Spooning with my niece

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No, it's not normal, you're a pervert. Learn to control youself before you commit incest or rape.

seriously you have to ask THIS IS NOT NORMAL

FUCK THIS IS NOT NORMAL SHE IS 15 AN UR NIECE

fucked up

yourself** god I wish this thing had spellcheck. I feel like a moron everytime I make a typo. =D!

lol, get a boner and let her feel it, if she asks what it is say "it's just a flashlight"

then put your hand down her pants and stick your finger in her butt, and tell her "i'm just cleaning your butt with my finger"

Flikr you're a nasty bastard!

@poster

I think your behaving like a future pedophile! Is there any possibility that you're are an inbred?

HAHA.

nice, lol. though I doubt that really works, maybe on someone that is too young to understand that but really a 15 yr old? she knows what a boner is and that when u stick a finger in her ass she wont believe "Im cleaning your butt with my finger" though she might be ok with it anyway.

@poster

do nothing while ur with her then just whack off to it later, really it would be very very VERY weird if your sister finds out about that.

he's not inbred hes inbreeding, theres a difference.

And just becasue someones a pedo doesn't mean he was born to a fucked up family, it just means hes fucked up. Not his parents.

He was just asking if there was a possibility that he might be inbred.

it was a joke you sick child raper

you like calling ppl child rapers or making comments telling someone to rape a child dont u?

stfu

just asking.

Hes an inbred mother fucker than can kiss my rosy red ass. flikr you're a pussy licking mongrel if I ever seen one.

There inbred believe me!

Back to the inbred thing, just because your messed up in the head doesn't mean your inbred.
I'm fucked up, as Im sure flikr will quickly agree on, but I'm not inbred at all.

his kids will be inbred tho

i think it's normal for a man to get aroused when a girl or woman's buttocks are against his cock.


What is NOT normal is for a man to put himself in a position where his NIECE's buttocks are against his cock. Hey FUCKER, get help before you fuck up big time. She's your NIECE.

is that what happened to you when you were a little girl?

She seems to be letting you know she wants a nice Uncle fuck. Id get a boner too so try and fuck her she needs sex instruction by the sounds of it

It's an automatic action to get aroused when you're close to a sweet young thing which is why you don't put yourself in a spot where you're close enough to a sweet young thing that you get aroused. Stop before you do something you'll regret and that will warp her for life.

I think it is very normal to get aroused in the presence of a young, attractive woman. Especially if you are in close, physical contact with her.

Following through with your attraction at this point in time would be illegal since she's only 15. If the attraction is mutual, I think you would be justified in having sex when she's adult and she decides that's what she wants to do.

There is a strong evolutionary bias against incest that has been embedded into our social mores. Until we wake up and realize that sex and reproduction are separate, perhaps the safest thing to do is enjoy the moment and then go somewhere else and masturbate until the desire subsides.

Wow someone actually gave a rational answer.

Unless she's very naive or wears thick clothing she proably knows whats up and enjoys that she is turning on an older man. Unless yu think you might lose control and do something you'll regret just enjoy being able to be affectionate with you niece while you can. If its too much for you maybe just sit next to her and let her put her head on your shoulder or something like that rather than spoon. Don't push her too far away (like sitting in another chair) cause making her feel rejected her that way isn't great for her either.

Warp what her uterus?

think about it most of the time when anything warm touches a guys dick he would be aroused. its a human thing

IF YOU're 40, NO.

my cousin and me sometimes spoon after we have finished fucking.

sweet

everyone here is saying that incest is disgusting and that you are weird. but think about it this way.

When was the last time you had sex with a 15 year old, and when is the next time you think you'll get the chance?

last time i had sex with a fifteen year old was when i was 15 years old. And I don't miss it. And even if i did i wouldn't be hard up enough for it to fuck my niece.

lets put it this way, if you had a 15 year old daughter and then found out that your brother was fucking her, how would you feel?

Left out probably

ok so im deff. reporting you for atemped rape!!!! haha jk... you are fucking sick!

hahahaha!!

