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Silence
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At the age of 55 I just can't afford to skip my morning walk. I must stay fit, you see.
But I want to do my walking alone. I don't permit even my wife to join me.
If someone tries to join me during my walk I get rid of them fast and make it known that I prefer walking alone.
I choose the woods and green fields to walk even if I must drive out of town to find the right place. I can't bear the roads or parks.
I like hearing the birds singing when I walk but can't bear a dog's bark.
I hate carrying a cell phone or ipod when I go for a walk. But while driving I keep the music going.
If at all I must rest during the walk I make sure I rest by the river even if I must walk a little further to reach the river.
Conciously I stop the thought process from intruding but listen to the natural sounds around me.
Am I being normal for my age?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (22)
It's good for anyone of any age to be able to appreciate nature :)
@: HomerS
But most people go in groups for a walk. Atleast they they have a music player or a dog. Why am I different? Is it abnormal?
I often go on walks alone to have moments to reflect on.
Well, normal or not, I like it alone. Rest of the day we must necessarily spend constantly talking our way in or out of situations that keep developing. So an hour of solitary walking in the open fields does help. Thanks for all the comments. But no one has told me whether I am being normal or not.
um well i dont know much about ppl your ages my my olds like doing things in the quiet..? i guess its sorta normal for someone your age..? lol personally i prefer my ipod =D
Mate it's completely normal for just about anyone, everyone wants to have their own space or their own quiet time, the fact that your 55 doesn't have much to do with it. Wanting to be alone every now and then is completely normal. Infact it would probably do a allot of good to people these days if they just slowed down a bit and took time to just be silent and listen.
yes completely normal to wanna break from all the evils
Strangely enough I feel the same way about having to pass old folks when I am out on the trails.

I am in a motorized wheelchair and I can Still move faster than most of the fossils I encounter - and in passing, hearing their incoherant mumblings about how things were "in the good ol' days" tends to get on my nerves.

That is hyperboil but not by much.

While I can understand the need to get away from noise, I can't grok why you would shoo away someone who is just trying to be kind and offer you a moment or two of polit conversation.

Seems a little rude to me.

Tobra
We all need 'me-time'
i think its normal, grandpa
@: sheva
Thank you, young sheva.
All along I thought it was normal but even the ancients like me get doubts at times!
That's totally normal...lots of people want to walk to clear their minds as well as the benefits for their bodies. I do walk with my daughter but I also like walking alone. Just be careful not to wal in a too desolate area try and stay within a normal zone, no one wants to get mugged or worse Good luck!
Tobra, old folks?

I stay in shape; I can run and I lift weights at the gym regularly, among other things.

New music, movies etc are interesting. It is not difficult to hold conversations with twenty somethings on these general topics.

With peers I might wax nostalgic with the 'good ol days', which only refers to an era when things were DIFFERENT, not necessarily better.

Knowing you, Ms October, I am SURE you meant 'fossil' as a STATE OF MIND that one gets from CHOOSING to live in the past!
everybody needs their quiet time Brosef
Yes, I mean that exactly.

I ... I have a bias... toward elderly people. (I have this reoccuring fear that one day my beauty will fade, and though my mind is about a 9.7 I hate to lose out)

But yes, if people keep themselves in shape

Tobra
People are different, and people are tolerant.
Normal.
I'm the same way, and I'm less than half your age.
Normal to go on walks alone. Not normal to make such a fuss about it, especially at 55.
It is completely normal to want time to yourself, whether it be at the age of ten of the age of 70. You need to be by yourself so that you can just deal with your life and think things through. Why shoudln't be normal?
You deserve to have this time to yourself for reflection. Enjoying your surroundings alone is not a bad thing at all. Prefering to be by yourself while absorbing nature and walking an extra mile to listen to a brook or stream while relaxing is healthy. Sometimes it's best for everyone's sanity to take a few hours to oneself. What a wonderful stress release! I applaud you and hope you continue to take these moments to yourself. Others may think it selfish, but who have we really in this world but ourselves??? I bet you know more about who you are than many of these people! You are normal.

~Peace~
I'm a AB (adult baby). I sleep with my teddy bear.
Sounds perfectly restful and relaxing, besides getting your exercise. Keep it up!