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First, a little back ground info. I started taking pictures of her sleeping exposed (she would never pose naked) when we were in high school. There were not too many opportunities, but I still managed to get some shots of her naked. I wanted to have something to remember her by if we ever broke up.
In college, she spent the night at my place about 3 times a week. I got quite a large number of pictures during this period.
One night after we had sex, she fell asleep spread eagle on her back on top of the covers and the lights were on. I was still awake when I heard one of my roommates come home (I had two roommates, one of which shared my room). I guess I just wanted to see what he would do, so I pretended to be asleep as well. He came into the room, right up to the bed and took a good long look. After several minutes, he left. Not long after that, my other roommate came home and they both came for a good long close look. After a while, they left.
I was quite excited by this, and showed her off to them on a regular basis after that. We still see them both on a regular basis, and to this day neither one ever said a word.
After college, we got married. I no longer had a live audience, so I turned to exposing her on the internet. I hunt for sites that post viewers amateur/voyeur pictures. I've posted her on dozens of sites, even posting graphic closeups. I never blur her face because that would somehow ruin it for me. I like to read the comments that guys make about her pictures.
She has no idea about any of this. I already know I'm a jerk for doing it. My questions are:
1. Why would other guys seeing my wife naked excite me?
2. How common is this?
3. Do most guys want to take naked pictures of thier girl? Is it a fantasy they just don't act on? I know its wrong, yet I continue to take naked pictures of her when she is unaware (sleeping/shower/changing). Based on the number of photos like mine on the internet, I'm not the only one.
4. I have dreams about exposing her to guys while we are out in public. What does this mean?
5. Why can't I stop? I have a ton of pictures already, yet I keep taking more. I've posted her on dozens of porn sites, yet I hunt for more. Why would I not want to blur her face before I post them?
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1. Why would other guys seeing my wife naked excite me?

Sharing a woman with another man is a common fantasy/turn-on. Obviously, it has homeerotic overtones, but is also an expression of pride and status at "having" a woman who other men would desire. Something like showing off a fast, sexy car to your male friends as a status symbol.

2. How common is this?

The desire to "share" is common, but most men resist the urge to do it without their wife's consent. Some wives might get off on it and would let you post intimate pictures, and if so, no problem. Without her consent -- especially if she could be recognized in your postings -- she would rightly consider it an invasion of her privacy at least, if not a betrayal. You also take a greater risks of being discovered should an acquaintance recognize her and rat on you.

3. Do most guys want to take naked pictures of thier girl?

Yes, I think so, and many do. Some just keep them. Some post them with or without their wife's consent.

Is it a fantasy they just don't act on?

Many do, as a quick look around the internet reveals.

I know its wrong, yet I continue to take naked pictures of her when she is unaware (sleeping/shower/changing). Based on the number of photos like mine on the internet, I'm not the only one.

Also very true. You know, you're expressing a certain hostility to her to do this, i.e. it's like saying, "You think you rule everything, but look at this; I'm forcing you to do what I want to and you don't know about it and can't stop me.

4. I have dreams about exposing her to guys while we are out in public. What does this mean?

Ditto No. 1 above.

5. Why can't I stop? I have a ton of pictures already, yet I keep taking more. I've posted her on dozens of porn sites, yet I hunt for more. Why would I not want to blur her face before I post them?

It's a power trip, ultimately, so that's probably why you find yourself compelled to do it: to flex your muscles and make yourself think you're in control of her, when you're in fact quite unsure of where you are.
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dude, let me seem them high school pics
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Hi there, this is wrong for the fact that you dont have her permission to do this so that makes it wrong. Most models who have their pictures on websites usually sign a model release form that makes this legal for their pictures to be shown, other than that if its their boyfriend or husband then they usually have their permission first. Many women do actually like exposure on the internet and would love for you to take photos of them and show them off. Why haven't you ever talked to her and asked her for her opinion on this, how do you know she isn't against this? It sounds to me you actually are getting off on the secrecy of all this, it wouldn't be the same if she knew would it because it would take all the secrecy away. In a kind way I suggest you stop this before she finds out.
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I think it's hot let's trade lol
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smithee
sounds like your the next porn manager of a large porn site, or whatever its called. You're not normal, now why would you do this. You're married, there is no need, what the heck?! Stop doing it and it would be wise on your part to remove the pictures fron the site that you show them!
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cabinet70
you could have posted a link
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You freak dont tell us this crap without a link what a tease, if you want to expose her you do what you gotta do but atleast help the boys out by letting us get a link.
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if i am one of your in-laws i'll have your eyes blacked and post it in the internet too.
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If she ever finds out about it, consider your ass kicked.
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one thing, STOP before she finds out cause if she does ur going to be in big trouble, and she'll fucking kick ur ass.....and btw what ur doing is just plain stupid
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I see a lawsuit in the future.
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no kidding wheres the link, i wanna see
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she will fucking neuter or castrate you if she ever finds out, which eventually she will, you dont have permission, which makes it illegal, and its totally disghusting otherwise. you disghust me yo son of a bitch
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Many people try new things that are erotic in nature to make their marriage or other relationship a very happy exciting one. I don't think there is anything wrong with sharing wife's Nude body with other men looking. The only thing is I have let my wife know of my desires to see her with another man. I have no desires for other women in our marriage. I love my wife very much but it does excite me to see other men excited by looking at her Naked or Clothed.
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@: ewell39
get some help dude.
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Is this normal? I think the drive in a man comes from something considerably deeper than we may realize. A man takes great pride in the woman he has chosen to love. That pride can take some twisted turns and end up feeding his own sexual drives in an inappropriate way. It seems that that is what has happened here.