Feeling aroused even around related females is normal. Acting on it is not especially if your relationship is "familial." Since she is only 15, and assuming you are much older, the power dynamics are way too imbalanced for you two. I would stop before it gets more serious and she starts growing attached to you. She might have already and it may have already caused irreparable damage. If you abruptly stop she may feel rejected but if you continue she may long for this fantasy idea of "forbidden love" in her girly mind and may never be normally attracted to other boys. If she is mature then she will understand, take it for what it is, and walk away unscathed, but there are a very very few number of people in this world who can walk away from complicated situations with no scrapes and bruises at all.

I feel you have gone too far already, and I would tread carefully from now on. What you decide to do is up to you and I would carefully consider all the options and consequences before anything.

so what you are saying is that it is probably not a good idea for him to fuck his niece?

no not normal at all

i thought spooning ment you get a spoon and eat someones asshole out with it

in this case "spooning" means a fucking retarded redneck scumbag popping a boner against the crack of his sister's daughter's ass.

yeah, that's totally normal. Most people wouldn't let themselves get into a position where they're spooning with a relative though.

haven't done any spooning with my niece but understand you. I'm nearly 18 and I got a niece 11. last summer on hol after being on the beach she had a shower and was sitting on the bedwith a towel around her. bbut the way she was sitting i got a FANTASTIC view of her pussy and a massive boner. she had no idea. her other sis clair 8 I'd seen her pussy loads of times before, and i KNOW shes seen my stiffy before through the shower curtain. enjoy !!! tip: smell their pants when they put them in the washing :-)

"tip: smell their pants when they put them in the washing :-)"


OMG!!

Hit it and get me pix.

Hell yeah it's normal, hit that shit bro, and nut on her face......just wipe it off b4 your bro sees it and you have to explain you just nutted on her nose.

The term pedophilia or paedophilia has a range of definitions as found in psychology, law enforcement, and the popular vernacular. As a medical diagnosis, it is defined as a psychological disorder in which an adult experiences a sexual preference for prepubescent children. According to the DSM, pedophilia is specified as a form of paraphilia in which a person either has acted on intense sexual urges towards children, or experiences recurrent sexual urges towards and fantasies about children that cause distress or interpersonal difficulty. The disorder is frequently a feature of persons who commit child sexual abuse; however, some offenders do not meet the clinical diagnosis standards for pedophilia. In strictly behavioral contexts, the word "pedophilia" can also be applied to the act of child sexual abuse itself, also called "pedophilic behavior".

In law enforcement, the term "pedophile" is generally used to describe those accused or convicted of the sexual abuse of a minor (including both prepubescent children and adolescent minors younger than the local age of consent). An example of this use can be seen for example in the name of the United Kingdom police agency, the Paedophile Unit and in various forensic trainings manuals. Some researchers have described this usage as improper and suggested it can confound two separate types of offenders.

In common usage, the term refers to any adult who is sexually attracted to children or who sexually abuses a child.

The causes of pedophilia are not known; research is ongoing. Most pedophiles are men, though pedophilia occurs in women as well. In forensic psychology and law enforcement, there have been a variety of typologies suggested to categorize pedophiles according to behavior and motivations. No significant curative treatment for pedophilia has been found at this time. There are, however, certain therapies that can reduce the incidence of pedophilic behaviors that result in child sexual abuse.

A simple definition of what you'll become in the future if you continue these promiscuous actions with your 15 year old niece.

ya whatever loser he should totaly fuck her I mean why not when you get the
Urge go for it seriously at least it's not his nephew

sick people need help resist that temptation that is very disturbing you should get some action elsewhere

Don't listen to all these hypocrites. YES it's normal to feel aroused. BUT it is wrong to continue this, knowing that it arouses you. You're a man and of course spooning with a young thing is going to get you going ( even if its your niece), BUT you're doing a bad thing and you know it. You must exercise self-control and maintain your decency as an elder and a man. Stop spooning with your niece, dude.

do you live in the south?

rejection in this case is GOOD! REJECT HER show her you dont want it just incase she is turned on by it. This kinda thing can only turn out badly...

this is not normal and how old are you
if you are 17 or something then it is normal

LMAO. So funny, you took the words out of my mouth.

My God, people! Such judgemental bastards!

You are not a pedophile, you are simply responding to a given situation in a way that is bilogically apropriate, but not socially so.

