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Slept with my fiances best friend.
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So about 2 weeks ago my fiances best friend is in town and we all went out for her last night in town. My fiance left early and I stayed out later with her best friend. Anyways she takes me home and we have sex all morning while my fiance is upstairs. She comes down and mines me butt naked in our spare bedroom with a pile of my clothes next to the bed with her best friends underwear on top.(Her best friend was on the couch in the other room) Of coarse I denied anything happened and when my fiance went to work we went round 2...or 3 or 4 can't keep em straight. Me and my fiance are good and she believes me but me and her best friend have been texting back and forth and she wants me to come see her(4 hrs away). I love my fiance but is it normal for me to want to sleep with her best friend again...and again?
Do you think it's normal?
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so ur a liar and a cheater? Tell ur fiance to kick ur ass to the curb!
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you fucked up you should end the relationship now that shit not going to be a secret for too long
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just firepoke them both and have your way with them.
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cabinet70
Agreed
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fuck learn some respect
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respect other people....CHARMA might kick in on you later....hahahahahahahaahahahah=]
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violent10dency
Mindless, boring, repetitive, human sexual behavior.......yuck.
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Are you an idiot. That best friend of your up to no good. She may be nice to you in outside. But she is try to break your relation with your fiance. It won't end well if you keep going on like that.
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no this is a very unhealthy relationship! Dont get a fight starded with your soon to be wife!!!!!!!!!
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you cheated on her, and display no remorse, she's better of without fiance or friend...
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Your a sick fu ck end of story. Go kill yourself jerk.
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haha you idiot. girls talk, even if you wont. you have to tell us how this all ends up, you dickhead
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MisterGee81
dont mind these others love what you are doing my friend yes is normal to want to bang her hot friend and it will ultimately lead you to the doghouse but u will enjoy it in the process and she must be really good in bed so have fun and give her one for me
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If you "love" your fiance you wouldn't want to sleep with her best friend!
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lads/men have urges, and like somone said, if you loved her truly you woulnt have done it, if i were you id tell her what you did before he friend tells her through guilt, she might be less angry to hear it from you 1st. and the longer you keep it a secret, when she find out the more angry she'll be.
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Read "Intimacy" by Jean-Paul Sartre
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You don't love her.
Stop f*cking around, why don't you.
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let me start with "wow" you are an asshole. fuck you and the world you think you own. I hope your girlfriend finds out about you so she isn't miserable x number of years down the road. and her "best" friend is not a friend at all. she should be kicked to the curb as well. you and she are a match made in heaven.
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i think you low. any man who cheats on his fiance is LOW> FUCKING LOW!!!
i hate people like you
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talk about droppin the ball there!
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r u seriously asking if this is normal...F*ckin D*ckhead!!!
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your having second thoughts about getting married. your trying to escape emotionally by having an affair. but it isn't fair to you fiance. if you act like this you don't love her and should break it off. for her sake.
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Ummm maybe you do not 'love' you're fiance as much as you think you do because you would not think of sleeping with her best friend, if she found out it would break her and you're relationship and you are taking that risk
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If I knew you, I would squish you like a bug, squeeze the brains out of your anus.
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Ollieo
I feel sorry for the fiance who would have such shits as suitor and best friend.
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Dude, you are acting on your human urges, thats normal. You got away with it, so you're lucky. Don't do it again, it would break a heart.
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Your fiance deserves a better husband-to-be and should ditch that b**** she calls her best friend. Your "love" isn't worth sh*t, motherf***er.
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You are truly a piece of shit. You need to come clean and let her know that both her bestfriend and fiance are creeps. That way she can move on from both of you. The truth will come out. Don't marry her.....if I was her and found this crap out I would take you for everything you had, and I'd make sure you would be working really hard for the rest of your life to pay for the lifestyle I truly want to live. Shoot, I might even pull a Lorena Bobbit. Do you know how much a woman goes thru planning a wedding? It's a magical moment for her.....but the person that will be standing in front of her and next to her, are the two of the most evil people she will meet.
Please spare her anymore hurt and embarrassment, let her be free to find someone who will truly love and respect her. And you, be sure that the bestfriend will probably dump your sorry ass too.......she obviously isn't there for anything serious but sex.
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Ignore these idiots - you did nothing wrong.
Why do all of these fuckers who commented before I have, are ignorant to the fact that cheating has been happening since humans existed?

Screwing up a relationship is the least of any man's problems, and you don't know problems until you actually went through REAL hardship.

Stop worrying if you slept with her; keep fuckin' around with her until you are bored, and if your fiance questions you, just lie your ass off.
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To be honest, it is normal,
BECAUSE you don't love her.
She loves you and by showing it, she believes you.
If you really "loved" her you would've slept with her best friend.
If you can't take the relationship serious why move on?
It's pretty obvious you're not going to last long with your fiance.
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oh yha its norm! but it still dosent chainge the fact that your an a#$ hole or selfish or that you will get caught sooner or later.. i used to be just like you, till i met someone just like me that treated me just the way you treated her and i treated them , felt like s#$%% and i never did it again.
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You are stupid...
How the hell can you do that kind of crap.