Your wife is not innocent as some here may want to make it seem. She slept with you in your bedroom shared by another man over and over again before you were married. She must not be very guarded or careful. Still you should have told her what you are doing.

My advice would be to go back to the beginning of your relationship and acknowledge that it just started out pretty much wrong and out of control. It's probably the reason it is out of control today.
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i can't believe your dumb luck. one of these days she'sll be waking up and you are goning to the CLEANERS. stop and get help.
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Post them on the google group "sleeping wife". There are some good ones there!
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I do that too, and knowing that thousands of men have seen her private parts without her knowing it is a huge turn-on. So, I find it quite normal. ;)
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About 4 months ago my friend left me drunk at a bar (I was supposed to stay the night at her house) while I was talking and dancing with an old friend from high school. This man was great friends with my older sister, knew my family, and knew me since I was 14 yrs old. He was also a police officer and someone that I trusted. I was happy to see him and spent most of the night catching up with him. At the end of the night we started looking for my friend. She phoned my cell and told me that I had to find my own way home because her and her boyfriend got kicked out of the bar and she had already left. This man told me to stay the night at his house that he's not expecting anything to happen but he just wanted me to be safe. My family doesn't live here anymore and I couldn't depend on anyone else for a ride in the morning to get my car (it was parked in a parking lot near the bar). Knowing him to have always been genuinely nice and protective of me I took his offer. Plus I knew his housemate from High School and knew that he was also a shy and nice person. He set up my bed and I passed out. When I woke up my bra was undone, my shirt was pulled up, and my privates were exposed. He was kneeling over top of me with his phone in his hand. He took pictures of me exposed while I was passed out. He never thought of my feelings even though he knew that I am a very sensitive and a private person. I now have quite drinking, I no longer talk to my friend that left me, and I wake up every morning at 4 am thinking that someone is coming to rape or hurt me. I am now in counselling but know that I will never get over this and I can only find a way to "deal" with what happened. I have panic attacks while I'm driving and at work. This man treated me like a second class citizen which hurts so badly that I can no longer look at a man in the eyes without thinking that he wants to hurt me. I turn down many dates and I'm not nice to many people because I have developed trust issues. What I've learned is his objective in doing this was to get off on generating hate towards me knowing that whoever he shows the pictures to will see me in a negative way. He gets off on the fact that he has the power to take away my respect and wants the world not to look at me as a human being but as something lower. The Hitler regime did the same thing by publishing horrible and demeaning things about whoever they targeted. Whether you have the mental capacity to relate your demeaning behaviour towards your wife to Hitler or not, you are not a nice person. It's not anyone elses problem that you are who you are. Someone who has been victim to this sort of thing can only hope that one day evolution will fix whatever part in your brain is under-developed and causing you to act in such a primitive and destructive matter. I'm sure your wife will feel the same way. If everyone knew the REAL you ... you would have no women in your life (except for ones that are desperate and have low self esteem).
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@: Punk25
Thank you for posting this story, it really helped me get some perspective. I now realize how selfishly we act sometimes without thinking about it, even me by having looked at those types of websites in the past I have objectified and dehumanized women and I never felt a tad of remorse, but now I know that i should be ashamed of myself.
Men are fucking pigs and you are right not to trust them anymore, but whatever, listen to your counselor, she/he knows better than me. I hope someday you meet someone that deserves you and that can put you at ease. Again, thanks for sharing and fuck that asshole pig, i hope he's in prison where inmates hate cops and line up to give them the ole in-out.
Peace
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who is to say that the people who answer are normal. i can't stand when people judge. what is normal? different to everyone i bet! if most people would share their strange thoughts , we would be awe struck at what goes through peoples minds. you hypocrites need to back off and check yourself before you tell someone they are not normal. you know your secrets.
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I am not going to answer your questions but I'll say that you're not normal. No one wants to share their wife nake pictures. You need to give your wife respect that she deserves.
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