Remember, Romeo and Juliet were in their early teens, and it was very common for centuries to have a girl be engaged at 14 or 15.

However, in today's society, it is no nolger considered normal and therefore there is a visceral response from the general public to such things. Therefore, you must find a gentle way to extricate yourself from spooning with your niece. You do not want her to feel rejected, nor do you want her to percieve that she has done something wrong as these things will also be damaging to her. She may well have a crush on you and is trying to have the effect that she is having as this is not at all uncommon, so you have to figure out how you can stop her from eliciting the response that she is while still showing affection to her.

what is spooning, because i live in england and have different words

Dude people have feelings about everyone- just dont do anything about them

You cant help how you feel but keep away from her if you feel like that! YOU ARE RELATED

omg u sick arsehole! people we may be looking at a future paedophile! KEEP THE KIDS AWAY!!!!!!

firstly I'd like to say this is sick and I feel sorry for your niece. Romeo and Juliet were in their early teens but that's really not the issue is it. They were BOTH young teens and Juliet wasn't Romeo's niece

...but the way she was sitting i got a FANTASTIC view of her pussy and a massive boner...
so ur niece has a pussy and a massive boner???
lol just jks

I wouldn't say it's not normal, because there are many people who have experienced...er, feelings toward younger girls. I mean, just watch the news. However, it is pretty sick. You should stop, really.

This gives me the half way throw up feeling.

stop spooning with your niece.

that's not normal unless you are actually 15, 16, or 17. You are a pedophile. STOP SPOONING your niece, even if she is asking for it or what not, I don't know.

And remember this. Perverts aren't born, they're created.

Wow. see and this is why sites like these turn into utter trash. Encourage him to get counseling or something along those lines, don't just bash him for something that stems from his childhood. You people bashing/flaming him are only making matters worse for your children and the rest of society.

I agree. Look, YOU ARE NOT A PEDOPHILE. This reaction is perfectly normal; however, the LAST thing you should do is act on these feelings. It's not emotion, just your body. You can overcome it. Just...you know...try not to spoon your niece anymore. Maybe you could just sit together. Just do something to make her feel close to you, but NOT IN A SEXUAL WAY. Yes, maybe incest has been overly demonized by our society, but if you want your life to continue on the right track, DO NOT DO IT.

LOL tht was funny :P

this is kinda nasty and tatally perverted why are u guys laying that close to each other in the first place???

WHY MUST WE ALL PRETEND WE ARE BEYOND INCEST AND PEDOPHILIA? WE DON'T DECIDE WHEN TO GET BONERS.

Goddam.

Wow yea.. dude its not normal we all get bonners n all but not with family ..U shuldnt do that hsit at all. U r a gross fuck....

YOU DO THAT?!!

probably a normal physical reaction, but you should NOT have sex with your niece (or any other 15 year old for that matter.... unless you're 15-17). i agree with the moderately rational people on here. you're not a pedophile, but, even though she may "know what she is doing" or whatever, she's 15! it's illegal, it would totally f**k her (and you) up mentally, and it would destroy your family (if not land you in jail and brand you as a sexual predator.... even if she's willing)

stop putting yourself in this situation. make plans to go out when they would usually come over if you find yourself uncontrollably attracted to her. find excuses. make yourself really busy and unavailable. start playing sports on the weekends instead.

Spooning is American slang for laying with a person where you are behind them and they face the same direction as you. Its usually a post-sex embrace, or a flirtatious way to spend time together and pet. It could be a sex act also, but it usually means laying together, like two spoons in a drawer, back to front, you see?

Either the kid is sexually curious and thinks you are "safe" to experiment with or naive and unaware (unless she felt your erection). Either way, you are being trusted with a minor and family member, and you should avoid escalating this. You don't have to apologize, just stop doing it.

stay away from her.

You really need some damn help man! Your mind is FUCKED up!

"naive and unaware (unless she felt your erection). "

Why do ppl assume just coz someone's felt an erection they know what it's about. I was 18 when i finally learnt about these, and about the same time i realised exactly why my sick fuck of an uncle who sexually abused me when i was a kid and he was babysitting had a hard "buldge in his pants" that he made me touch. I was not turned on at the time, nor wanted it, i just wanted to go play with my cousins in the other room. Seriously guys, seek help!


