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This happens about once a month: It's the middle of the night (usually between 2 and 3am), and my wife and I are both fast asleep. Suddenly, I wake up from a deep sleep and immediately proceed to screw my wife. I don't try to wake her up or let her know I'm about to stuff her box, but naturally she wakes up. Thankfully she's usually a good sport about it. But here's the strangest part -- for the most part, I'm not even really awake. Sometimes I don't even remember it in the morning until my wife says something about it. Most of the time, I'm fully awake at some point before orgasm, but I am definitely sleep-humping until that point. Normal?
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Anonymous
one time I was having this excellent dream about having sex with my girlfriend, then a car alarm went off outside and I woke up and whaddya know? there she was.
I can be rather talkative in my sleep and on this occasion she genuinely thought I was awake, but sometimes she doesn't care and I'm not going to complain.
sometimes it happens the other way around and she'll be asleep but still "frisky" and sometimes we're both asleep when it starts and wake up halfway through
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Seriously im not going to lie. I have done that. But its something not even i can control. I mean sometimes a get so Erect i can't help it. and sometimes i have no memory of it I don't think its rape at all You have to talk to your lover about it and understand it if you love them you'll love them no matter what I mean thats what you signed up for when you said til death do us part
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I don't think anything is wrong with humping your wife or girl friend while she is sleeping. I do this to my wife all the time. Usually I wake up in the middle of the night because she snores a little loud. She sleeps in the spooning position with her back facing me. I hump her until orgasm all the time.
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It's not unheard of.
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It's not necrophelia. Bare in mind HE'S asleep too. It's more like a cross between sleepwalking and wet dreams. I suspect his wife is a "good sport" mainly because she enjoys it.
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My boyfriend started doing this a couple years ago, I remember waking up to the best sex dream, but it was really happening! He does it every so often, and I think it's the hottest thing ever. I love it, and last night I woke up to him making out with me, which was really hot and I always manage to get turned on before I even wake up, so it's just great all around. Sometimes it's like a tease he does with me, before bed I will be allover him, and he's like 'uh, I'm tired babe....zzzzz', and then he waits I think until I'm more "receiving" and it makes him feel more manly I think....I dunno, whatever it is I love it, and as for the whole 'sleep rape', he can rape me all he wants, I'm his girl!
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@comments2010

What kind of a bitch do you have to be to spout off a comment like that? "Has the world become that demented-" What does that mean? 100 years ago Women had FAR more to worry about than their boyfriend/husband trying to get a sleep fuck. You're an ignorant bitch is what you are. Yeah, you must be so traumatized by a man wanting to stick it out with you and your obviously overbearing personality. If anything, YOU'RE the bad one in that situation in the fact that you're dating men and denying them one (if not more) of the basic fundamentals of a healthy relationship and using 'work' as an excuse. If YOU know YOU cannot be committed to a relationship and provide the things your partner needs, than don't be a fucking moron and be in a relationship! So in reality, those men had it right. You're the fucking bitch so shut the fuck up.

I suggest you NEVER have kids because lord knows with your mentality you'd deny them food and attention and when they would bug you and take food from the fridge, you'd put them up for adoption because they 'violated your trust and need for personal space and because of their habit of stealing food you no longer feel safe in your own home.'

You're an idiot. I hope you never date again you useless slag and I hope you die alone as an example to EVERYONE how people with a demented personality like yours die ALONE.

Fuck you, you ignorant fucking cunt. Go masturbate and leave humanity alone.
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Ok, so I just got kicked out of bed by my fiance and she is accusing me of trying to have sex with her while she is asleep. At first I thought she was making some shit up cause she was drunk earlier and we had a fight. She has been known to get drunk and fight with me and then wake up in the middle of the night accusing me of something that never happened. I thought that was what was goin on here. So I pay no attention to her and just go back to sleep only to be woken up a little latter to her hitting me in the back and yelling at me to get away from here. This time I wake all the way up and try to figure out why she is so mad. As I wake up I remember her grabbing my dick while she is passed out and pulling me to her. So I cuddle up next to her and spoon her while she is holding my dick. I fall asleep like that and don't remember anything until she woke me up telling me I'm sick and disgusting. I really know what happened. I think its a horrible violation of someone's body to do anything to them while they are not conscious. I don't know what to do cause she is super mad and I'm not sure if she is making shit up or if I did something horrible to her in her sleep.
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rule of thumb: just set ground rules and talk about the possiblity of said action. it's really that simple.
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before you idiots (^^post above^^) start commenting you have to realize this is NOT an ABNORMAL issue. It is a REAL disorder that occurs for some men that occurs with about 11% of men. Yes, 11%.
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Dont Feel Bad Its Kinda The Same Thing As Sleep- Eating,Driving,Walking,Fucking A Few Sleeping Pills Cause This.... Well they Wont Say Sleep-Fuking But... It Happens, It Dont Seem 2 Be Ruining Ur life So Go With It.... Just Dont Sleep In Public
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Anonymous
I had a flatmate who used to talk about "sleep raping" his girlfriend. I thought this was all a crock of shit, that there was no way his chick would ever put up with that (she was a bit of a nutter). One night i was awoken by the most ungodly scream coming from my flatmates' room. Upon entry to the room, I found my flatmate lying on the floor holding his stomach (which was bleeding quite heavily) and screaming in pain. His (now ex) girlfriend hadn't seen the funny side of his escapade and decided to stab him in the gut with a nail file! He didn't press charges, he didn't even report it to the cops, worst of all, he continued to go out with her for another 6 months after the incident! True story.
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To continue my point, my wife allows me to do this because she works very hard and sometimes does not want to have sex late at night. I told he I do this to her and she said it was OK if I satisfy myself by humping her while she sleeps.
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What is wrong with you people?

