My dad died when I was 2 years old and my mom finally remarried 8 months ago. My new stepdad moved in and he's really really nice. Well, whenever we're watching tv together on the couch or something he likes to rub my thighs. I didn't really think anything of it because it just seems like a loving gesture. But now his hand always goes further up to my crotch and he touches it lightly. If I close my legs he acts insulted and says that he only does it as affection, nothing sexual. And sometimes when I sleep late he'll wake me by rubbing and gently squeezing my breasts. I've asked him why he touches me like this and he insists that its just fatherly affection, and he's unbelievalby convincing! I'm afraid to tell my mom because I know she won't believe me. She's blinded by love I guess. What should I do, and is this normal for stepdads?