If u preposed to her why the hell are you fucking her best friend?

You disgust alot of people.
You think that best friend and fuckin shit gonna last? please next time when u mounting her your fiance is gonna walk in the door and u gonna get a good ol asswhoopin like you deserve you fucking retard.
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@: TheJNY
Us idiots??

Your an idiot you giving false advice because you got caught doing stupid shit like that.
You are a dumb ass retarded phsycopathic cheater.
SURE, cheating has been around ever since we became imperfect but, that doesnt make that shit right.
If you jealous someones relationship lasted then go discuss it with your mental tyke hospitilizer.
You dumb idiot, shut up and sit down.
PERIOD



Realtalk.
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both of yall are hoez. u and tha so-called-best friend. u make me sikk
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Why would you bother staying with your fiance if your "marriage" is already off to a bad start? You're running around here fucking her friends like it's ok. That slut friend of her is just fucking you because she's jealous that no one wants to marry her skanky ass.

You know it's wrong or you wouldn't be asking, so why ask. I wish I knew your fiancee because honest to god I would advise her on how best to castrate you and give that "friend" of hers an at home mastectomy.
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wtf is this ?
WHAT THE F U C K is this ?

IF YOU REALLY LOVED HER, YOU WOULDNT HAVE CHEATED ON HER .
DO HER A FAVOR AND DONT MARRY HER .
@$$FACE .
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Your a horrorable person!
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It is normal because it called an affair. Men have needs and supposedly you don't have the attention you want from your fiance. Don't marry her if you'll continue to cheat on her. It's better if you let her go than to hide this behind her back and get caught by it. Consider the consequences when she sees you with her best friend.
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u should leave ur fince
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your fiance deserves so much better than someone like you
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@: TheJNY
Goodness how can one give such comments urguing a person to cheat and cheat again...It is a weird world that we are living in hey... they say once a cheater just a cheater. If i were a man and i know that i'm a womaniser i'll difinetly think twice of getting married because remember when the right time comes for you to settle down no one will want to be your good wife.Man are such grigarious-animals...if i can analyse your situation it's not cheatin but its being crazy and not being satisfied with what you have...but very soon you will loose her..leave her she deserve someone better than yourself poor woman..you dont love her but you love you dirty little dig..what goes around will always come back around my dear brother.
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f*ck it karma probably will kill you but atleast you can say yes i lived my life as a true red blooded male i took advantage of every situation i could,

would you rather die at the age of 90 after a long boring life or would you rather die at the age of 40 riddled with syphilus because you seized the day and fucked as much as you could

so go forth my brother and make us all proud
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Wow, you need to tell your fiancé so that you don%%u2019t fuck with her any longer, you broke your trust with her and she will never forgive you. You fucked up big time. Your only option now is to go with her friend. No matter what you%%u2019re an asshole. You have no respect for your fiancé. Seriously you a fucking asshole. Your fiancé will no longer stay friends with this other girl and she most likely will never want to talk to you again. Good job jackass.
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These people have no sense of morality.
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Look, It's pretty crazy. It probably makes you feel really horny becuase all the sneaking aroud is fun and it makes sex all the kinkier! But your wife deserves better. You will hold this secret with you all throughout married life and it will drag you down. If you want to die a happy man, tell her now.
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You would like to have sex with another girl than your wife and risk ruining your life and the life of your wife and possibly and future children you have if she finds out later? Tell her now. Maybe she'll understand. It's scum like you that is making marriage a thing of the past. This whole post just pissed me off. A--hole
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This is why I will never date or get married. It's also why I can't bring myself believe in love. I honestly don't think it exists, and these types of stories kind of prove it.

I say you're young, have your fun. But I also know that by the end of it, you'll be kicking yourself in the ass for everything you've done.

Also, your fiance needs a better best friend. I would never do that to anyone I consider a friend. That's the lowest of the low. I sort of pitty her... for believing your bull story and for having shitty friends.
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those women are smarter than you think.
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WTF man! you are a worthless piece of shitzer and with friends like her, who needs enemies!!
but clearly you dont love her nor respect her...
get a life buddy!
you will end up alone in life, remember Karma is a bitchhhhh!
if u care a little for her, be honest and come clean! break up before is too late and will for sure end up in divorce! also dont forget to mention who you did it with, do her a favor..she doesnt need those kind of "best friends"
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You and your fiances best friend are both pieces of shit.
You don't deserve to marry your fiance. And no. You DONT love her. Because if you did love her, you wouldn't have done this. Its not love, its fake, and if thats the case, she shouldnt even be your fiance, and who would want to get married to an asshole like you? Listen. It doesnt really matter if you leave her or not, because shes going to find out, and if shes smart, shes going to leave. So good job. Your realtionship IS going to end. One way or another. You just fucked up your future. Congrats. I'd start packing cuz once she finds out, you're in for it.
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I've been through this same situation... still feeling some guilt for what happened although there is no engagement. We are just dating and it was his best friend. Um, I think it is something that happens more than what people think, but like many other people have said, I doubt your really truly love her. I knew my love wasn't as strong as I would like. We're working on it. The urge will go away if you realize you really do love her. Or if you just stop talking to her. The more you text the worse things will get.
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Normal? Yes. Don't!
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cheating is normal. so if u do it once or twice, then oay. we are only human and we make mistakes