Are you just a load of psyched up Americans whose litigious culture for suing anybody so long as you can make money overrides all normal standards of human relationships, decency and respect?

What is all this sleep rape crap?

Why are you both sleeping in the same bed if you do not expect to have sex?

You both know that it is natural for men to have many strong erections during the time they are sleeping.

The same occurs in women except it is not as easily visible. Women get "horney" many times a night when they are sleeping, and often wake up "ready" for sex.

I am lucky enough to be able to sleep for a full 8 hours without the need to get out of bed in the night.

My wife is not so lucky and often wakes at 3 or 4 o'clock in the morning to go to the bathroom.

She often feels "horney" at the same time and if I am sleeping with a strong erection when she comes back to the bed she just gets on top of me and rides me.

I don't know how many times she manages to orgasm before I wake up, but I do understand that she wouldn't do this unless she needed to be satisfied, so I do whatever she needs for her to be completely satisfied, and then we can both sleep soundly until morning.

Should I have immediately phoned my lawyer and instigated an action for "sleep rape"?

You guys need to go and read you marriage vows - You have agreed to become as one and to share your body with you partner.

If you don't want have sex why are you sleeping together in the same bed?

If you want to ensure there is no possibility of "sleep rape” why don't you go to separate bedrooms, and remember to lock your door so that your sleep will not be interrupted by your partner?

The American lawyers, and legal sytem are just trying to brainwash you to make money - so tell them to Fuck Off !!.
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This is a rare 'condition' called sexomnia (not quite sure of the spelling). Contact a doctor or search it up to help you understand more about this condition and the best way to deal with it.
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Oh by the way that was 4 comment2010
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@comments2010
Find yourself a real man that you can love and trust. When you feel like belong to eachother with your partner you will see the difference that what the fuck is wrong with your current vision.
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It is also happening me from the day I got married. It always happens when I am in a deep sleep. no matters my wife is in sleep or not. Cause she told me that this happens when she was in sleep & when she was awake too.
She also told me that... while happening this my eyes are fully open most of the time. I can't even remember that what I had done just some time before until she tell me what happened. But if I woke up suddenly after that, I can remember a bit about what is happened just some time before. Most of the time she refuses to tell me what exactly happened only because don't to bother me for that. It is so nice of her. but
I FEEL VERY EMBARRASSING after doing that, specially when she looks at me after it happens. I JUST WANT TO ESCAOE FROM THIS ASAP.

Thoughts??
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My first post seems to have moved up a long way and I had quite a few comments.

Please look above for my comment by "HerObediantDog" if you want to see the whole text.

It is so easy to solve this problem yourselves.

The main isuues are:-

Why are you both sleeping in the same bed if you do not expect to have sex?

You both know that it is natural for men to have many strong erections during the time they are sleeping.

Maybe you don't know but the same occurs in women except it is not as easily visible. Women get "horney" many times a night when they are sleeping, and often wake up "ready" for sex.

I am lucky enough to be able to sleep for a full 8 hours without the need to get out of bed in the night.

My wife is not so lucky and often wakes at 3 or 4 o'clock in the morning to go to the bathroom.

She often feels "horney" at the same time and if I am sleeping with a strong erection when she comes back to the bed she just gets on top of me and rides me.

I don't know how many times she manages to orgasm before I wake up, but I do understand that she wouldn't do this unless she needed to be satisfied, so I do whatever she needs for her to be completely satisfied, and then we can both sleep soundly until morning.

Should I have immediately phoned my lawyer and instigated an action for "sleep rape"?

