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I am a 21 year guy that knows wat to say to girls but can only say it online and not in person. i get all scared and nerves and start to clam up. i hate it too cuz i know i can get them its just i can't talk to em unless if its online untill i get to know them online really good. im vary shy and am single cuz of it plz help me out comments will be helpfull and welcomed.
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Comments (11)
UtopianCosmos (21505)
2009-04-07 20:21:38
I think shyness is attractive...that's how I found my first love. He was shy and I find that incredibly cute. Sometimes though, you have to just bite the bullet and do it. Stop blaming shyness :D. Good luck!
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JoeyAnne (21868)
2009-04-12 05:03:55
TEXT MESSAGE! try that.

if not, the first comment is right. bite the bullet, stop being so timid.
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melvino (21918)
2009-04-13 17:23:18
GET SOMEONE ELSE TO TALK TO THE GIRL YOU LIKE!

if not,the first comment.bite the bullet,stop being so timid.
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lwinnchick (23363)
2009-05-23 20:49:00
everyone has an ego, and getting shot down damages everyone's ego. go someplace you don't know anyone, bite the bullet (thanks JoeyAnne) and introduce yourself to a girl. she might not be into you but she'll probably be polite about it and if shes not she's probably horrible anyway. once you get some stones you can approach girls you know.
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ToniiKing (23517)
2009-05-27 21:35:43
I have the same problem with you, but I don't know how to overcome the situation.
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tornwithin (18040)
2009-06-12 15:25:27
i am a chik and im the exact same i usually get to know ppl online then meet them and its a little easier.. but if not i get them to come out with my friends then im alot more comfortable and can talk more then they see how i really am.. my bf now we met on msn and he was kinda shy too so we understood that we didnt really know what to say haha we just watched movies and started off from there now its a year and a half later still together! :)
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Prettykat2 (24521)
2009-06-21 19:08:28
Im the same
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eternal_memories (25745)
2009-07-18 18:15:41
yeah dude. i'm with you there. sucks.
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HitlerSausageSlave (24926)
2009-08-04 01:45:23
Never admit that chicks make you nervous or that you find them attractive. Do jocks ever do that? Who gets the girls? Hello. Also, NEVER tell a woman that you love her. They will lose all respect for you. Chicks love the caveman, so stop being a slave man. Take charge. Women want to be told what to do.
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uptowngurl (26710)
2009-08-13 07:20:10
@: melvino
that is so low. you shouldnt have someone else talk to the girl you like. it might show her that you arent ready to commmit to her.i have been there. i had a friend talk to a reall hott guy, and she ended up goin out with him. it isnt right. and i am the same way. i dont like talking to the guy i like in front of him, but we talk over textand email. but the stuff we talk about would never be said in person ;) if ya know wat i mean, and i like it that way. it makes it easier for me to say how i really feel. because when i say how i feel, my face turns bright red. ...

hope everything works out for you!
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funkman (27767)
2009-08-29 17:08:27
@: HitlerSausageSlave
From reading the above, it seems not all women think like you!
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