This is not a safe place for you or her, please don't get yourself into these situations.

GROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSS

Can anyone say FUTURE PEDOPHILE?!?!

My God this thread is still goin?

Have you hit it yet?

Okay, it's natural to get aroused when a female is close to you in that way but please please PLEASE don't go any further with it! If you find you are being aroused by this, just stop doing it - if you carry on and she realises, she will get scared, tell her mother and you WILL get punished.

I must be fucked up because this site is wayyy too funny!!!

Yeah bro spooning your niece is def. wrong did we really have to tell you.

LMFAO!!!

By the way, tihs is for 99% who left comments:
People go on this for help, not to be ridiculed. Besides, you guys sound pretty stupid and just mean pricks.
This is... well. I can understand why this would happen and everything. and it is perfectly reasonable as long as you don't act on your..... feelings. I know you don't love her or anything, but still.. Here's a tip.
Stop spooning, lay at them other end. BY YOURSELF. Do it for your sister, man.

Arousal? Normal. Spooning? Nuh-uh.

It is normal that you'd be aroused.

But remember that this child is your niece. It would be sad indeed if you violated her trust--not to mention her mother's trust and your own sense of honor--by acting on your bodily feelings.

Be a man--tell her you can't lie on the couch beside her!

A person's judgment centers in their brain is not fully developed until around 20 years of age. That means YOU need to stand up and take responsiblity.

No - not normal to spoon with niece. That you have to ask makes it way beyond not normal.

I think she knows what she's doing. Get the hell away from her. Why would any 15 year old want to spoon with her uncle? Fucking weird on her part. I think you realize this is wrong, just a biological reaction, but wrong. In some ways it is normal, but others...no. Do not spoon with this girl!

There didn't seem to be any follow-ups from the poster (unless I overlooked them). Maybe his brother-in-law walked in on this little situation and poster is no longer in need of using his typing fingers.

It's completely normal. She's young and beautiful, and she's reciprocally attracted to you.
May get dangerous if your sister or her husband find out, but it's still normal.

incest perhaps... just a little???

thats SICK! you atleast find a 15 year old LITTLE girl to spoon with that ISNT YOUR FAMILY

you're not a pedophile cuz she's not pre-pubescent. but it's still wrong and fucked up cuz she's ur niece.

Forbidden situations are exciting to some.

just cause he feels this way doesn't make him a fucking inbred you idiot.

dude you probably gon endup hittin it but please remember the words incest and staturory rape.....

Well I think this is sorta wierd. But its only wierd if u make it wierd. all your doing is watching tv.

although i think that if u start having sexual feelings because of her then u shuldnt do that ne more. im pretty sure ull cause lots of drama if u do.

ps. dont worry about ur sister look out for ur nieces dad haha
:P

the fact that your niece is willing to spoon with you leads me to believe that perhaps her dad or some other male role model is taking advantage of her in the same way. i know when i was 15 i would never have snuggled up to my uncle...because it just wouldn't feel right.

find a woman to cuddle up with, and determine if maybe your niece needs to talk about what is going on in her life.

lol guys hate to break it to you, it's not pedophilia as she's through puberty already :P
but that said, it's still FUCKED UP

hey you guys gotta stop hating on this guy he actualy had the guts to openly admitt this now i dont agree cuz its kinda gross but i dont think he can help it. i mean i cant stop my errections from happening its normal but you goota ask yourself is it apropriate to spoon with your younger neice on the couch? probly not you should stop before her parents find out cuz that would be awkward

thats cool i guess openly dicussing to the public your a redneck

oh yha, completly norm ,f%$KING ass hole

dude this guy never asked if he should fuck his niece he just asked if it was normal to get aroused but he has to be more spesific like is he just popping a boner or is he thinking about it and getting aroused

also people seem to be talking like this is still going on i doute that he is currently spooning his niece and reading this waiting for a golden reply ..... but if he iss her parents have been taking a hell of a nap

rep

this brings up the question of If Adam and Eve were the first humans and Eve was part of Adam and they had sons and daughters and those kids had kids doesn't that mean that incest is natural.


If you can't tell I don't believe the bible but I'm just saying. It's kinda strange how that works. lol.