BUT , if your doing it over and over, then theres something wrong. maybe your not ready to get married. think about it.
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@: TheJNY
What kind of attitude is that?
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How thoughtless can you be? Do you seriously only care about yourself? It sounds like it. You owe your fiancee the truth if you haven't told her it already. This girl is thinking about MARRYING you. Why else would she be your fiancee? She deserves to know about your deceitful ways before she makes her final decision. Also, it may be wise of you to call off the engagement. Clearly, you're not very serious about her if this is what you're doing behind her back. Then again, more than a year has past and you may already be married and you may not have been honest. Uh-oh. Looks like she's stuck if that's the case. Anyway, the unfortunate thing about this situation is that it is VERY normal, ... in fact, it's WAY too normal! Cheating happens way too much.
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you have to tell your fiance
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news flash! YOUR A DOUCHE BAG!
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Dude, don't listen to any of the stupid idiotic morons saying what you did is not normal. It is perfectly normal. I've fucked my wife's mother and sister and am still married to her. Just make sure your side kick won't tell and all will be fine. What does it matter if she tells anyway? You just drop your stupid wife-to-be and find another one. There are billions of women on earth dude... and your dick didn't come with a woman's name on it. It is perfectly normal and healthy to fuck as many women as possible. The fools who wean themselves on a single man/woman year in, year out needs to have their heads checked! Spread the love bro
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EatMyShorts
you shouldnt get married.it means your not ready..your fooling around with your fiance's best friend!thats just grosss...you and your best friends fiance should tell her.
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DIE!!!! your an asshole.
im so fucking pissed about this issue. if you loved your fiance, you would not be sleeping around with other girls; especially her best friend. she trusts your dumb ass! thats what pisses me off the most...has she left you yet?? my hopes are that she does.
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AWESOME!! You are my hero. That is beast. Congrats my friend. You have 2 chicks that want to do you. SWEET. But it is not a good idea. Decide who you love more and who entertains you more: fiance or her friend. Again, CONGRATS, hombre.
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@: TheJNY
I'm guessing you are single and going to die alone.
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put yourself in her shoes - how would you like it if you found your best friend and her fucking each other in the same house-- do her and yourself a favor-- don't get married - you're not ready and tell her the truth- her friend is a backstabber as much as you are
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I think you just fell for one of the oldest tricks in the girl book. Her friend is obviously a shark. Just using you to pull one over on your fiance. Obviously, she doesn't care about her 'friend' if she is willing to fuck you behind her back knowing you two are engaged. Just be honest with your poor fiance. Don't fuck up her life because you can't keep it in your pants. You are just going to ruin her life. Let her go. Let her find someone that will truly treat her like she deserves. There is nothing wrong with you either, man. You are just not ready to commit. Let her go.
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Ollieo
You call yourself a fiance?!! - do her a favour and call it off. Do not break he heart more than you have to. I have no respect for what you did or who you are.
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It doesn't sound like you are ready for marriage. If I were you, I would certainly not get married at this time. You need to be ready before you make that kind of commitment, or else you shouldn't. It's probably better if she finds out and you sit down and talk about it, so you can decide whether or not you should be going through with the marriage.

It's natural for guys to have an urge to make babies with lots of women, but unless you have endless financial resources, you'd better be careful. Providing child support for years to come is a heavy price to pay for a little fun. I hope you know about the proper use of a condom- accidents cause people.
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who do you think you are?... watch you end up like tiger woods! lol, this is exactly why im not attracted to the oposite sex, men carry as much drama as teenage girls...ooh well, not my problem good luck though!
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What's surprising is that she didn't kick you out and not let the door hit you where the good Lord split you. You say she understands. Understands what? That her soon to be husband has sex under her roof while she's in the house?

Something wrong with this entire picture. As I said to someone earlier, maybebyou deserve each other. And you might as well go ahead and hope in bed with the friend if you're texting her after being caught once. Doesn't sound like your truly sorry. Just sorry THAT YOU GOT CAUGHT.
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Kinda makes me wonder if your fucking around on her who do you think she bedding down. Another thing with friends like that who need enemies
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Make the 4hr trip - it will no doubt be fantastic when you get there. Don't worry about all the comments telling you off - keep both of them going as long as you can you lucky dog.
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I hope u get what u deserve
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Thats plain wrong she really has a great bestfriend & you fiance i hope you end up alone or with that dog of a fucked up bestfriend you deserve eachother!!!
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