You guys need to go and read you marriage vows - You have agreed to become as one and to share your body with you partner.

If you don't want have sex why are you sleeping together in the same bed?

If you want to ensure there is no possibility of "sleep rape” why don't you go to separate bedrooms, and remember to lock your door so that your sleep will not be interrupted by your partner?

The American lawyers, and legal are just trying to brainwash you to make money - so tell them to Fuck Off !!.
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Here is my situation. I have been married 8 years to a wonderful man. When it first started happened (he says I am the instigator). It was funny. Then, as we srated having problems, I toolk it as "Well, at least we were still getting some" Then it bothered me VERY much. I fel as if I was losing controlover my choice whether or not to have sec. When I go to bed, I am on heavy anti-anxiety pills - plus heavy sleep drugs too. At this point, I told him since he says I am the instigator, that I dont care what I am doing or how good it feels, do NOT touch me or let me continue unless you KNOW for 100%% sure I am ake. He said ok. A week later, two nights in a row, it happens again. I wake up in the middle of the act. I told him he has one last chance - he said he didnt remember the earlier convesation. So then it happens again - after giving him several opotunities tyo fess up - I tld him that I knew. His resonse was he thought I was awake. Now, it feels like rape. When I was awake I removed consent to any sex in my sleep, and that has now been violated. I am leaning towads moving out. He is a wonderfful man ortherwise, and I likely will love him for the rest of my life, but at this moment, I can see no other avenues. Thoughts?
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@: Keilia
Yes, that sounds like sleep rape. It doesn't seem like he has any intention of changing his behavior. You might have to leave him. Perhaps couples therapy, but his denial will be just as adamant.
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I've been Cumming in my sleeping wife's cunt for years, I have many friends who also do the same to their sleeping wife's it's very common but not all men will admit to it.
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I can assure you my sleep sex is not involuntary, I'm wide awake when I'm fucking the wife it's only her that's asleep.
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Anonymous
im a female & my male m8 who's like a brither to me, we were sharing the bed and he did that in his sleep....or so he says, he pinned me down & had this huge erection; not sure what the fuck that was all about. so we just dont talk about it, tell any our mates & havent since. so what the hell was that all about...comments pls!
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I think it is totally 100% abnormal and absolutely disrespectful and a disgusting way to treat your partner. It is an absolute invasion of your body and it is WRONG because it is not a consenting act. I have had TWO disgusting men do this to me in my life time. I was in a relationship with both men and I woke up the next morning knowing something had happened. I work long hours, have a very stressful job and occassionally when I'm really exhausted I can pass out asleep and nothing will wake me up. I felt absolutely violated and disgusted by what these men did to me. It is NOT normal and it is 100% ABUSIVE and DISRESPECTFUL behaviour. It makes me sick that men think it is ok to do this to someone they supposedly love and respect. It is a total violation and is completely unacceptable behaviour. If the woman is ok with a man doing this to her then fine that is her choice and as long as she has voiced this to the man before he takes it upon himself to have "unknown" sex with her then fine. That is her decision but under no circumstances what so ever is it ok for a man to assume that he has the right to take advantage and invade a woman's body like that. The experience has left me feeling cold, abused, hurt and haunted. I would never wish such a feeling on any woman if she can avoid it so you men should learn to have so more god damn respect for women and stop taking liberties that you are NOT entitled to without the consent of the woman! Even if the woman is overtly sexual, open, high sex drive, whatever her sexual orientation may be, out of respect you ensure you have consent to do this. Without consent from both people you are NO LONGER having sex, without consent it is RAPE and that is NOT ok! What is wrong with you people? Has the world become that demented that we no longer cherish mutual love and respect in our relationships?! I'm utterly disgusted by a lot of these comments and by the way some men behave. Why should I have to lack trust and faith in men simply because you don't know the difference between right and wrong? Why the hell should I be made to suffer because of a man's selfish urges! My experience of this has left me traumatized, sad and heartbroken. Please, I ask all the men who read this comment, think twice before you do this to a woman. It is not ok if she doesn't consent to this act and you can risk losing her for the rest of your life, and perhaps even face rape charges if you don't.
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Also you are failing to realize that this is a completely involuntary action. Yes, it is NOT A VOLUNTARY ACTION taken by the man. Much like you cannot control what you dream about that is the same issue for these guys. You can choose to take it in this way if you like (but why? hmmm..)but you will be severely mistaken.
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Well I think u r probably really cold in bed and u probably need 2 just go have a drink and enjoy life a little more.ur probably very anal 2.but mayb u should just try it instead of being anal. Go enjoy urself go 2 a porn shop experiment n life.untighten your bun. Believe me if u did u would b a changed woman...your welcome
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