Given that nobody thought to ask the poster's age, it is quite possible that the poster may not be a grown adult.
The poster could be around the same age as his niece, and can possibly even be younger.
Although I don't think this is the case, it is a possibility.
Still... Niece = Incest.

Agreed, manual evacuation is a great way to break the ice in awkward situations. Failing that tell her that you can prevent cancer by letting a family member find her bum clit.

I think you should stop, before this ruines her life later on

leave the kid alone you sick pervert.

It's most likely because she's female and she may be attractive, If you don't have any other feelings towards her then guess it's alright. I'd try and avoid doing it again though.

my guess is you're going to keep doing it anyway ... so let's just see what happens? who knows ... maybe we'll see you in the headlines headed off to jail ... or you'll get lucky. ;0)

Well it's pretty normal to be aroused while spooning. But I would stop before things get any farther, because, it is your niece, your family.

lol holy shit your post was funny!!

Not Normal. Don't say anything to your sister, it will only raise concerns and they're likely to get defensive. [And rightfully so.]

If it happens again, remove yourself from the situation. The 15 year old is hoe if she's doing that anyway. But you're still the adult in the situation. She could cry wolf, and it would still be your ass.

Get out and experience women your own age!!

"Yes, maybe incest has been overly demonized by our society, but if you want your life to continue on the right track, DO NOT DO IT."

Incest was not "demonized" by today's society. Human intelligence has increased and decreased and some areas. Let me hint you on how incest was not "demonized".

1. Sex was created to reproduce NORMAL babies.
2. Incest does not make NORMAL babies.

If you think making mutated babies isn't clearly "demonized" then you must be a fool. Whoever/Whatever invented reproduction (whatever your belief/religion) would definitely not intend for these reproduced humans to have disabilities and genetic malfunctions. More hints:

1. Someone recieves a "boner" in preperation for sex.
2. A woman prepares for sex in OTHER WAYS.

This is so that sex does not hurt when it occurs. This also helps for RAPE not to hurt as much. KTHXBYE.

Preparation* In some areas*

Everyone needs to chill out a bit. Actually being turned on by a 15 year old is not unusual even if it is your niece. But lying down with her on the couch, no way mate! My advise, don't let yourself be alone with her anymore cos what you gonna do if she starts coming onto you eh?

thats sick...

no. that is really, really, REALLY weird... I get uncomfortable when my uncle simply playfully smacks me on the butt. I think it's awkward.

uh, hello?! not normal. she's your niece! I don't think your brother/sister would appreciate this.

EWWWW.

I would have thought it a little weird if she were spooning WITHOUT you feeling aroused. BUT WITH?

:looks up spooning just to be sure I have the right definition:

Yeah, ew, just, ew.

I wouldn't say "it's not normal," as in, it could happen to many guys. But i would suggest not letting those circumstances occur again. i.e. DON'T SPOON WITH YOUR NIECE. You might start getting ideas, etc etc.... if u have to just leave the room and rub one out.

ok number one im soo grossed out by half of these responces
number two..NO ITS NOT NORMAL. shes a minor and shes your family for g*d sake!!!!
you need control your self before something happens that you will deeply regret and that will ruin her life.....

ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew

please dont spoon with your neice

what the fuck are u doing spooning your niece and why is she letting you??
man thats fucking wrong and totally fucked up.
MattyM u sick bastard, i'd break your balls off if i saw u. u fucking pedofile.

hey man, its not cool guys, hes asking so he can get some help, dont fuck with him. douche bags

It may be normal to become aroused, and this is why you need to stop this NOW. You don't need to say anything to her, just stop.

I think it is normal to think about it and to get aroused but it is wrong and you should probably not lay down anymore. And you should probably at least be aware that it is wrong.

Soooo, here's the bigger question. WHY HAVE 41% OF PEOPLE SAID THIS IS NORMAL!!? O__O

It isn't normal. Your neice is young and definitely at an age where she is experiencing what it feels like to have serious male attention. Or she isn't getting any at all. And ends up getting it from her Uncle. Regardless it's wrong for her to subconciously/secretly seek this attention from you. As your just a man with horny hormones. You need to stop this before you think about her naked too often.