SHOULD I STAY WITH HIM?

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Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now, its been a little while, but he wants to keep talking to his ex as friends cuz she needs him, but in the past she tried to break us up, i mean should i be cool with him talking to her? My first three months was a lie with him, he talk to his ex, and then i forgave him, i know dumbass, but he was my best friend first, so what should i do?

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niggawitmoney (9329)

2007-09-17 13:12:12

I say you should be fucking me not him.

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niggawitmoney (9329)

2007-09-17 13:15:48

Shut your illiterate ass up for I fuck your dumbass up you
cracker ass homo.

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niggawitmoney (9329)

2007-09-17 13:32:35

Ok i have so many more you hillbilly sister fucking bitch.

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niggawitmoney (9329)

2007-09-17 13:56:32

Fuck you and shouldnt you be in school you lil cocksucker

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ragamuffin (10641)

2007-09-17 15:19:39

I find it VERY SAD that you have to resort to racist remarks to try to win an arguement with a 13? year old did you say. My oh my. SOOOOO sad.

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Orochimaru (9975)

2007-09-17 16:25:09

support him, but if he thries to make a move...______! fill in the blank!

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slackjawedyokel (6678)

2007-09-17 16:52:17

he is having it both ways---probably doing more than talking with her and then he knows youll be there when he gets ready for you.

send him packing.he is an untrustworthy lout.and their is no future with someone like that.

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jamesbeam420 (15830)

2008-08-19 20:20:09

It's not easy for somebody to be with someone, get to know them, care deeply about them, and then just abandon them without returning their phonecalls. He is likely not interested in his Ex the way he is interested in you, but he still cares about her as a friend and doesn't want to ignore her. You have to learn to cope with that. Of course, if he is still sleeping with her, or spending more time with her than you, you have a legitimate beef. But my honest instinct tells me that you're are laying the role of jealous and insecure girlfriend and need to get over it. If you care about him you'll understand what he's going through. TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. Find out why he is still talking to her and who knows, maybe you could help which would only bring the two of you closer together!

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emilyf (15254)

2008-09-03 19:42:23

Fuck that. If shes trying to break you guys up, then that obviously means they are talking about stuff you wouldn't approve of.

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MapleSyrup (17767)

2008-11-17 00:33:34

Yes you should stay with him... as long as he agrees to stop talking with his EX. Which is more important you or her?

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gboy123 (18633)

2008-12-18 12:13:41

just break up wit him. hes just playing u and making your look like a foo trust me my ex did that to me she just talked about him all day so i said if u like him than go fuck him cuz u think of him more than me. so the whole point is to break up cuz if u do it now its better bt if u wait its going to hurt girl......

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luffymaxxie (18717)

2008-12-28 19:09:02

If you don't trust him, then break up with him. Its as simple as that. If the ex has tried to break you up well that means she likes him still so if I was you I wouldn't want him around her but if you trust he's not doing anything with her stay with him if you doubt it leave him.

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KrazzyGirl (19742)

2009-01-27 06:44:11

Leave him hes not worth it there will always be a third person in your relationship you dont need that girl.
He has to go, how do you know hes getting it from her as well is it coz hes talking to her infront of you thats doesnt mean nothing.
Get him packing and find someone better

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Starofhisheart (22416)

2009-04-27 20:45:43

I am really close to my ex and talk to him about my probs, but i make sure to be careful and make sure my current bf is ok with everything. As long as he doesn't want her, then its ok. You need to tell him though if he is gonna leave you for that bitch to do it now rather than later

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lemon (1677)

2009-05-15 12:32:50

I'm currently in the situation of being the EX... a relationship like that is 'normal' - there will be many exes who stay friends but I don't think it's healthy for you. Especially if you're doubting him and feeling uncomfortable and that she's tried to break up your relationship before. She obviously still has feelings for him and he's feeding off that.

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combatgal856 (13140)

2009-05-24 17:01:41

If he hesistates to tell you anything you want to know about what they talk about now etc then you should reconcider because you are meant to be he's girlfriends so he should tell you just about everything if it could ruin you're relationship

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roadrunnerxo (21317)

2009-06-08 13:49:50

you should stay with him. he loves you. but he just wants to keep his ex i guess as a friend. in order not to loose someone he cares about. but the truth is! he loves you first when love comes to mind! :)

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sidknee (27963)

2009-09-14 02:22:47

What are you desperate for someone, jezus get some respect. Go find someone else who will respect you. Fuck this asshole.

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Ollieo (19003)

2009-09-14 05:47:03

What should you do? Shouldn't it be what should HE do?

Like not hang around a previous gf who had already made a play to torpedo your relationship? (How are you supposed to trust her - and why doesn't he get that)?

Like not maintaining an exclusive (of you) relationship with a previous partner? (If he wants to be friends he can invite her out with a group of friends and that includes you, his current gf).

Like checking in with you, listening to how you feel, and acting as if that mattered?

Its your responsibility to make these issues clear - his to listen & behave accordingly. But I think maybe this guy is playing games & wants it both ways. So think about moving on...

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scarfface (27555)

2009-09-25 13:32:36

you don't need him. he's not over her and he probably never will be. dump him.

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Aztec22 (30633)

2009-11-01 14:04:11

@: jamesbeam420

You should leave him you know hes going to keep going to that one other girl he may be using her as a back up or something which is fucked up.

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gabrielvillamayor (32918)

2010-01-05 16:51:44