them.

hey ur not the only one like that. i'm like that too...but i'm a little bit younger than you. i'm 13. & yes i know what people will say too & i'm tired of hearing that. & i'm sure you are too. But see here's hte only thing stopping me & my boyfriend is we're afraid we'll get caught,we still have school left, & we want to make sure that we'll still be together if we have a baby comming on the way.but one of his friends said that he is think about proposing to me like within a month or two just because he wants to be together,& i also know what people are going to say about this too. but my friend she is my age & her boyfriend is 2 years older than us & they're already engaged & of course their parents don't know. but i'm not saying go get engaged.you need to fall in love with some one & expeirence that true love that no one else can give you, & how no one else can make you happy.don't just go out & have sex with some one just to have a baby. trust me it's a whole lot harder to take care of it on your own completely. but true you may think you can do it & who knows you might be able to but not every one is as strong as that, not every one can carry that kind of weight on their shoulders, & yes you may be blessed with a beautiful healthy baby boy/girl. but you still have your whole life ahead of you. now i'm not trying to run your life & tell how to live, but if you want a child have it with some one you love with all your heart & you know that they'll be there for you & the baby,even if ya'll break up or whatever.

You sound like that girl Victoria on Maury who wanted a baby and went nuts.

Not normal

come down my house ur dreams will come true ;]

get pregnant! just do it, then have sex with a whole lot of strangers, youll never be scared coz your already pregnant. after that youll be thinking of abortion, then maybe suicide.... who knows, its your life so go on. waste it or save it.

No, but you should die.
p.s. hope you're not a NIGGER

If you decide to have a baby and fall pregnant I will kick you in the stomach it'll kill you as well as your baby!