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sleeping after sex?
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This ones for the women, i've been wondering about something for a while

Why dont you like it when we fall asleep after sex?

Im male and after i've had sex i love to just cuddle up with my GF and fall asleep

its when i feel the most comfortable and relaxed

and i just want to know why you don't like this.
Do you think it's normal?
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Galaxy500 (24989)
2009-07-21 04:08:34
I love that! I find it a plus if my man wants to cuddle and go to sleep with me. I think that's just whoever you're with and if you want to take naps in the middle of the day when/if she has other stuff she wants to do with you. If it's not at night, then.... occasionally (I'm saying all the time) brew some coffee and stay up for awhile.
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Galaxy500 (24989)
2009-07-21 04:09:24
Sorry, I meant to say NOT all the time...but occasionally.
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gotendev (26011)
2009-07-24 10:59:25
I do this all the time with my girlfriend she finds it romantic just dont fall asleep durring sex...
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WayOutThere (27021)
2009-08-13 20:54:14
I'm male, but let me take a stab at this. After sex, it is perfectly normal for you feel sleepy. Most women, however, remain aroused after they have climaxed. They want to have sex again! And, if they haven't climaxed yet, they may be frustrated. That's why they don't want you to fall asleep.

Try staying awake, use your tongue or hands for a while, until you get another erection. You may be pleasantly surprised by the results!
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Deranged (27197)
2009-08-16 06:32:45
My partner turns away and falls asleep after sex, so yeah it annoys me. Or gets up, smokes, goes on his computer. Not very romantic. But wanting to cuddle would be nice, even if he falls asleep
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fuzzyjowls (27298)
2009-08-18 11:55:20
Men and women are very different and we react to sex and orgasm differently. A woman's oxytocin kicks in. Oxytocin is associated with mothering and comes in huge amounts after birthing a baby and during nursing a baby. Therefore, we want to cuddle with out men afterward. It also is a personal need for many women. They want to know that they are appreciated and that they please you. It sounds silly because of COURSE the guys were physically pleased, right? Well, we women want to be acknowledged as being 'good in bed' and worthy partners. Sex is to me, an act and re-affirmation of love, but I still like to be held after. Physically, women can go all night and all day. I know that having one bout of multiple orgasms (usually 3 or 4) only preps me for more. I'm READY for MORE!!! LOL I know you're tired, but try orally pleasuring your girl afterward. WayOutThere is right, you might be pleasantly surprised by what happens. :)
Good luck and happy cuddling!
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